Am I Gay, Lesbian, or Bisexual?
Some people know they are gay, lesbian, or bisexual from early childhood. For others, realizing a GLB sexual orientation happens much later.
It is perfectly normal for teens to question their sexual orientation. It is also normal for teens to have sexual feelings for same and opposite gender partners. These feelings may be an indication of someone's sexual orientation, or they may not. Only time will tell.
If you think you might be gay or lesbian, here are some things to ask yourself:
- Who do you usually have crushes on? Is it mainly someone of the same gender?
- Do you imagine relationships with someone of the same gender?
- If you dated or had a sexual experience with someone of the opposite gender, how did it make you feel?
- If you dated or had a sexual experience with someone of the same gender, how did it make you feel?
If you think you might be bisexual, you can ask yourself these questions:
- Do you feel strongly attracted to people of both genders?
- Do you think you could have a sexual or romantic relationship with either males or females?
Asking yourself these types of questions can be helpful, but don't worry if you don't know the answers right now.
Remember, there is no one way to be gay, lesbian, or bisexual. Though some people use stereotypes to try and determine sexual orientation in themselves and others, this isn't really effective.
You might want to talk to someone you trust about your feelings. Some teens talk to:
- A GLB friend or relative.
- A straight friend or relative
- A therapist
- A teacher or guidance counselor
- An anonymous hot line
- An online forum
