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Question of the Week: How Do You Have Sex With the Same Sex, and is it Good to Do That?

By July 29, 2007

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I regularly run workshops for high school students. At every session I collect and answer anonymous questions, submitted on slips of paper.

This week's question:

How do you have sex with the same sex, and is it good to do that?

Here's the answer:

There is nothing wrong with having sex with someone of the same gender, as long as both partners are comfortable with the situation. There are many ways that people can be sexual with a partner. This is true whether someone is lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or straight.

Kissing, penetration, mutual masturbation, oral sex, massage, body rubbing, fantasy, and using sex toys are just some of the ways that people of the same gender have sex together.

Remember, it is very important to practice safer sex. That means using a condom for oral, anal, and vaginal sex, and a dental dam for oral sex performed on a woman, or any oral / anal contact.

August 16, 2008 at 6:11 pm
(1) jeanmiriam says:

what the hell are you nuts what the hell are you feeding these readers are you ok in the head

September 8, 2008 at 12:42 am
(2) hunter says:

There IS something wrong with same sex if you are accepting the Christian beliefs in Jesus Christ. There are also additional moral and medical reasons in some instances that demonstrate that the concept of same sex, sex acts are wrong in that they are unhealthy and unnatural. If you are going to tell it, tell it all!

September 22, 2008 at 3:41 pm
(3) iamgay says:

what is this hunter i dont question your religon and i think it only good when there both love each ofher and if it against good to be gay i would rather die then be force bye people like you to be straight and if it is aginst god why have some animals been seen having sex huu anser me that

September 26, 2008 at 3:26 am
(4) Matt says:

Uh, hunter, jeanmiriam, that’s unbelievably cruel and homophobic… It’s not like it’s a choice to be gay, I am gay, and I should have the right to get some information on this crap without having religion shoved down my throat. Please just leave us alone.

September 27, 2008 at 7:37 am
(5) raj says:

i dont want to do sex with same gender but some one is injsisting me to do sex and i also like him. now what to do? should i do sex with him? i m also male and 19 years old.

September 30, 2008 at 12:40 pm
(6) haldun says:


October 4, 2008 at 8:55 pm
(7) Nick says:

Well, this is a response to hunters question. Well, I am a christian. I heard it is wrong etc. etc. I’m just curious. Why would I be born gay? I do not know if I am bisexual. But, I use to like girls when I was 12 or so. But, the gayness grew bigger then my hetro side. Which means I might be Bisexual. I am not fully sure yet. Anyways, I am christian and God loves us all. I don’t think he would put people like us on this planet if he did not want them. My older brother recently became a “Hard-core” Christian. So I never asked him if he thinks Gay people go against Christianity. I was raised a christian and I still am. Many teenagers have become atheist. I have seen it and most teenagers I talk to are Atheists. I still go about the Christian belief. I was born this way, I use to hate it now I do not really care. I haven’t come out yet, but I do not wish I was different anymore. I am just worried about the future and what I am going to do. God bless.

October 14, 2008 at 4:06 pm
(8) beba says:

it doesnt matter what u r b cuz u r what u r and nobody not even u can change that. im bisexuel, so i should know.

October 17, 2008 at 2:44 am
(9) jennifer says:

its sick and disgusting to “have sex” with the same sex. how is that even possible. its completely not ok and gross gross gross

October 17, 2008 at 7:54 pm
(10) CanIbeAnonymous?! says:

Jennifer: that is also homophobic. If you are not comfortable with same-sex relationships or sex, then you should leave these pages and lookup ‘how to have sex with the opposite sex’, instead.

Please, people – Homophobia is just as bad as racism. Take it elsewhere.

October 22, 2008 at 12:26 pm
(11) lesbiangirl says:

i don’t understan why someone would willing chose to be gay or lesbian. we are persecuted and are victims of hate crimes. many of us are rejected by our families and friends. many turn away from religion, which should be a place to turn to for comfort, God loves everyone! so why would we chose to let all of this happen to us? we don’t, we just accept reality that people are stupid and hateful.
and if you don’t like the topics and don’t accept the lifestyle of gays and lesbians then why are you reading the topics on a bisexual, gay, or lesbian site? you must me curious? right…?

October 25, 2008 at 4:16 am
(12) JasMil15 says:

If you’re so friggin’ straight why the hell are you reading arrticles about being gay…

Curiosity stoned the Christian

November 3, 2008 at 12:32 pm
(13) leesuh says:

okay so all the “straight” people that feel you need to bash us.. what is the purpose of looking up these feeds if you think it is soo gross. do you shove your jesus **** down the homeless peoples throat because they have no money because they spent it all on crack? god does not approve of mind altering drugs either… and if you love jesus so much try reading the damn bible. it says that the men and woman lusted towards each other and he allowed it. he didnt banish them to hell..he just didnt approve. so go look up straight sex and ill make sure me and all the other GLBT remain mature and dont go leave comments about how nasty it is or how all the little nympho sluts will get knocked up. we have the right to know this information. thanks.
gay bashing is’nt cool.

November 10, 2008 at 6:29 pm
(14) Jaguar says:

@ All religious bigots:

Thank god we live in a country with “separation of church and state” and thus the politicians are unbiased. Thank god those who are religious/christian take their deity’s mandate for kindness seriously.

Oh, wait, KKKristian prejudices are everywhere–from politics to things my family says to me.

If you don’t like gay people, don’t date one. Believe it or not, some people aren’t Christians–some don’t even believe in a god! Your religious beliefs are just part of the vast cesspool of beliefs.

Stop inflicting your beliefs on people.

There is not a single non-religious argument against homosexuality.

Why are all these psychotic Religious Reich fundies here? Can’t queer teens get some respite from their continuous onslaught?

Oh, wait, I guess we can’t because we don’t fit your narrow model of how people should be.

Why does it bother you so much what we do in the PRIVACY of our bedroom? Are you seriously that unsatisfied with what you do?!

November 11, 2008 at 5:33 am
(15) Azreal says:

Ummm….why is no one watching these comments being posted? I would think that whomever is running this site would be on the look out for religeous bigots. As if the poor kid reading this doesnt have enough to worry about, now he or she gets to read bout how they are hell bound for experiancing the above said topic. Im rather dissappointed in you people…..

November 11, 2008 at 8:38 am
(16) Ellen Friedrichs says:

Hi Azreal,
Thanks for posting! I do read every comment, and I have grappled over whether or not to leave the hostile ones. In the end, in the interest of free expression, I decided to let these ones sit. As a result we have had some positive rebuttals. But I too, am conflicted about it!
All the best,
Gay Teens Guide

November 12, 2008 at 6:46 pm
(17) Mhhhhmz says:

I totally agree with Lesbiangirl. Why would us gay people choose to be gay? All the crap we take and the hate. It is so sad how ignorant people can be. It isn’t their choice, so they should just leave us alone. I went through ALOT when I came out. I am a Christian even though I am gay. But I don’t understand why, just because I’m gay, I have to choose my faith or love. It’s just wrong. I have been with a certain girl for over a year and I am very happy. You can’t control who you fall in love with. You just can’t. So, all the gays out there, don’t think there is something wrong with you. There is NOTHING wrong. All you can do is accept yourself. I hope everyone finds who they are and how to deal with it. Best of wishes!

November 13, 2008 at 11:20 am
(18) Youdon'tneedaknow says:

I am probably bi but I lean more to the “I like the opposite sex side” but saying that I don’t mind the same sex what do people have against us?

November 24, 2008 at 6:06 pm
(19) Ben says:

Why are you all worried about choosing to be gay. I chose to be. I dont care about the rebuttals or the hate coming from these people. My happiness is important to me, I can do what i like, and if that bothers you, then you aren’t worth my time to know. Its funny how only the major religions on this planet hate homosexuals, while all the smaller ones that are older and more wise accept all people, regardless. It’s sad to see what the world has become, but this is better than what it used to be. True there are still hate crimes, but people can be openly gay and people are okay with it.
I have two questions for the people here writing all these nasty comments
1) Why are you on here? I hate to break it to you, but this is how being gay starts sometimes, reading in places like this, you are curious, so quit hating yourself and denying it, and just become more educated instead of attacking those who use this site for good reasons.
2)Explain to me why being gay is bad without religion. The only other thing i can think of is that it stops genetics and the family cant carry on, natural selection, but if you used that argument, then your religious beliefs would be conflicting with it.
Please, just stop all the hate, its sickening.

November 27, 2008 at 5:31 am
(20) Masquerade says:

Love is love.

Grow the **** up.

December 1, 2008 at 12:17 pm
(21) hannah says:

hey guys
i just want to say in response to all these comments about sexuality vs religion,
i really love jesus and i love women.
and i really beleive that jesus loves me. it can be really hard for a gay christian teen to accept themselves, or find where they stand with scripture. especially if your church is anti-gay.
but personally i find that the best way of discerning god’s plans for you, is to ask him :)
i’m just saying that for anyone who truly loves god and feels they are gay, don’t dispair- you’re not alone! don’t be disallusioned by extreme fundamentalists telling you that there’s something wrong with you.
sorry if this doesn’t apply to you, but i felt i ought to comment for the sake of those whom it does.
hope that made some sense to somebody :)

December 6, 2008 at 1:51 pm
(22) ElizabethisstillBetty says:

Omg thank you hannah for that. I am gay and I love god and I was always so worried that I could never be forgeven, but why should I be? I love my girlfriend and we are both christians in a hugely anti-gay community. I’m so glad to feel a little less alone.

December 10, 2008 at 8:19 pm
(23) Cher says:

I am a film student working on a fictional plot involving a gay teen from a small town so that is why I am reading these posts. I am very surprised at the religious people against the GLBT community leaving negative comments. Isnít it best to leave judgment up to God? Speaking of Godís judgment, the basis for Christianity condemning homosexuality is the Bible story of Sodom and Gomorrah. If Christians would do their own research outside of what they hear at home and in church, they might gain a little perspective on the world and their beliefs.

The brief story of Sodom and Gomorrah: Abraham is a Biblical leader of a nomadic tribe. His son Lot decides to leave the nomadic life and move his family to a city named Sodom, a settlement that has a sister city a few miles away named Gomorrah. Two angels come to Abraham and tell him that the cities are corrupt and God is going to destroy them. Abraham pleads with God to save the good people, particularly his son, Lot. Before he destroys it, God sends the two angels to count up the good men of Sodom and Gomorrah. They walk through the streets of Sodom and the only good man, Lot, takes them in for the night. The townspeople demand Lot hand over the angels so they can do harm to the angels; instead Lot offers his two daughters, but the town wants the angels. God rains down ďfire and brimstoneĒ destroying the cities and only Lot and his daughters escape.

First, consider that the original Hebrew text does not specify what harm the townspeople want to do to angels. I think it is more likely they want to beat them or kill them, not rape them. You decide how corrupt is Lot to offer his daughters in any scenario.
Second, think about the Hebrew words for Sodom and Gomorrah, Sedom and Amora. Sedom means burnt and Amora means buried or submerged. Neither means gay, homosexual, or rape.
Lastly, look at the location of Sodom and Gomorrah. The land of the Bible is in the Middle East, then and now home to huge oil, natural gas and sulfur deposits. The Middle Eastern cities of yesterday and today are built on land that is right above highly flammable material and prone to earthquakes. It is very likely that an earthquake opened up the earthís surface, exposing the natural gas and any spark from a hearth or fireplace started an immense fire, incinerating the entire area. Archaeologists have evidence that Gomorrah was consumed by fire, but Sodom was only partially burnt. Did the people of Sodom witness the natural destruction of Gomorrah and flee before their city was totally burnt? Incidentally, the Hebrew for the word brimstone refers to sulfur, which would have been released during a natural gas fire.

My point is that I know many GLBT teens loose family and friends because the general belief is that being gay is wrong, and they use the Bible as their example. Well, I think the story of Sodom and Gomorrah says nothing about homosexual activity, much less that it is wrong. If God didnít want the world to have variety, then why is there the story of the tower of Babel, where God gives everyone a different language? That story shows me that God demands different, so you haven’t lost Him.

December 12, 2008 at 3:34 am
(24) Kelly says:

If you’re here, you’re probably gay, so don’t bother leaving homophobic comments to try and convice yourself your not. I don’t go to a straight site and bash your lifestyle, so please don’t come here to bash me.

December 15, 2008 at 2:53 am
(25) Alexis says:

What a lovely idea! I have the same thought as you, Ellen. I believe that you are a perfect mother, woman, guider and wife. I hope that you will continue your duty.

December 15, 2008 at 10:37 pm
(26) Crystal says:

What is wrong with you people?

If your christians, then why would God even create gay/lesbian, or bi people? Do you think they actually choose to be this? I am a catholic, and yes I believe in god, but everyone is who they are and god loves everyone, and like some other people are saying, if you have a problem with gay or bi people or websites why even read these?!

Being gay or bi is normal to. You can’t change these people, and they can’t change themselves no matter how hard they try. Homophobia is exactly like racism. Hey you know what, there are gay, bi, and straight people living on earth. Snap back to reality people!

Theres nothing wrong with this. Being gay/lesbian or bi, is exactly like being straight. Its nromal for them and it should be normal to you. If its a crime, then think of the obvious people.
I may be straight, but I can get along with anyone whos gay, or bi, or straight like me.

Seriously, no ones perfect and neither are you. Don’t freaking judge people by their orientations, you judge someone by their personality or how they treat people.

And haven’t you ever herd of the saying ‘if you can’t say anything nice don’t say anything at all’, man adults say that all the time to their children,and yet look at this, even the adults say *** that isn’t nice, on websites etc. If you think its wrong why even read or go to the website or listen?

December 20, 2008 at 11:57 pm
(27) Deyna says:

if being gay was a choice i would have given it up the min. the thought came in my mind but fact is i can’t and now i don’t want to. u c i live in a small town in mississippi and my family always took me to church and i do believe that jesus died and rose and that god is real. i used to be homophobic and dislike gays but god has a sense of humor. i’m gay. and believe me it is hard. i’m still in the closet because i don’t want to disappoint those i love meaning that i’m very lonely for some1 to open up to, i feel like i don’t belong, and i have very few friends. i would never wish this on any1 but it is who i am and i can not change. in a few years i’ll come out to my family but for now this is my life try a day in my shoes and u will no it is not a choice. now i’ve got church tomorrow so good night all.

December 21, 2008 at 12:14 am
(28) vanessa says:

Look all u fighting just calm down dont keep insulting each other. I my self think its homosexuality is wrong but both of u have a point all who approve it r rite when u say that the word of God should not b shoved down ur throats but at least hear us b cuz people like me are open to u even if we are opposed to homosexuality and u no wat Ellen is being a little foward I dont Know why she tellin u all this junk we all have our opinions

December 23, 2008 at 12:31 am
(29) joshua says:

What the crap does it matter wether somthing says to do and what not to do in the majic book of fairy tales.As long as you not being all scanky about it,it’s no ones buisness who you have sex with.It should’nt feel uncomfortable either.As long as its not date rape,its ok

December 27, 2008 at 11:15 am
(30) felipek kyne says:

hi u all guys, i wish i had gone past this site when i was in ma teens, but i guess it wasnt there or i did not know about it…anyway iam 22 now in university…by the way did i say i am ugandan, yah?anyway i always tell people i was born gay, i have never been anything else but…but to all the homophobic guys out there..am so sorry guys, coz there is some thing that is so wrong with you, thing is growing up being humiliated and dissed by this and that guy has helped me alot, i wish i had had it different i wish you guys could have it different but it never does…sexuality is fluid, and that is for most guys…. most people dont want to talk about sexualtiy just like they would not say a thing if they thought their cousins were hot or they were jerking, so what the heck they ve done, or think about it, and only us are sure enough and have the guts to do it,and be proud of it,i i used to feel bad about being gay coz of what people used to say about me, so what i did was to start vibing and getting straight guys crazy for me, and you know it is so true that when in a pact straight guys can act lie real punks like the kuklax klans men, but the one on one after getting to know you, they get down real fine, so they are not so different from us huh… and what is this thing about coming out…i do not hear any straight guy standing on a podium and registering or shoutnig out that hey guys am straight so what do i have to… i have always been gay bottom, never had to stand on any podium and say i was gay, but hey iam JUST LIVING MA LYF just like rihanna sings, i dress the way i love to, talk the way i want to and do ma thing,and i dont have to say it loud….and religion,well religion and sexuality tat is an age old question, until now i decided not to think about it…for all i know God has a reason for what he does, i bet if we weere all the same the world wouldd be a boring place… though some times it comes down to yuor conscience, if you do not feel it is okay or right, then it really isnt…n to all the straight guys and ladies comeing over to this site..ma question is…what is friggin wrong with ol u guys…you know straight guys have enough problems as it is, i wont go in any details, but deal with the spec in your eye before you meddle with mine,quit being insecure and conservative..bottom line to all the gay guys andlesbian chicks out there..uhmm iam 22 and it is still wierd some times when i think about me being different, some times i really feel like being different aint so dope at all, like am creation gone bad,then some times i feel on top of the walk, like am so fine, and cute and i can get anything i want in this life… i have unanswered questions, lots of ‘em,midnight dilemmmas, ma own moments of insecurity and uncertainity…these are strange waters we are trading, and unlike most straight guys and chicks we really havent got anything to talk to about ,about our trials,dilemmmas and hapineses,but hey guys this is the 21st century lets talk about it, we ve got the net, together we can make it through life,figure out ol our questions,so yo dont get to be 22 like me and still feel like a teen coz you dint get to live all your teen life to the fullest and answer all the questions you had , coz you weere busy trying to cover some secret, and try to be perfect in other people’s eyes,yet you dont even know who you are…. ma email adress is felipekyne@yahoo.co.uk.. i hope to hear from you guys, i hope i have left a mark on this web page and i will come back soon enough… i love you all so much, may the good Lord bless you.

December 30, 2008 at 11:28 am
(31) You guys are idiots says:

Hunter trolled all of you, he wanted to get everybody raged up and you took it hook, line and sinker.

It’s trolling 101: Post an anti-gay religious message and watch people flip out.

Come on gays, you know the bible and all other religious ‘facts’ are fictional. Just ignore them, one of my housemates is gay and he just laughs in their face.

And having sex with te same gender is easy. My friend describes gay sex as ‘intense’ with a lot of grunting, and i’ve seen enough lesbian sex on the internet to know that it’s very possible :)

January 6, 2009 at 8:21 pm
(32) me says:

just because you dont agree with the article doesnt mean that you are homophobic. people have the right to think whatever they freakin want to. if you aprove of homo acts..thats your right to approve of it..if I on the other hand do not aaprove of it that makes ME the homophob??? so what are you..the straightaphobic??
please, grow up, just because someone thinks different from you doesnt mean they are afraid of you..it just means THEY THINK DIFFERENT FROM YOU. and yes this is America…so long live that God given right to have your own opinion on subjects.

January 7, 2009 at 6:14 pm
(33) jesusismysavior says:

what i looked this up because i did ot know how gay people have sex and all of the fights that are going on between christians and gay poeple just need to stop because telling them that they are giong to go to hell does not help any thing

January 9, 2009 at 4:02 am
(34) kurt says:

im like you, Deyna, although im not Christian but i still believe in God and that Jesus died on the cross as a sacrifice for our sins. I also have very few friends and am in the closet. My life is hard to live and it hurts to keep living like this. Im afraid to come out because of all the homophobic comments, attitudes and behaviours in the world. But anyways onto my other point, how on earth can someone ‘choose to be gay’. It’s genetically impossible for any straight person to just wake up one day and say “hey, i think im gonna spend the rest of my life gay” (knowing that they would face a lifetime of judgment and hate), and somehow alter their DNA to become attracted to someone of the same sex. It’s just impossible, and i have no idea why some people think gays/lesbians/bi chose to be that way. I guess straight people just dont understand us :(

January 15, 2009 at 7:21 pm
(35) Watsupwithupeople says:

I’m not gay (or lesbian) and I don’t have a problem with any of them. I’m also an Atheist. Also, isn’t God (if he exists) suppose to love everyone? If then, wouldn’t what your saying be against God?? Besides, why the heck would you visit this site if you hate gay people so much??? I’m only here because I was curious (and bored). Do you people have xenophobia or something? If so, then GO GET SOME HELP AND LEAVE THE POOR PEOPLE ALONE

January 23, 2009 at 6:59 pm
(36) Jacob says:

Hello people…. I am not absolutely sure about if i am gay, but i think i am and my family is almost totally against it so im scared to come out to them. I have only come out to one person and that is my ex-girlfriend. I told her that i have feelings for my best friend and i think he MAY be gay also… im just not sure about anything…. AND TO YOU STUPID SELF RIGHTEOUS CHRISTIAN FREAKS….. Guess what, my ex-girlfriend is like total little christian girl from a total non gay family, and she APPROVES.

January 24, 2009 at 6:58 pm
(37) Biand Proud! says:

ok to all the christians out there who are saying the bible says that being gay is agianst the bible, well i did some research and would like you to know some of the other things your precious bible says.

If it is discovered that a bride is not a virgin, the Bible demands that she be executed by stoning immediately.
Deuteronomy 22:13-21

If a married person has sex with someone elseís husband or wife, the Bible commands that both adulterers be stoned to death. Deuteronomy 22:22

Divorce is strictly forbidden in both Testaments, as is remarriage of anyone who has been divorced. Mark 10:1-12

The Bible forbids a married couple from having sexual intercourse during a womanís period. If they disobey, both shall be executed.Leviticus 18:19

If a man dies childless, his widow is ordered by biblical law to have intercourse with each of his brothers in turn until she bears her deceased husband a male heir. Mark 12:18-27

If a man gets into a fight with another man and his wife seeks to rescue her husband by grabbing the enemyís genitals, her hand shall be cut off and no pity shall be shown her. Deuteronomy 25:11-12

January 27, 2009 at 9:38 pm
(38) cherie says:

I understand this is a very touchy subject and everyone has the right to their opinion. My personal belief is that God created woman for man to be a help mate and that is what the bible says. I would not personally condemn anyone for their choices nor would I expect anyone to condemn me for mine. I am not gay and am proudly and happily married to a wonderful man for 23 years. In the end I believe our creator will decide everything so I choose to live as he commands. God bless everyone…he loves us all!

January 31, 2009 at 3:30 am
(39) Kathryn says:

I think being gay is fine!!! I’m bisexual, and I am a LITTLE attracted to girls, only my friends though. It’s FINE!!!!! I don’t believe in god, but not for THAT reason.

February 14, 2009 at 11:36 am
(40) Clay J. the Gay says:

To all religious haters
I know I’m going to “hell”.
I’ll love every minute of my fiery toomb away from all of you evangelical freaks.
Much love to ya ;)

February 14, 2009 at 6:47 pm
(41) person says:

what are the sings of being gay (this is just a questing) i don’t no if i.m gay but i think girls are really cute and (other sexes) are sexy so does that mean i.m bi?

February 14, 2009 at 10:39 pm
(42) everlasting says:

OKAY To everyone here, arguing about religion vs sexuality and vice versa is crazy! They’re two entirely different things. I myself am an Atheist, I think believing in God is ridiculous and silly – to me, at least, there is no such thing. But I respect those who are religious. And I am a proud bisexual, but, like I said, sexual orientation and religion are two separate things.

The people who say that you’re going to hell, they’re morons. To all those “homophobics” on this site – you wouldn’t be here if you weren’t interested in GLBT stuff – so that makes you GLBT or at least GLBT curious!

Anyways, good luck to my fellow GLBT peoples!!!

Oh, and gay sex? Yeah, that’s what this article was about….Really now, can’t they just say things like “anal sex” for the guys, and “eating someone out” for the girls? Maybe it’s ruder, but hey, sex is sex [:

February 16, 2009 at 1:32 am
(43) Ralph says:

In Mathew 22 it states:
God said “Suck it” and so he did.

My proof God approves of gays.

March 1, 2009 at 6:37 pm
(44) julien says:

Okay, this is retarded.

Being homosexual is not a sin, you know why?

We don’t choose, therefore it is not a sin.

THere’s nothign wrong with being GLBT, because love can manifest itself in different ways. homosexuality is nothing huge, it’s just orientation.

hunter, you say WE’RE sinning, when all you’re doing is shunning us and saying we’re wrong. Besides, *** religion because it’s all gone to *****.

March 3, 2009 at 6:49 pm
(45) kory says:

i’m bi, and i’m a christian; i have been both all my life. i was raised in an entirely homophobic family and so when i told my mom of course she flipped out on me. (i’m still technically grounded from the internet) i can’t imagine what it would be like for me if my sister and my friends weren’t supportive of me; i still tried to commit suicide. so all of you people bashing gays let me tell you right now, none of us have a choice, and if we did would any of us be the way we are? i’m fine with being bi; in fact i’m proud of it, but it doesn’t change the past and it doesn’t change the present but i pray to god every single day that it will change the future.

March 6, 2009 at 8:45 pm
(46) PissedOfAthiest says:

Ur all idiots, of course having sex with the same gender is unnatural.. but hell ppl can do whatever they want (… well u kno)! and if it’s rly love then u ppl shut up -.-’

March 12, 2009 at 3:19 am
(47) Danielle says:

God loves us all no matter who or what you are. To those who are saying this is “wrong” or “gross”: Being homophobic is just as bad as being racist- if you don’t like, you’re entitled to your opinion; however, you do not have the right to be disrespectful as some of you on here are. No I’m not lesbian or bi, I’m just a strong supporter of gay rights and am a straight allience.

March 19, 2009 at 12:43 pm
(48) SEN says:

ok so for all the hetro people who are visiting this site to say that homosexuality is wrong you should really think about it differently. imagine you are , well boy or girl , whatever and you are in a situation where you are having a date with the opposite sex and you realised you were not attracted to them at all exept maybe in a freind sort of way and you find out you feel this way for every single person of the opposite sex but you realise you feel something for the same sex.what would you do?
would you stick with idea that it was wrong and discusting and force yourself into a relationship that you will never enjoy with someone of the same sex or would you follow your heart?
so you see i dont really think homosexuals have a choice its just the way your made.
so please , don’t judge.

March 23, 2009 at 11:59 am
(49) LiveYourLife says:

I’m straight, but not narrow. Definitely not a bible-banger. I think homophobia is the interracial dating taboo of forty years ago. It’s fading fast. Someday, all people who love each other will be able to safely walk down the street, holding hands. I don’t see why religion–which is supposed to be all about love and forgiveness–condones such ongoing hate and violence.

I’m glad there are boards like this where gays can make contact in a safe environment. Like I said, I’m straight but I’m also curious about human nature, and this answers some questions for me. Thanks to everyone who answered honestly. Stay stong, there’s more support than you realize!

March 23, 2009 at 3:48 pm
(50) chelsea says:

I think unless you have had sex with the same sex you’re just bi-curious or something close to that. I’m 15 years old and I’ve had sex with more girls than guys. I don’t think I’m doing anything wrong. I believe in God. I don’t think he’s gonna judge me because i like to have sex with both genders.
“jesus loves me, this i know for the bible tells me so.” ive heard that song since i was born and i know every word. no where in the song does it say, “unless you’re gay or lesbian.” so suck a nut. im bisexual and i believe in God and he believes in me.

March 26, 2009 at 4:03 pm
(51) Joelle says:

im a girl. im bi. and im a spiritulist. lots of people put me down but who cares what they think? do u really care enough to be hurt by it? just askin. :)

April 8, 2009 at 2:43 am
(52) bumpthattrack says:

Ok, so I just want to say to all the homophobic remarks that are left on here, that there are a few major facts many people miss in assuming that homosexuality is wrong, unnatural, and many also believe it is a new concept.

1. Homosexuality couldn’t possibly be against any higher power. If said higher power really felt it was wrong, then why would this power make people homosexual? I gurantee it is not a choice for most people

2. Homosexuality is not a new concept, and homosexual acts have been going on for many centuries. In ancient Greece, I believe, it was even ENCOURAGED that a male have sex with another male. In fact, I believe that men weren’t considered men if they hadn’t ingested male semen. Many other cultures worshipped gay and transvestite people (sourced from Human Sexuality: Diversity in Contemporary America, Strong, DeVault, Sayad, Yarber).

3. It’s not unnatural for homosexuals to have sex. For instance, why would the male g-spot be located in the anus, if the anus was not meant to be used sexually? =D

April 10, 2009 at 8:10 pm
(53) James Waltz says:

First of all: Haven’t you noticed that 99.99% of straight men likes and phantazise having sex with at least one or two lesbian?
And most 99.99% of straight women keep using and abusing fashion and “beauty” stuff to compete with other women? (they’re always watching other women to judge and admire their looks)

Second: Straight people shouldn’t be reading these posts, as a matter of fact there are lots of other posts where people like these would find people alike… you’ll see the virtual world is way bigger than real one so why bother to get inside a site you know you can’t stand, would you walk inside a dangerous or ugly neighborhood? (anyway, these posts are like neighborhoods for people interested in an specific subject)

Third: I’m bi but i only can have sex with the ONE I LIKE AND FEEL COMFORTABLE WITH and while i’m in a relationship i don’t feel like seeing anyone else… just because you’re straight, gay or bi it doesn’t mean you’ve to be a nimpho or a wh**e or evil(like walt-disney).

April 27, 2009 at 9:48 am
(54) John says:

I have been bought up in an orthodox Christian family and my dad is a priest. Even now Iím confuzzeled of my sexual orientation. Students at school probably assume I’m straight when they meet me others think I’m bi and there’s rumours I think of me being gay. My mum was worried that one of her children would be gay or something and was like “where did I go wrong”. My dad surprisingly didn’t care much, but he said it should be like magnets, opposites attract. My best friend (who is extreme hetrosexualist) believes I’m straight, but I can’t see what’s he’s getting at. I’ve also told him I like it a lot, I was so relieved to know he didn’t mind it. It’s hard to know in my father’s family the son has always been a priest since 1845 or something, I don’t believe I can fulfil this job is there that much shame to not continue this? But one thing is for sure, I really want to raise some children of my own, no matter what. Sometimes I just can’t wait to know if they grow up to be gay or something, I also think of names for them. Anyways I love you peoples here and this information on this site has made me feel more relaxed, but I have a feeling something bad is going to happen to me soon, but oh well. I just hope i find more friends who understand me and can help me.

April 30, 2009 at 12:30 pm
(55) JO:D says:

im straight but i think that gays and lesbos have a lot of discrimination laws against them and i dont think its wrong its normal to do what your heart is telling you to do and i think that if any one has a problem they can talk to me and i’ll straighten them out cuz its none of their buisness if someone else chooses to be anything other than straight its not wrong or nothing it might be different but it makes them happy so just drop it at that and let people make their own decisions cuz if you dont they wont learn from any mistakes they might make and especially if their gay or lesbian or bisexual its their choice not yours so watch out when talking about others it might come back to haunt you or i might have to deck you into a wall or something okayyyy!!!!!!!!??

May 8, 2009 at 10:10 am
(56) fahad maqsood says:

i think this best to do same sex but first safty

May 10, 2009 at 10:21 pm
(57) Zoey says:

James waltz,
I disagree with you. I think it is extremely important for staight people to read articles about glbt. If they don’t read about us they will never understand. And if they don’t understand nothing will ever change.

About the whole choosing to be gay thing… I am a sophomore in highschool and my parents recently found out about me and my girlfriend. Now these past six and half months have been the hardest ever. I felt so much anger depression and rejection. The things that have been said to me and the things that have been taken from me (I’m no longer allowed to see or talk or have any contact with my girlfrined whom I’ve been with for nearly two years.) I would never choose to go through. I would never want anyone to
Go through. No one chooses to be rejected by their friends and family. Coming out is the hardest thing and if being gay is something you choose, not one person would choose this. I have always been gay. I didn’t one day wake up and say “you know what? I’m going to try out this lesbian thing!” just like no one wakes up one day and says “I have made my choice, I’m def straight” that’s just not how it works.

In the bible it says treat others how you wish to be treated, right? Well you don’t want me judging your straight relationship and saying it’s gross. So If you are going to be this wonderful christain, please stop judging me. You don’t need to agree with it. Just accept us for who we are :)

May 11, 2009 at 9:16 pm
(58) Tyler Mck. says:

I would like to direct everyone’s attention to Lawrence v. Texas, in which the United States Supreme Court declared unconstitutional the regulation of sodomy. Therefore, any bias you have against the sexual actions of LGBT peoples is based SOLELY on your personal moral beliefs, not the law, or medical sound reasoning. If you would like to express your homophobic, heterosexist views, kindly move into your local church, where they would be extremely happy to discuss the sin of the homosexual community with you. Hatred of gay peoples may be wrong, but you may do just that, for such is your personal bigoted prerogative. However, there is no reason to be unkind to those with whom you disagree.

May 14, 2009 at 2:37 am
(59) Ethan - Gay Christian says:

hi, I’m Ethan, I’m Gay and I’m 18.
I am a Christian and proud of it!

God Created All to Live.
Jesus died for All.

These simple truths should outline the acceptance to sexuality of same sex people.

There are people out there who seem fir to mock and discriminate against Queer Youth, this is wrong.
What is not wrong is accepting and acknowledging Queer Youth and their right to Life, their right to humanity and above all their right to God.

God doesn’t hate gays, he Loves All his people. There is no two ways about it.

Sadly some people can’t understand, and even sadder will never understand these realities.

Jesus will never leave anyone, nor will he ever reject anyone.

Remember God is Love, and God doesn’t change.

Are you familiar with the Bible in which “Jesus heals a Roman soldier’s servant”?

Jesus is called to heal a Roman soldiers servant, this person needing help turns out to be his lover. Jesus would undoubtedly know what these two men got up to, but through his compassion for humanity, this does not affect him, he instead through his love decides to help this fellow human being.

Now, this is not a statement by Jesus. It is merely showing in a small way that Jesus is not fazed by homosexuality.

I asked a Priest about this, and he said yes I was right, its a small thing, but you get the idea.

How can you think that God doesn’t love All people? God Creates All, therefore loves All.

I hope this clears things up.
To others like me out there, don’t worry. Your great and always will be.
Have faith in God, God will always love you!

Ethan – Gay Christian

May 26, 2009 at 12:28 pm
(60) Precious.... says:

Hey guys, i see all the drama thats going on here and i dont like it. I was only here bc of a research about animals and i scrolled accross this. But i kno my opinion may not matter to most of you but to someone maybe itll help you in some way. Im christian and my religion is baptist. In the bible it says its wrong but sin is sin. I cant judge you all because your sin is no greater than my sin and vise versa. I have plenty of friends that are bisexual, gay, straight, etc… but i love them no different. I treat everyone the same. Im not here to bash anyone because everyone is old enough to know whats wrong and whats right. Being gay or whatever is by choice and choice only. But whatever is chosen is totally up to you. I cant change you because i have flaws myself that i have to change. The reason why alot of people dont got to church is because “Christians”, try to put them down all the time and to me its not cool. Everyone deserves a fair chance and trial and its not up to us to give anyone that. I exept my friends no matter what they do. Just yesterday my fiance and i were at my friend houses having a great time with them and if feels no different. Better yet i wouldnt trade them in for a straight friend.
I love those people and i call them more than just friends i call them family. No we are not teens. Our age range is between 20 and 40 but we all know whats right and we know whats wrong and if anyone wants to change then they will but its not up to me to change them. Its up to God. God forgives for everything except speaking against his name. So you people who come here and talk about theses people you do the math. Have you gotten you alls lives together? Because the bible teaches about judging as well. Sweep around your own front door before your try to sweep around someone elses. God Bless Us All!!!!!

May 27, 2009 at 5:07 am
(61) john says:

I can only surmise that those of you posting negative comments to this post are here because you are curiouse and wondering about your own sexualality. Hopefully when you have dealt with your demons and have come to terms with your sexuality and individuality you will return to offer an apology and best wishes to us all……

June 5, 2009 at 1:16 pm
(62) Middle path says:

Life is impermanent. Sex is only part of life and i think is a personal choice. No matter which category you belong to, you still entitle to live happily on the earth. Don’t forget to be a good and kind person, ya. May you and loved ones be well and happy. “God grant me the Serenity to accept the things that I cannot change. Courage to change the things I can and the Wisdom to know the difference. Take care and have a peaceful mind.

June 10, 2009 at 5:47 am
(63) Wilson says:

To all you religious people…

I am atheist and as such do not believe in God etc. However, i would like to direct you to the page below where it is clearly explained that whether you people like it or not; there is NOTHING in the bible which condemns gay sex… NOWHERE… Read it and enjoy.


June 20, 2009 at 2:04 am
(64) imbiguy says:

Okay, people dont bring up god or the bible.
1.were all gods kids, he loves everyone one,no matter gay,straight,bi or else.
2. if you do wanna bring up the bible and atlk bout people buring in hell for same sex relations, keep in mind that the bible also says eating certain sea food is against god, therfor buring in hell.
so if you like sea food,dont bring the bible into the gay community.
I dont see people standing in front of the red lobster preaching, so dont preach to the gay community.

June 20, 2009 at 6:14 am
(65) Carver says:

Well…Im gay and of course I believe that it is natural for me to have sex with another male. Yes, I would protection, and I would consider safety. And for anyone who reads this, being gay is not a choice. Why would someone choose a life that is going to be filled with hatred and persecution…it doesn’t make sense. I am also Christian, and God does love me, just as he love my straight friend next door. And for those who ask LGBT how do they know, it takes time for one to acknowledge the fact that they are like this, and they know within themselves that they are.
God Bless you all

June 24, 2009 at 11:19 am
(66) krischna says:

Hello…i’ve bin reading all of the comments,and i do agree that if ur “not gay” then wat the hell are you doing on this page?
now I have a question. My parents are Christian, hard cor 2. thay are agenst gays in general. my siter knows that i’m gay and is cool, so is my ant and uncle, and so is my other ant that is christian. but my parents said that if i ever was to be, they would withdraw from my life. cuz supposidly i’m braking one of gods commandments. now wat dose that tell u? dosent god say to love everyone as he did? i was thinking of just coming forth until i’m old enugh to live on my one, so i can truly live life the way i want to. my parents told me that if i was gay i couln’t bring my BF to my house. so i don’t know wat to do. contact me at El_Chris_2008@yahoo.com thanx.
God bless! :)

July 7, 2009 at 12:32 pm
(67) gaee.96 says:

Hey i am christian i go to church with my family. Also i am gayy. I hear my mom say it is bad but i feel that i can do both. I need some advice. Message me(:

July 26, 2009 at 2:03 am
(68) thomas says:

i am not a hard core christian but i strongly beleive in the ethos of christianity.i beleive that jesus christ is the most influential person in the history of mankind.i beleive that gayness is the one kind of error nature is displaying like many other errors and human race should endeavour to rectify it like we are doing it in the case of many other errors.gay people r arguing that animals r also displaying the gayness.but i am challenging them to show me one species who are actually doing it ( actual penetration )secondly gay people r indulging in anal sex.my question is is the purpose of anus is for sex?anus is the most fithiest part of human body and how the hell on earth any sane person can do this.in democratic countries people r misusing the right of freedom.in america what’s happening.every per minute two rapes r going on.millions of abortion, thousands of illegitimate children etc.in the name of freedom all sorts of immorality is accepted.one day they have to pay the price for all these things.may god prevail good sense to all these people.

August 5, 2009 at 12:30 pm
(69) tom says:

i don’t know why there is so much hatered over this subject..but i do know for a fact, for those of you that can read the original version of the bible, do so, for no where does it say in the bible(original) anything about anthing against same sex. before those of you pound me with up with anger comments, look at the bibles in your own homes..the first page or onder the cover…what version are you reading??? notice that 99% of bible you buy today are some sort of version, such as “king james”, or king what ever..now do your history homework..in midevil days, kings and queens wanted all powers to themselves..that included the churchs..they wanted to be supreme ruler of the land..for the most part they did good at that..be to keep the power they had to conveince to “people” they were right and were the top of the land. and to keep the church happy(and the popes out of there business) they made these versions in their favors to keep power.( that is why there is “VERSIONS”) but besides the point, did not GOD in all versions say, that the only way to heaven was to except him and only him?? now where do you get same sex out of that? and for those of you with your what ever version bible, did he not also say to treat one another as you would want to be treated yourselves? to love one another UNCONIDTIONALLY, as he does you? and to JUDGE not one another….???just my thought to this subject….god loves you, and so do i…DECOLORES…

August 17, 2009 at 12:51 am
(70) kate says:


August 17, 2009 at 1:24 pm
(71) kate says:

YOU GAY PEPOLE NEED TO THINK ABOUT THAT!!!! I am not being a nassty girl but GOD did make ADAM and EVE not ADAM AND STEVE

August 22, 2009 at 10:10 pm
(72) Reba says:

There are numerous scriptures against homosexuality. It is NOT from God, it is a sin and not a way that God made anyone! It is a choice – if there is a battle within you, then you have not asked God to make you completely whole!! Why would he burn a whole city of them, then tell someone don’t look back, and when she did, she turned into a pillar of salt – that was Lot’s wife and the people of the city were men laying with men. Please do not think that it’s okay to be gay and be a Christian. That’s like saying it’s okay to continue sinful ways and be a Christian. Yes, God’s love abounds and Christ paid the price, but He sent His Holy Spirit to help us and declare that we are not of this world of sin. We have become accepting to something that is NOT scriptural!

August 25, 2009 at 1:47 am
(73) Aerial says:

Its amazing to see what people say these days. Its so disgusting how rude, inconsiderate, and judgmental people are these days.
If you want to bring up religion, there is a quote that says, “To resist love is to resist God, and that my friend is the biggest sin of all.”
So I would love to have a decent rebuttal against that.
Like others have said, if “God” didnt want these “type of people” on the Earth, quite frankly do you think he would be putting them here?
Honestly people, who are you to judge others who have the same exact rights as you do as an individual. If youre going to bring religion back into this , God is the one who judges, and he will judge you and I both equally.

So I think you maybe need to do a little research and listen to people who have been through these type of situations.

Think about what youre saying to others.

August 27, 2009 at 5:27 pm
(74) gary Collins says:

Has anybody ever heard that a change in behavior and orientation is possible? that no gay gene has ever been demonstrated or proven? that homosexuality is an adaptation, rather than an immutable genetic disease? That the vast majority of AIDS patients comes from the homosexual community? The average homosexual, according TO VERIFIABLE STATISTICs LIVEs 15 YEARS LESS THAN A HETEROSEXUAL, That promiscuity and sex crimes are rampant within gays, that even for well adapted gays the suicide rate is 4 tiMes higher than for straights? tHAT MOST HOMOSEXUALS, AT THE END OF THEIR LIVES ARE FAMILYLESS AND die a very lonely daeth? That anatomicaly speaking two penises just don’t fit and 2 vaginas don’t mate? Has any person ever seen a pregnant gay man? Have you ever seen kids from a homosexual relationship? That homosexuality is the result of childhood trauma? bad parenting? the vast majority of gays come from broken families? that homosexuality is a learned behavior? I am not against the homosexual human being. I am not religious man. The homosexual , gay or lesbian, given all of these statistics are indeed against themselves. I cannot see any advantage to society, humankind, to their families, and finaly and most importantly to THEMSELVES that homosexuality is either viable or has any future whatsoever. Think about these facts before taking on or living the gay lifestyle. Thank you all for your attention. Gary

August 28, 2009 at 9:17 pm
(75) gayteens says:

Gary–I responded to your list of misconceptions in a blog post. You can read it here.

September 18, 2009 at 1:10 am
(76) thomas says:

Hi, Iím 15 and Iím bi (still in the closet), Iíve read most of the comments here and Iíve noticed a flaud pattern in most of them, gay VR religion, lets define. Bisexuality: “The state of being emotionally or sexually attracted to persons of either sex”, it is able to be shown to exist. religion: “a strong belief in a supernatural power or powers that control human destiny”, as of right now September 17 2009 there is no proof that there is even a god, but only a theory of the evolution stuff, most of the “Jesus died for our sins and this is how you repay him” stuff, the excerpts from the bible, the “Adam and eve not Adam and Steve” stuff is based on if RELIGONS ARE TRUE(which personally I donít believe in any but Iím not atheist). to the people who are hardcore on religion, you should’ent be ruining everyoneís feeling or beliefs because you think itís a sin or whatever, but rather if you think it will make us burn in hell, then just be happy with that, be satisfied that we are burning in hell for what we are born with and cannot chose to change.

as stated above Iím 15, bi and in the closet, the main reason Iím not coming out is because Iím scared, Iím scared of what people like you religis fanatics would do or say to hurt me, in bi/gay/lesbian VR religion it parallels to something called genocide. Human Genocide: “Genocide is the deliberate and systematic destruction, in whole or in part, of an ethnic, racial, religious, or national group.” in other words the location and eradication of anything that is different or goes adgenst you. so from a 3rd person point of view the gay bashers/ homophobic’s, ect are the “evil” group, the people who arenít satisfied that some people ARNT exactly the same and exactly the way you want them to be, it looks a bit like communism or conformity.

The main point of this is to say not everyone is the same or how you want them to be, and to bad if it doesnít fit into your 10 point plan, but this is how the world is, and this is how the people in it are.

So you can either live with it, or get the hell out of the way.

Either except it or be tolerant at minimum

Tolerant – “showing respect for the rights or opinions or practices of others”

October 6, 2009 at 10:59 pm
(77) boguschateau says:

Holy crap. This is like freaking satanic. purity and chastity should be pursued in a relationship in order to build a community. sex is NOT A REACREATION. Use it for what it was meant for.

October 8, 2009 at 3:44 pm
(78) Paul says:

oow, we can do anal to!

October 9, 2009 at 6:34 pm
(79) Charlie says:

I think that people should just lay off the gay people. It doesnt matter what orientation you are, just as long as your a good person. God loves everybody, not just straight people. I go to church and pray just like everybody else, I’m gay and God has blessed me in so many ways that its unbelievable. I think of it like this. THe only person that has the right to judge you is God, screw what everybody else thinks. Their opinion does not matter, as long as you are happy and obeying the law, thats all that matters.

October 20, 2009 at 8:55 pm
(80) Sean says:

I love it how this simple question was asked over a year ago, and the most comments I have seen while browsing through is about religion. . . You know, Christians, preach truth not opinion. You believe the Bible is true. Stop twisting it around.

October 25, 2009 at 7:13 pm
(81) Breanna says:

Only have sex with the person you love.

October 31, 2009 at 11:53 pm
(82) Dave F says:

Years ago- I was disowned by my extremely right wing Roman Catholic family…I lived through the guilt (of course I’m catholic) the shame, the suicide feelings…I figured I’d stay alone for the rest of my life. Few years ago I’ve met someone extremely special, kind and giving. We have been together ever since and these past few years have been the happiest in my life..quite frankly, we are not that sexual- I simply prefer the company of another guy. Is this so terrible? for all of you who are keen to judge, you cannot judge unless you are in somebody else’s shoes..you don’t know us, our life stories, etc etc etc so how in the world can you judge me??? is our lifestyle the perfect christian model? NO but does that really exist in your own life? think about it? – doubt it.

November 3, 2009 at 3:09 am
(83) Universal Skeptic says:

im really getting sick of other so-called “christians” coming onto gay sites and bashing people, but its also annoying that to gay people generalize all believers into the annoying-hater kind of christian.

so says the black gay christian teenager living in a mainly white town…

November 9, 2009 at 2:23 am
(84) Paul says:

Maybe it will be good to go to hell cause we won’t be around all of the haters, just the people that accept us. People need to focus on themselves instead of other people’s business. Does it make you feel good inside to push someone to the point of suicide? Being gay is not a choice, and if the world was more accepting of this fact, more and more teens would make it through and celebrate their sexuality rather than hiding it to the point of killing themselves rather than living in this f**** up world. Please, just stop hating and start loving everyone for who they are!

November 14, 2009 at 4:15 am
(85) Allie says:

I am straight and I looked at this arcticle to see how gay people do each other but this was beyond watered down. Then I read the comments to see if someone had explained it but no its just people bashing each other about religion. So I get gay guys have anual sex but how do lesbiens do each other, can someone please tell me.

December 4, 2009 at 3:35 pm
(86) courtney says:

I dont understand how people could write some of the stuff they did here. Im lesbian and i have a girlfriend and i was raise to believe in god and went to church every sunday for years. when i came out i had to deal with people say this stuff to my face and behind my back infact one of my best friend became my worst enemy. and all i have to say to those that dont like it dont do it. and god loves all people. i believe that god wouldnt have made anyone gay or bi or lesbian if he didnt approve of it. so people that dont approve and say god is going to punish us then whatever cuz i would much rather be happy for something i know is write then be miserable and get in to heaven because i pretended to be someone i wasnt.

December 17, 2009 at 11:43 pm
(87) Kelly says:

What it really boils down to, is people learning to mind their own business, and not to let themselves be affected by what others are doing.

Did you know that gay men and women are statistically less likely to commit a crime than a straight man or woman? Did you know that Atheists are less likely to commit a crime than someone who shares religeous belief?
Heaven forbid we should have those homos and nonbelievers around!

It seems that the only people causing any trouble are a bunch of straight believers. All i’ve ever learned about god my whole life, is that he hates. God hates this and he hates that. And believers tend to act on that, doing their ‘gods’ bidding by destroying happy lives.

Why does it bother you, in Any Way, what your neighbors are up to? Is it causing you physical pain to see two young men or women holding hands? Did seeing that girly guy walking down the hall break your leg?..

If you have faith, of any sort, you could show your faith with love. Don’t hate that homo for the way he was born, hell, it’s because of a couple of straight kids he’s here. Smile, and understand that the universe has laid a different path for him, and the only path one should ever judge, is his own.

or, you could do the polite thing, and keep quiet lest you have something nice to say.


December 18, 2009 at 9:55 am
(88) daniel says:

well im 14 and i dont no if being bisexual is allegal in australia so i have been told but im already getting the feeling of doing things with guys i see and im still virgin dont worry but um yeah i see heaps of guys at school that im wishing one day ill be their boy friend but yeah im bit wacko any way im looking at a guy already and he is hott as we talk alot on msn we both do nude cam where we get naked and stuff and im thinking this is great i hope we both get to go out but it seems as if he is only interested in web cam on msn any way i still love him i go out with another kid same age as me and we kiss and play in bed but no sex was aloud i said. but the thing is i dont no if i should go back to the guy i love coz if i do i might get aids or something you know so i guess i will just stay with the one i play with alot but yeah we have fun and that i just wanna know if there is a possiblity of getting any diseases

December 31, 2009 at 1:19 pm
(89) Jay says:

My question that never gets a real answer at church is this. When does a person official get the tag of being gay? If a person goes their whole life loving the same sex but not having sex, are they still gay? I really don’t care what is said about me and I am happy with my choices and my beliefs, but there are big holes in theology that no one has a straight answer for. No pun intended

January 7, 2010 at 4:42 pm
(90) Richard says:

I am a gay teenager and I have been bullied for being gay, as I am sure many homosexual people have been. The point that I cannot get my head around is that how people that do not fully understand homosexuality seem as though they can bully people about being gay, when they might not even know for themselfs yet. Gay people do not have the choice to fall in love with the same sex it just happens, why can’t people understand that. Also where religion is involved the same applies, if you do not understand it fully why pass judgement, are you not ment to “forgive” and “accept” people. Why can’t people be themselfs, or feel confident enough to be themselfs. Because some “HOMOPHOBIC” PEOPLE BULLY THEM, thats what they are, childish playground bullies. To that I say grow up! Homophobia is just as bad as racism, so why do can people accept people from a differnt race but not people that fall in love with the same sex. People should not feel scared in thier own body of what might happen to them for them being a bit different, why should they! It is their life, no one else’s.

January 12, 2010 at 7:16 pm
(91) XXXXXX says:

Just leave us alone. Why do you come here to say Homphobic things?

January 13, 2010 at 6:34 pm
(92) greg says:

its ok to be gay i hate homophobic bullyin im bi and if any1 want to add me its greg-whitaker@hotmail.co.uk :) x x

January 14, 2010 at 6:17 am
(93) Samyra says:

I’m really glad these kinds of websites exsist for gay teens, but after reading the first two comments, i was upset at how this safe space was invaded to leave a hurtful remark. Humans have this natural urge to butt into things that don’t correspond to them. when people are not happy with themselves or the life they lead, they console themselves by putting down people who do find pride with who they are and aren’t afraid to express their identity. That is what bothers conservative people the most. They are eager to crush the feelings of a proud LGBT person so they can feel better about their own unsatisfying life. Call me crazy, but the word envy fits very well. People who tend to hate on the gay community are closeted. It is not uncommon for gay bashers to be gay themselves, it’s just that they are closeted gays. They are angry with gay people for being proud and with themselves for being to scared to come out. So unfortunately they take out their rage on openly gay individuals. Very sad and very true. It saddens me to know that i probably won’t live for the day when homophobia is a part of the past, because that takes generations of work. I’m from California, which claims to be liberal but gay marriage is still illegal here. I console myself by picturing a distant future where in classroom settings students will only read about these absurdities, like today we look back on segregation, slavery, etc. Peace to all, let’s hope that day comes soon.

January 28, 2010 at 7:00 pm
(94) abby says:

i belive people should be able to love who they want.god wont care,hes not like that,he wont send someone to hell for loving someone.that wont be right.so tell me if god is so caring like everyone saids will he realy do that?i dont think so.also if rasism,and sexism is wrong why is homophobia,and jokes on mental disabilities ok.its just wrong.

January 31, 2010 at 2:37 pm
(95) :l says:

I am a twelve year old bisexual girl. I’m not exactly sure how to tell people. Any advice?

February 7, 2010 at 7:17 am
(96) johnny says:

i happen to be in a gay relationship, and im 16 at first i felt different being with a guy, everyone wanting to fight me but i stayed away from those punks, they couldnt stop me from being with my man, me and my guy friend usually always hang out, because i feel better with him around. someone i can trust, me i love him and there is nothing going to change that.

February 19, 2010 at 2:30 am
(97) TheReapperOfSarrow says:

Jesus was a carpenter who talked to much
O & I’m not racest I hate every one equaly
& I’m straight … So haha Im thowing the biggest party after I kick Lusifer’s ass & take my rightfull places on my throne

February 28, 2010 at 11:00 pm
(98) Grrrrrrr says:

For those of you saying it is wrong because of christianity: Chistianity follows the words of Christ. Christ never said a word about it. If you see anything written in a christian bible that says anything about gays, a regular person wrote it. A lot of the bible is just stories written by man, and alomost all made up, or highly modified true stories in attempt to teach there children, and other people what they think is right, and what they think God would want them to do. I am not going against your beliefs, and I am sorry for any offence torwards christians. I am not trying to tell you guys what to believe ether. I am just pointing that stuff out to you guys. I am gay, and I am christian. I am not hurting anyone by being gay. There is nothing wrong with it. It is just how God made us. As for the people who said bad things about the person who wrote this stuff, it’s not true. It is very helpfull information. If you have anything bad to say about someone gay, or not gay, keep it to yourself. It’s the right thing to do. You are really hurting peoples feelings, including mine by saying that hurtfull stuff. I can’t even walk outside any more without hearing negitive stuff about gay people. Even if you just use the word gay as in ” Oh that’s so gay ” it is still hurtfull, because your basicaly replacing the word stupid with gay. Gays are not stupid! You guys just need to be treated for homophobia or something! Just please, stop with your insults already! It is NOT making gay people become straight, if thats what your trying to do.

March 2, 2010 at 4:56 am
(99) deeptha says:

This is very personaland depending on individuals, Personal likings cant related as common issues. Some are like masala some are having steaks, there are people who prefer masala and steak both, but everybody like to tast evryting. Lets enjoy the life by having everythig and anything. But be wise and safer

March 4, 2010 at 10:11 pm

im strait but if u dont think this is right to god then why the **** r u here because it is fine oh and if it is wrong youre going to hell to u lazy *** *****!!!! so suck that!!

March 5, 2010 at 12:02 am
(101) jenn says:

In my personal opinion,because i am a lesbian….is that you can’t help who you love,nomatter if you are a christian or satanic or nothing. And if you love that person it shouldn’t matter what they are ither. I respect people’s words but we should not be discriminated for how we feel about somebody. What if they were the only person you had in the world.I would hold on tighter than before an never let go! You should be ashamed of your selfs…it is nothing we cannot controle as a society….as humans

March 5, 2010 at 4:16 pm
(102) Joe says:

I’m bi, and was raised as Catholic, but gave it up because of the **** that they teach about gay sex and stuff. if god made us in his image, why did he make LGBT people??? and if u love sum1, why cant u marry them, have sex with them and stuff???

March 8, 2010 at 6:00 pm
(103) JustSayin' says:

JustSayin’, to all the Religious biggots: “Judge not lest ye be judges yourself” – Matthew 7:1

March 13, 2010 at 2:19 am
(104) Tim says:

Wow there is certainly a lot of negative energy on this site lol, but I’m gonna have to side with my fellow gay people. I really am tired of all this crap that we get and stuff, we don’t do anything bad to people (well most of us dont) and yet we get put down and beat up for who we are. But I do wanna know how we got on the topic from a website giving proper advice and stuff about sex!!!

March 14, 2010 at 6:39 pm
(105) proof says:

I go to a Christian school and we get taught about being gay lesbian and straight so that just proves that god doesnt care if you are leisben or gay because if he did we would be discrimenated but im leisben and if they were all “anti leisben and gay” I wouldnt go to that school and for all you extremly religous people you need to back off.

March 29, 2010 at 8:27 pm
(106) Bobbit says:

Wow, I’m impressed by the amount of controversy that this has engendered. Okay, simply put, if you think that everything is wrong about two people of the same gender being together, don’t get together with someone of the same gender. If you think that same-sexual sex is wrong, don’t have same-sexual sex. If you believe it is wrong for religious reasons, then quite simply, don’t do it. Don’t spend your time surfing websites about same-sexual relationships. This implies that you may very well be curious about the matter. Stop spouting nasty messages.

March 30, 2010 at 6:13 pm
(107) Daisy says:

Hi, My name is Anessa and I’m a girl,
I’m 25 and I too do not believe that there is anything wrong with two people of the same gender to have sex, I mean I have sex with other women very often and I do enjoy it, now personally, I think gay sex, like guy on guy sex , Is just gross. Lol. But I mean I have every right to have sex with my own sex, and I enjoy it and that’s all that counts. Right? I mean, I love by girlfriend very much and we have the right I share love, and have sex. There’s not really anything wrong with that. I just wanted to share my beliefs, hehe. I just think that if I like girls, I should have the right to have casual sex with them, as well as romantic, pleasureable sex with them.

April 24, 2010 at 8:26 am
(108) Cj says:

Hi all

I’m a 16 yr old male who is unsure of his sexuality. I don’t know if I am gay or not I was with a guy from school and we had sex but my dad always said it’s not gay if u don’t take it u just give it. I’ve also heard if u don’t push back onto the penis then it’s not gay Is this true


April 24, 2010 at 2:21 pm
(109) John says:

I think if u like to do other gays, then you must be gay. I know this becaus i am gay too.

April 27, 2010 at 3:19 pm
(110) James; Straight and accepting says:

i have many friends and family members who are gay and lesbian, so i guess alot of my opinions have to do with the amount of exposure i had to other orientations.

anyways i believe that those of you who are gay are very brave and strong willed to be open about it. peace and love to ya. oh and im an atheist so i dont really believe in the whole you’re going to hell and bull like that. i dont believe in hell either. when we die, we go into the ground and rot. thats it. but i think its funny…well not FUNNY but ironic that its not just christians who are against GLBT because fellow atheists are against it too which i find disgusting. seriously folks, its their choice and if you are going to pass judgement i believe there is something wrong with YOU.

April 28, 2010 at 1:03 pm
(111) abcde says:

if, by christian beliefs, god created us all, he must have made some people homosexual and some heterosexual. my views say that it doesnt matter who we are, whatever are gender or sexuality.

May 16, 2010 at 2:10 am
(112) Dvashkai says:

ok im gay (yay) no what i cant understand is if “gay” is a sin, then would it not follow suit that searching or clicking a “gay link” would also be sinful so what are you hardcore christians who have nothing better to do hiding, gays are patient patient people we can wait for you to come out forever, but in the mean time, stop reading up on gay topics, and go to church or something, you obviously dont listen well when jesus speaks, thanks!

May 18, 2010 at 11:56 am
(113) ELOCHUKWU ANAS says:

Was sodomy not the sin for which Soddom and Gommorrah were destroyed?

May 30, 2010 at 5:44 pm
(114) Notachristian says:

Wow, I can’t believe how stupid all of you are. Goddamn christians don’t know anything. There’s no bearded guy in the sky telling you that gay is bad. Grow up and get your head out of a fairytale.

June 4, 2010 at 3:54 am
(115) deeply in love... says:

first of all..
fr ol “straight n ever-so-correct” ppl.. F****g stop poking ur noses in our prsnl matters.. it is none of our business dat wat u do at nite in ur bed wid ur gf/bf.. n same implies to u ppl.. we hv same rights n duties lyk a fundamental citizen regardless of our sexualities… we hav frnds, families n of course our own faith n religion.. wat wrong or right i do is between me n my god n none of u cheap orthodox religious freaks …so even if i go to hell or nywher it shudnt affect u.. u ppl go bettr take care of yourslf.. n do remembr its nt ur daddy who is feeding us dat we shud listen or agree to watevr narrow n hateful notions u hv bout us.. GET A LYF.. n stop messing others.. bcuz u ppl cnt stop wat god has created.. so stop interfering on name of god fr us.. remebr its just a matter of tym when we wud be on streets freely lyk u are widout bein afraid or embarassed..

June 5, 2010 at 12:21 am
(116) Ricky Martin says:

Well…not to be weird..but I haven’t ever bottomed before…is it painful?
I let my guy touch me there and yeah…it’s weird to me bc I haven’t ever…ya know….tried it. Soooooo…what is it like?

June 13, 2010 at 8:32 pm
(117) real says:

im sorry about all the fake Christians comments. they give both gays and real Jesus lovin christians a bad name. i cant juge you cuz i dont know you feel or y u feel that way. but you cant serve God and the flesh. if you cant accept that i dont care Jesus and i still love you

June 18, 2010 at 10:42 pm
(118) Madhushan says:

“Religion is for the uneducated masses to govern their petty lives.”
End of story. :)

June 24, 2010 at 6:06 am
(119) Victoria says:

I’m with JasMil15

June 25, 2010 at 1:34 pm
(120) Konata says:

im bi and whilst im not a christian i have prayed to whoever is up there saying things like “if you send me a sign and prove who you are i will believe” personally i believe EVERYTHING should be equal so we’re no better than animals just as deities should not be concidered better than us, if god exists, sends me a sign and proves its him i will believe in and respect him but i wont worship him. i have nothing against christians and i wish they would just leave us alone! (although there are good christians who don’t descriminate and i thank you for being fair and just)

now to the actual question that started this,

there are multiple ways to have same-sex sex,

guys may want to have anal, or head, finger/fist eachother’s anus’, you may even want to use toys such as dildos or vibrators (yes you heard right, dont judge) or masturbation sleeves, some people may even like bdsm (if you don’t know google it)

whilst women may finger eachother, lick eachother out, again, use toys, play with eachother’s breasts/nipples and if you like being dominated you may also like bdsm aswell.

hope that helped, if you want to contact me email me at
muzza299@hotmail.com if you send hatemail i’ll just delete it and flag ur address.

June 29, 2010 at 12:54 am
(121) Sarah says:

Personally I wish people would realize that it has been proven that by the time a person has reached the age of three or four the part of their brain that tells them who they will love is already set in their brain. Almost like a “love map”. I am personally straight but I have a couple gay and bisexual friends and I know gay and bisexual couples who are adults and are serious partners. People are people whether they are whether they are heterosexual, bisexual, homosexual, asexual, transgender. So I really can’t understand why people feel the need to hate on people just because of who they love! I am glad there are resources online for gay or bisexual teens who want to have sex or do sexual things with someone that is their gender! There are so many resources for straight teens but not enough for gay or bisexual teens or adults for that matter. And to all these “Christian People” you really have a narrow-minded view of the world. Many famous and influential people are gay or bisexual and they seem to have gotten way farther in life then you ever will. Just to name a few, Neil Patrick Harris, Lady Gaga came out that she was bisexual, Sir Elton John, Rosie O’Donnel, Clay Aiken, Ellen DeGeneres, Jonathan Adler, Chris Colfer, Meredith Baxter, Chad Allen, John Amaechi, Dan Butler, Mary Cheney, Marc Cherry, Portia de Rossi, Angelina Jolie, Stephen Fry, Jonathan Groff, Tim Gunn, T.R. Knight, Adam Lambert, George Michael, Cynthia Nixon, Suze Orman, David Hyde Pierce, George Takei, B.D. Wong, and that’s only naming a few! So as you can see that being gay or bisexual IS NOT WRONG! It is perfectly normal for people to be gay or bisexual. So all you “Christians” I don’t believe in God personally but I used to and as I recall God loves all human beings, after all he is supposedly the one who created us and if God hates gays why would he make people that way? Homophobia is really just a form of rascism! I only have one last thing to say: Love really is gender-blind and color-blind! And to all you “Christians” there is more than one religion in the world and way more than one set of beliefs in the world and if being “Christian” means being pig-headed and narrow minded then I will be staying an Atheist because if “God” believes that gays should live in eternal damnation than he can take his beliefs and shove it! I’ll keep believing there’s nothing up there but space, planets, and stars.

July 21, 2010 at 7:06 pm
(122) Pat says:

This gets so old, these religious types come on these sites and make their comments based on their belief. If you aren’t gay, lesbian or homosexual why the heck do you think you can speak for us? I consider myself to be a Christian, I do all God asks of me to live a life pleasing to HIM. I don’t allow some non-gay person to pass judgment and tell me what to do in my life. I was born a lesbian, my family doesn’t want anything to do with me because of it but I’m not going to let some Bible quoting, judgemental person tell me how to lead my life. Go find some place else to post your crap, it doesn’t belong here.

September 1, 2010 at 12:44 am
(123) CC GAY26 says:

hi to all of my brothers and sisters of GSLBT,
i am a gay teenager just starting high school and am planing on join my schools Gay Straight alliance. i hope through this i will meet some one compatible of whom i can be partners with.

Throughout middle school i was tormented about being gay although i had a girlfriend at the time and had no thought in my head about being gay. when i had started 7th grade i had some feeling for a few boys (still do sort of^^). But there at my school there where a few of the (quote) “JESUS FREAKS!” whom at every day would come up to me and say
“Gay people will rot in hell forever you have no chance to repent your disgusting ways you piece of filth (begins kicking of the testicular region, OUCH!!!!!!!!!!)”
I will say this you can kick me in the baby’s and i would not feel a thing.
I never listened to them because that was their nature, raised to be homosexual hating zellits. I cant do any thing to stop that.

to answer some persons question out there who will be reading this i hope, no i do not hate the Christians, or the homophobic idiots running around, i just feel as though destiny (yes i am an atheist) for ever one and everything has been foreseen so why cant we all just be happy or not relay care if “oh he gay”
its just what has meant to be so deal with is and let t be.

September 29, 2010 at 11:23 pm
(124) Sammyfuquay says:

I think I constantly feel attracted to guys and penisr. This scares me. What do i do. Zleave ur number if ur interested in a sexual relationship

October 21, 2010 at 6:52 am
(125) jamie says:

hi i am jamie i am 18 i am a ladyboy i expirience that uncomfortable while having sex i feel nerveuse its my firstime to have sex with my patner but i need yto relax my body for that but its ok now that what i read the anal and oral sex
and its better if u have your safe sex like using condoms and libricant thats it

ďGodĒ believes that gays should live in eternal damnation than he can take his beliefs and shove it! Iíll keep believing thereís nothing up there but space, planets, and stars.

October 25, 2010 at 7:16 pm
(126) Ta'shan19 says:

okay..I am bi or what ever i have had sex with guys and girls..I haven’t let a guy put his penis inside me..but i have put mine in a couple of them and a couple of chicks.

and i still feel like i don’t know who I am..i believe tht god loves me and you!

October 25, 2010 at 7:40 pm
(127) Awesomeness(: says:

Okay. Um, where do I even begin? First Off, what are all you homophobic people doing on this page anyway, or can you all not read? This page is Evidently for gay, bisexual, aand lesbian people going through a difficult and confusing time. Have some freaking self-respect by keeping your mouths shut. I believe in the First Amendment and I believe in God. The bible May say it’s sin to love the same gender, but it also says God loves you no matter what. Maybe you should all do your research before you start Pushing Your beliefs onto Someone else. Maybe all of you straight people who believe you’re superior to gay people need a reality check. You just hate yourself because you know homosexuality isn’t an option in most cases, and you Are homosexual. Love is love, and I can love whomever the hell I chose to. It’s time to grow up(:

October 30, 2010 at 5:47 am
(128) Andy says:

And after all the stupid bigoted comments the idiots made… Life went on.

November 5, 2010 at 6:07 pm
(129) Shia says:

Guys. I think the homophobes are off now. We’re just to scary obviously ;P Chill people.
Personally, I’m hugely atheist. I’m also bi, leaning more towards lesbian. I have never been religious, nor have any of my family, and being as I am has unfortunately fuelled my ‘the church hates me why should I like them’ argument. Maybe I’m christiophobic. I’m only joking. I have been lucky enough, though, to have a fantastic set of friends who, even though sone are religious, don’t give tha I like girls. I don’t see why you lot should b any different. Put it this way, one of my hetro friends recently bought a film alleged to have the second best lesbian sex scene in it. She’s bloody mental, of course, but she got over the initial ‘ew’ factor she felt, and now she’s evidently fine with it. So you can be too. Now I really will stop parroting what has been said 100 or so times before m

November 5, 2010 at 6:11 pm
(130) Shia says:

(cont.) …..me. I think we all managed enough scary comments towards the bigoted idiots by now.

Signing off xxx

November 6, 2010 at 3:51 am
(131) Tomas says:

You are dumb, nothing is wrong with having sex with the same sex. If it feels good to you it feels good to me. People need to really grow up and stop thinking that everyone is the same. Grow up people and just live your life

November 7, 2010 at 3:19 pm
(132) Adolf H. says:

I have one thing to say to the religious among us who believe that homosexuality is rightfully condemned by God.

Keep up the good work!

November 7, 2010 at 3:24 pm
(133) Joe says:

Hey religious fanatics! If you want God’s HONEST opinion on homosexuality, why don’t you ask Him to smite the ‘sinners’?
I’m sure you’ll get great results!

P.S. (Lawlz @ Adolf H.)

November 7, 2010 at 4:57 pm
(134) 17andgay says:

please all of you just let it go.those ppl who came here are obviously down low ppl so dnt bother with their lame asses

November 13, 2010 at 4:02 pm
(135) yo says:

Please people know that God loves everyone, including homosexuals. If only all of Gods followers would understand that He is the only one who can judge others.
I apologize for those “Christians” who say gays will go to hell.
God’s greatest gift to mankind was love. It shouldn’t matter what form.

November 14, 2010 at 8:24 pm
(136) Rebecca says:

It’s possible to have sex with the same sex cuz it happens all the time…
Also, to all the other homophobes on here, why are you even reading this page?

November 15, 2010 at 5:01 am
(137) God says:

I feel it may be time to come out of the closet…

November 21, 2010 at 11:39 am
(138) Clint says:

Religion is like a penis. It’s okay to have it, and it’s okay to be proud of it. But don’t show it in public, and don’t shove it down the throat of children.

November 22, 2010 at 12:19 am
(139) BakaDaisy says:

I only have a feeeew things to say on this awesome topic :D D
First! I aaaammmm bisexual, i’m a guy and i’m damn proud of my or..
Second!! I think GBTL people are some of the most bravest most awesomest people ever!! Let me tell you why; its pretty damn hard to admitt that you are one of those things and be proud of it and deal with all tthise haters!!! Personally i think GBTLs have more “balls” than any straight person for being able to say that about themselves:))))))))
Third!!! Its just the way we are babe, and if you dont like it then you can go fuk yourself:)))))
And for the haters:
You really dont hate us GBTLs do you???? No you dont at all!! Now allow me to explain this, if your taking the time out of your day–your life to hate us that much every day, then you must really love us and you know it:))))
Also if you hate us soo much, why the hell are you on here??? Your curious arent you??:))) or is it because you just dont want to admitt that you are a GBTL yourself:))
Well for all you straights i have a straight friend and he admires me for being able to admitt that i like guys he says he would never be able to do it:)))
So just go with the flow straights, its time for you guys to expeiment any ways;))))
have fun i wish you all luck

November 25, 2010 at 4:15 am
(140) anonymous says:

Why are christians so insensitive? guess what you guys, there are other religions out there, and other beliefs. if you can respect them, or at least tolerate them…how are they expected to tolerate or respect you? everything is so wrong to christians…so is DONT JUDGE but you guys do a hell of a lot of it…there is no point in ramming scriptures and god down peoples throat….believe it or not, that scares them off, and just cause god makes sense to you doesnt mean everyone is going to convert to your religion…

November 27, 2010 at 5:04 pm
(141) JessieDay says:

Why the hell would a homophobic Christian be posting on here? Did YOU want to have sex with the same gender and you were brought here but you just couldn’t even think about compromising your God-grovelin’ ways and you decided to bring other people down? Don’t try to force your goddamn religion on people who don’t need your Jesus-loving ass. You are so blinded by your big GEE OH DEE that you can’t even live in the real world! And again, WHY ARE YOU HERE??!!?! There are other beliefs out there other than GOD IS BEST GROVEL AT GOD’S FEET BLAH BLAH BLAH!!!

November 27, 2010 at 5:06 pm
(142) PennyJ says:

To “hunter,”

You’re a virgin, huh?

December 8, 2010 at 5:43 am
(143) truth says:

I have no right whatsoever to judge any one or to insist that i am right but the truth is clear but those who dont see it are those who put a dirty cloth around it and look at it from a distance and then conclude its wrong the world is changing fast and not everyone has taken a minuite or two to consider the fact that the world is now open to beliefs that are based on human imaginations,fantasies and dissatisfaction the rule is one man one woman but or desires never say enough and because of what we want we choose to live in oblivion but the truth is where it is those whe diligently seek it will find it u can mail me if u think u need more advice (nikel4catalyst@rocketmail.com)

December 9, 2010 at 12:30 pm
(144) brookash says:

How can anyone twist the bible around??????? Dude, before JEsus God was strict!!!!!!!!!!!!! NOthing unholy was allowed in HIs temple.. spiritual leaders would wear little bells because if they had a ounce of sin they’d fall and die!!!! If you read the bible right and not taught by man but by the Holy Spirit you’d understand scripture and not turn it into selfish desires! Yes, Our Father LOVE’S EVERYONE but HE HATES sin!! The 10 commandments state NO ONE SHOULD LUST after someone because GOd is SO holy that its considered ADULTRY. Adultry is also another commandment.
&&for the story involving LOt he offered his own daughters to show that the men did not desire them! Do not turn the bible around, because it is OUR FATHERS HOLY WORD! Regardless of who u are, what you’ve done… it doesn’t matter.. turn to JEsus and allow HIm to help u live a life that is right before HIs eyes.. ask the Holy Spirit to become your best friend!! The bible does say, there is no sin greater than the other!! SO turn to JEsus people!!!!!!!!! PLease!!!!!

&&by the way, I’m not religious, I’m in a relationship with my Savior.

Please, I’m beggin.. surrender it all to Him. PLease.

December 11, 2010 at 8:08 pm
(145) Beatrix says:

There’s nothing wrong with being gay or bissexual. I’m a 17 year old bissexual girl, I don’t see gender, I see beauty, intelligence and character. Honestly, I’m also atheistic, because Christianism is the greatest responsible for all the prejudices in this world. Examples? Christianism tells people that they’re not animals and that animals are inferior and that their lifes have no value; that being gay is wrong and worthy of death (yeah, god wants to kill gays, it’s in the Bible, go read it!), that women are inferior to man, etc…

December 15, 2010 at 4:53 pm
(146) Charles says:

I don’t know what to think about religion, but regardless of any Christian beliefs, it is not a christian person’s place to say whether I am going to hell or not. If God has issues with me falling in love with another man, he’ll let me know. But really, I respect everyone’s beliefs, just as long as you don’t try to force those upon me. To me, God is to love. And there is nothing more powerful than that. So please, just try to lead your life with as much love as possible. No matter what faith you believe in.

December 26, 2010 at 4:24 am
(147) Jaxx714 says:

I’m a 13 year old bi girl and I’m don’t know how to tell anyone. What do o do?

December 29, 2010 at 10:05 pm
(148) tryin2comeout says:

ummmmmmmmm…. im christian so im called but im also lesbian. honestly it doesnt matter what sex you prefer if your in love. and ive found that most christians are just hypocritical,2 faced, fake, idiots who cant even live up to their own standards. so the have no place judging and condeming us. besides aint “God” supposed 2 be a just & merciful God & christians supposed 2 be christlike? by putting us down isnt that contradicting God?

December 31, 2010 at 1:40 am
(149) Christianwithatwist says:

I am a Christian. I cannot say I have never had thoughts about my same gender, but I can say I never acted on them. You cannot control every thought that pops into your head. put you can choose not to act on it. I am a sinner like anyone else here and I DO believe same sex marriage and same sex sex is wrong. but the Bible says all sins are equal. So do I say that all the gay ppl r gunna go to hell cuz of their sexuality? I personally do not think so. But I do believe that the only way to heaven is through Jesus Christ

January 6, 2011 at 1:23 am
(150) Blackitaliairish Kid says:

um hi everyone. I’m a Christian teen and I’m 15 years old and very confused. I’m battling everyday with being gay or straight I have a very strong attraction to guys but I also like girls. But I’m deep in my faith I love God and he loves me and everyone else. Something I don’t understand is all the judgement twoards the gays and christans in the bible it says “those who are free of sin cast the first stone” no sin is greater than the other the sin of having same sex relations is like a dude having sex with a girl before getting married. If people were good Christians you should love and accept them we were all made in God’s image just love people as you love yourself and for GLBT people out there it’s not a choice love yourself. Peace n Godbless

January 8, 2011 at 7:11 am
(151) carl says:

huh! i’m tired reading your comments guys! in fact i didn’t finish it! but let me leave mine! i don’t care if you like it or not! but let me tell you for those people who are saying they’re NOT! why you reach and read this site!? i think being GAY isn’t that bad and needn’t to be condemned as if useless in this world! f you don’t like gays then don’t be! be straight and go on with your life! for me i don’t care if i am a GAY as long as i didn’t hurt somebody or even destroy other’s life that might lead me to be in trouble at the end. as long as i am happy then i will be!

January 22, 2011 at 1:56 pm
(152) jessi says:

uhh, for those of you who are comenting on how wrong gays and lesbians are …. wth r u doing on a site about gay/lesbian sex? Are you looking for trouble, to insult people? If there is a God then he’s probably pissed of with you right now.

January 25, 2011 at 12:07 am
(153) travis says:

god ain’t real

January 27, 2011 at 1:21 am
(154) WAT says:

What the hell are you homophobes even doing here?
1. Shut up about religion cause Newsflash! No one gives a damn.
2. Really? Why are you here? Are you dealing with your sexuality?
3. If you think it’s gross or wrong, DON’T DO IT OR LOOK AT IT THEN! No one’s telling you to.
4. Since when the hell do you care who people like and don’t?
5. It’d be like me saying tomatoes are disgusting and evil and trying to prevent people from eating it, even though people like it just because they like it. (See how dumb that is? That’s you.)
6. What kind of religious people are you? Aren’t we all “God’s children and shouldn’t judge each other, and love each other”. Your such a horrible worshiper.
7. Another food analogy. There’s peas (boys) and corn (girls). Peas and corn together is okay. But a pea and pea isn’t? Or corn and corn? You’re an idiot.
8. No matter what you homophobes say, your argument is invalid and please gtfo and keep your beliefs to yourself.
9. I’m straight and I think who ever you love is fine.
10. REALLY?! What were you doing in here?!

January 30, 2011 at 7:04 pm
(155) Mee says:

I think that God loves both gay, biesexual, transgender, murder, rapist watever! The bible and scripture confirm this frequently :)

God also says that these people will be “punished”

So that answers whether or not the catholic faith accepts your views or not, but remember God loves and saved us ALL!

January 30, 2011 at 10:46 pm
(156) Faith says:

I’m Christian and I’m lesbian, but I still believe in God. A God that forgives EVERYONE. :) I’m not trying to get all religion-ish here but my main statement is we all have the right to love and believe in as human beings! It’s important (whether your straight or not) to get this kind of info.

Random question:
(my example in health class. Totally off topic but has to do with the sex-ed theme): my teacher heard someone use the word “gay” and yelled at the student. He claimed he wasn’t using it in a derogatory way but she said to never say “that word” again in her class. All of the sudden I felt very vunurable and wanted to leave. She’s gonna make us wear a fake pregnancy belly and I don’t even think I’m going down that path. It makes me feel very uncomfortable. What should I do?

January 31, 2011 at 12:25 am
(157) jeffrey says:

ummm why are those two straight christian commenting on a blog for GLBT teens?

February 5, 2011 at 2:39 pm
(158) Kyle says:

Ok wow some of these comments are a bit out of line… I just want to say its religious fanatics like you that made me turn my back on religion, because I was so afraid and alone wgeni realized I was gay. Its people like you that dishonor God, remember not everyone gets into hevan and if I’m not gong to be there u certainly wont. But I really want you to realize that when you make these comments you only hinder your cause because millions like me will turn away from God because of something innate within ourselves that we. An comprehend. Its taken me sooo long to get back to God and I still struggle. If people from my church/ temple etcc would have been open compassionate and more understanding maybe I would understand and hold religion and. God close to my heart but instead I closed myself off from everyone family friends And even God. Your ignorance isn’t honoring God its purchasing your ticket to hell :)

I’m gay and I’m proud and if God does exist I know he loves me because I have struggled and been kicked down and guess what I’m still here toodles haters :)

PS live all my fellow g.l.t members stay strong I want to tell you it does get better and contrary to popular belief the work really is full of good accepting people …I hope that you guys can oneday find yourself and love yourself cause once you do that your invincible to haters ….

One last thing and then I promise I’m done… don’t be angry at anti gays., I know its hard and it hurts but they truly don’t understand. Explain to them your struggle make them undersand you. Because if they are truly devote to God they will understand and you will understand where the hatred and ignorance come from…

Love you all :)

February 6, 2011 at 4:31 am
(159) Carl says:

How amazing that religious bigots have actually Googled for “how to have gay sex” and leave negative comments.

Sounds like they have some personal issues to deal with….like coming out.

February 9, 2011 at 3:36 am
(160) trying to help a friend says:

hey guys i am a christian but i have nothing against gay people i am straight but one of my very best friends has just come out. i belive that god made a path for everybody an dif the path inlude being gay then go fo it. God loves everyone.

My friends used to be a christian but now because she is gay she is finding it hard because some beople at my church are very anti gay. but i would love for my friend to come to church and still be openly gay.
if anyone has some ideas on how i could help her i would love to hear them.

February 10, 2011 at 10:05 pm
(161) question mark says:

I’m 16 years old and male. I’ve always had a fetish for cross-dressing and I learned from research that this fetish is called “autogynophilia”. I also learned that autogynophiles are usually straight. Usually, autogynophiles are also turned on by having sexual relationships with other men (because it makes them feel more feminine). However, it IS possible for a bisexual to be an autogynophile-due to the fact that they’re attracted to women. I had a breakup a while ago with a girl I genuinely loved (we were friends for 2 years and were in a relationship for 1 year). I then began truly questioning my sexual orientation and I had sex with a guy (more than once) and felt the same sexual feelings as I did with my ex-girlfriend (butterflies, arousal,sexual tension, etc.) and I’m wondering if I was aroused by the fact I was having sex with a guy therefore making me feel feminine (which, I believe, played a part in my arousal whether or not I was also aroused by the boy I was with) or if I am, in fact, bisexual.

February 21, 2011 at 1:55 am
(162) ashfly says:

if you people are so disgusted by having sex with the same gender, then explain to me why you are on this page? you must have some curiosity, or maybe you question your own sexuality and the only thing you can do is display hatred because you are uncomfortable with your own thoughts.

March 1, 2011 at 11:30 pm
(163) Tano says:

Wow…huge flamewar…but, there was one thing I wondered: If those who think gay sex is bad, then wouldn’t you think sex between a man and woman was bad? It’s all the same, really, just different positions. I personally don’t care regardless who has sex with who, who you are, what you believe in, what your ethnic background is, or where you’re from. People are people. We’re the most intelligent race, but the most destructive. People will never truly get alone with every single person, so just live and let live. Don’t like something, don’t go to a board where the thing you hate is the key topic.

March 10, 2011 at 9:04 pm
(164) Rin says:

To all those who cant find anything else better to do than bash on other peoples beliefs: I think that people should just leave others alone. Im staright(i think) and im curoius to this kind of stuff. I dont see anything wrong with it as long as they truly like eachother. Its like saying you cant be together because they’re rich or poor and or black and white. Why even bother to voice a hateful comment when obviously no one cares what u think. People are born different and i believe that u have no say in what other people do with their loved ones even if it’s bout the same gender. Im straight but hey sometimes i see a hot girl and think wow shes hot n wonder what itd be like to do it with her. Sometimes i find guys extremely attractive and than other times extremely repulsive as to why females like that. Its a matter of how u feel. And if u r a true christian or whatever religion then you would know that god is accepting of everyone so u should be too unless ur just hateful. If u have a problem go somewhere else. That is what i believe n am sticking behind it so cudos to u.!!!!! ^o^/ <3 hahahahahahahaha take tht.

March 12, 2011 at 4:58 pm
(165) Bec says:

Ok, so I read about 90 posts before getting REALLY bored with the repetitive comments… My thoughts on the matter:

1 – I am bi, christian and you wanna know something?? I know it’s ok… I was raised in a christian school and they told me about how it’s bad to be gay blah blah blah… We even had a debate in religious studies… When I pointed out that the Bible says that he loves us all, it one the arguement, although there was a lot more to it… My old church even had a gay priest for a time… His boyfriend was one of the most loved members of the church… We are also taught that we are not the ones to judge, it is for the Lord to judge us, so stop with the hate

2 – You can’t really say that the haters came here because they were curious, caus I came on here out of boredom… Sure, back when I was unsure about my sexuality I came for the research, but now, it’s a boredom killer… I also went on a site for how to increase the length of an erection… Incase the name didn’t give it away, I’m a chick, so I don’t need to know those things… Boredom and pulling all nighters does this sort of thing to you

… To be continued, due to my post having to many letters =)

March 12, 2011 at 4:59 pm
(166) Bec says:

3 – I can say from experience that it is a choice… Not our choice, but the choice of the Lord… I didn’t chose to be bi, but I chose to accept it and be happy with who I am… I don’t hide the fact I’m bi, but I don’t go preaching it either… I have a bi friend, bi cousin, gay mate, performed with a few gays/bi/lesbos on stage, and wanna know something?? We all agree that it wasn’t a choice to be what we are, but our choice to accept it

4 – How about you ALL get off your high horse and actually post some useful info… There are questions getting asked and no one bothers answering them… We know that this will be an argument that never ends ((it just goes on and on my friends… yea, I have the song stuck in my head)) so why not actually help people who ask for it?? I would help, but I haven”t got the brain power to sort out the crap from the questions

5 – If you don’t accept same sex relationships, then you are NOT always homophobes but with the treatment many homos get, it feels like it… I personally don’t care what people say… My ex doesn’t really like the fact I’m bi, but he still accepts that it is who I am… He jokes about the fact he could get 2 girls for the price of one… So although he doesn’t approve, he doesn’t treat me different or any others… I would also prefer it if people would stop saying ‘homophobia is as bad as racism’ and such crap, because, although it is true, they won’t listen, just as much as racists don’t listen… Such is life

… Still to be continued, due to my post having to many letters =)

March 12, 2011 at 5:01 pm
(167) Bec says:

6 – Wow, my list is longer than I thought… Random fact… Many people who think same sex relationships are bad also enjoy looking at yaoi pictures… It somehow makes them feel good, but the real thing turns them off… This is coming from a poll run in my hometown a few years ago by my sociology and psychology class… The same poll was done in a larger town when we were surprised by the result… Asking 300 people in my hometown wasn’t a good enough result, so we asked 500 in the other… Not the first time the poll has been run around here either… Oh, and for those who like yaoi ((and shonen ai… look up the meanings yourself)) you should check out an anime ‘Gravitation’ because it has A LOT of good points about it… Read the manga as well, because it goes into even more detail

Ok, I have more points, but I’m beginning to ramble… Oh, one more important thing… I noticed many people said things like ‘I am a christian’ and other blah bollocks… If you are such a devoted christian, you would be typing ‘God’ not ‘god’ because it is his name… You put capitals on names… Got it memorised??

Finally finished my ramble =)

March 19, 2011 at 9:01 pm
(168) Adam says:

*Ellen* I am 16 and I am very confused I just finished reading a few comments and I see religious people telling me I’m a disgrace I feel like committing suicide now… Please remove the intolerant comments so other confused young people don’t feel as bad as I do now :(

March 20, 2011 at 3:17 pm
(169) kurt says:

apocalypse is around the corner

March 25, 2011 at 1:53 pm
(170) simur says:

hm, ya know what, if “GOD” doesn’t like gays, well that’s just dandy, i don’t need someone i cant question (as per the bible) ruling my life, i mean who the heck does he think he is? the infallible freakin’ pope? so yeah if he doesn’t like gays, well you know what, f**k it, f**k him, toss the invisible man in the sky from your lives, and embrace the freedom, of life without his burdening weight on your shoulders. I don’t know about the rest of you, but i am more than capable of guiding, and dictating my own life, i most certainly do not need the bible aka, the idiots guide to life, to tell me how to do it, and then have to pay out my every thanks to some attention wh*re, whose been dead over 200 years, get over it people, i don’t worship zombies, and i’m sure i can manipulate the bible to show that zombies do not exist, i.e., jesus does not exist, and if “GOD’S” messenger doesn’t exist, it must follow suit, god does not exist, anyhow, to all the the jeebus lovers out there, happy (soon to be) zombie jesus day, wait i just realized you support the idea of telling small children freaky large mutant rabbits carry around colorful eggs, and sweets for them, hmm, interesting lol, most entertaining,

April 1, 2011 at 2:01 am
(171) HappyToBeLesbian says:

Adam, it isn’t wrong or disgraceful to be gay. It’s who you are and there’s nothing wrong with that. Please don’t hurt yourself just because some religious bigots are too busy hating what they don’t understand.
I went to religious schools. People got expelled for being gay. Didn’t stop me. I met this incredibly beautiful girl and, for some crazy reason, she likes me. I met her about a month ago, in that time I haven’t once thought about suicide or self-injury. But all through high school and early uni (I’m 20 yrs old) I was self-injuring and was hospitalised for suicide attempts.
It doesn’t matter what sex someone is. If you love them and they make you happy, that’s what matters.
And Adam, something I thought was funny was a saying a friend said to me once. She said “It’s Adam and Steve, not Adam and Eve, that’s what you get for reading translations”.
And if homosexuality is gonna damn me to hell, so be it. I’d rather go to hell for being me than spend eternity trapped in a lie.

April 3, 2011 at 12:23 am
(172) A random guy says:

Yes sex with the same sex is 100% ok. Do u know why? because peoples views about homosexuality are greatly changing for the better, and its happening all around the world even in places like India(last place u would expect a gay revolution to happen right?) To hell with all haters! they were brought up to believe that anything relating to homosexuality is unacceptable. I am so proud to live in a world were organisations like the NOH8 campeign exist that are brave to say enough is enough with these gay teen suicides! Gay sex is alright because it doesnt cause challenges in your life at all and u f***ing haters really have no buisiness preaching your anti-gay bull ****! i dont care about free speech, what your saying about gays is terrible and u cant say that. look i found out i was gay at the age of thirteen, i was watching a tv show and there was this actor(who i wont mention by name) and i was totally swept of my feet when i saw this guy and i had never expeirienced a more happier moment before. Of course that alone wasnt enough to prove i was gay so i discoverd over a little more time that i was, this was a huge deal to me because i had never felt any emotional feelings for either women or men until i saw this guy on tv. I was very surprised but did i hate that i had gay feelings for the first time? Absolutely not! It was a wonderful(dare i say magical) feeling. Then i didnt tell my mom till i was sixteen about my sexuality but when i did she was perfectly fine with it and it didnt happen too long ago either. So now its present day & i always dream of finding the right one to marry and have biological kids with(through surrogate) and i think of what there names might be and how great it would be to become a loving husband and father. So the whole point about all this is that being gay is ok and it doesnt matter if some people dont agree with that because we will always be here to crack the whip for our rights when you release the lion of hate.

April 3, 2011 at 6:44 pm
(173) gayteens says:

I removed a lot of the comments. I am so sorry they made you feel bad. If you ever feel suicidal you need to get immediate help. A good resource is the GLBT Anti-Suicide organization, the Trevor Project. Call them at 866-4-U-Trevor.
Let me know how you are doing and good luck!!

April 4, 2011 at 12:54 am
(174) Wiccangay says:

I am a 16 year old gay Wiccan, I believe that I have had an off day if someone hasn’t screamed FAG at me or made a BURN THE WITCH joke, in the end all I see is christians that scream they are being persecuted when all they do is persecute and disrespect others

April 10, 2011 at 11:13 am
(175) A random guy says:

Adam! why did you believe all those hurtful and discraseful comments!? you are a beautiful human being struggling with your sexuality, Not some blasfemous spawn of satin whos going to hell. I dont know you personally but if you kill yourself then you wont have a chance to make the world safer for you and people like you.

April 12, 2011 at 7:38 am
(176) jennifer says:

ok im here to set some myths straight…….. 1st GAY AND LESBIAN PEOPLE DONT WANT TO HAVE SEX IN FRONT OF U …… so u dont have to be grossed out.
2nd to the christians if you want to use ur bible to help <save the gays< then u need to talk to god for forgiveness it states in the bible u are no better than any other human therefore you can<t judge and right now u are all judging which in the bible states it means u think ur better than GOD. im a very relgious person btw.

it also states that god made everyone perfect in his eyes. so grow up and instead of bugging the gay and lesbian culture….do something useful. i rather see 2 gay men who love each other walk down a street then to see that in my town there is a strip bar in front of a church in montreal canada… i really hope u alll read that. why dont u ban them instead or ban drugs or ban anything but ban LOVE there is too much hate in the world to think like that. when u hate u generate bad things for thw world and mother earth. we need to love eahc other and stick together. futhur more if ur child was gay would u diown ur child for it? if u sd yes then read a few books about parenting. you cant disown ur child everytime they do soemthign wrong. if that the case buy a robot child who will listne on command and u can bring it to church jsut to brag that ur robot is better….i hope i got my point across and God blesss you alll

April 15, 2011 at 12:25 am
(177) Mel says:

Goddamn! The majority of the comments have nothing to do with the article. o.o

April 28, 2011 at 4:50 pm
(178) m says:

Hey you christian nobodies! bad news for you: gay sex is ok and we will keep doing it AAAAAAAALL THE TIME! would it make jesus christ uncomfterble if i used a dildo and liked it? well either way im gonna do that just to f**k with him and THEN we’ll see if he sends me to hell.
(-_-) /:-V

April 28, 2011 at 4:56 pm
(179) m says:

ps:I bet this article has recieved more comments than hugh hefners playmates.

May 8, 2011 at 9:51 am
(180) m says:

Hey i just realized my response about hugh hefner makes no sense. sorry for wasting space.

May 16, 2011 at 1:54 pm
(181) Gael says:

Actually God created Adam and Eve and Steve. Now Adam isn’t restricted to only Eve he has a choice!

May 23, 2011 at 4:52 pm
(182) geevan says:

I just want to add a note. No one want to be gay. When I grown up started realize something is different from others in my opinion and interest. I was trying to be normal (as straight). But didn’t work so far. Gay thing is not my decision. Please understand. Decided, that this is my life. Dont bother about the other comments. Accept as what you are? I am happy. God belief stuff it doesnt matters for me and I dont want to comment on it. Belives various person to person.

May 29, 2011 at 3:55 pm
(183) Brian says:

I’m gay myself, and I beleive that love is love. People have their opinions about alot of things that are controversial such as topics like this. Me and my boyfriend are open to each others ideas about anal sex, and just a few days ago we tried anal sex,& i thought it was the best feeling ever!

June 8, 2011 at 4:14 pm
(184) Sam says:

People who are saying that men & men and women & women can’t be together because of whatever faith they believe in need to shut their mouths and keeps their religious beliefs to their selves. I don’t care what you have to say. Just because you believe in something doesn’t mean everyone else has to. Leave religion out of this. SAME SEX RELATIONSHIPS ARE FINE AND PEOPLE SHOULD LOVE WHO THEY LOVE.

June 9, 2011 at 10:01 pm
(185) :-) says:

sam—i think i got a hard on from what you wrote! ok but in all seriousness, these right-wing redneck sunsabitches probly got all their knowledge of homosexuality from HAROLD CAMPING.

June 14, 2011 at 8:51 pm
(186) tigre says:

The bible says to love your fellow man too.

June 20, 2011 at 12:32 pm
(187) lesbiansrule says:

i luv havin sex wit da same sex it feels abosolutely amazing i can enjoy doing it without riskin myself to get pregnant i liv my life normally n everyone knows im a lesbian i go to college and i doing everything like a normal person. just remember its how u feel about dat person nd if u luv them or not .

June 22, 2011 at 4:50 pm
(188) Phill says:

No homophobic haters should be on this page so leave us alone

June 22, 2011 at 4:51 pm
(189) Phill says:

Btw Im 13 gay and loving it

June 23, 2011 at 12:35 am
(190) Luis says:

It is not anybodies business to judge a person for what gender they CHOOSE (that’s right it’s a choice I am gay and I know that we arent born gay. We develope those feelings whether if its at a young age or late age) to be gay and the only one to judge us for who we are is God. It is sad to hear most of you “christians” hating on your own family. We all came from Adam and Eve and to hear all of you “christians” judging family is trully unbelievable. That’s all I have to say.

July 6, 2011 at 11:13 am
(191) Tim says:

If you’re a person that’s going to be so negative as to spend your free time going out of your way to condemn others for their lifestyles, you should hear arguments from both sides. Otherwise you could be making a great mistake.

For Christians. These two movies are made for Christians made by Christians. If you’re hesitant to watch, you may be able to use these films against us gays.
“Fish Out Of Water”

“For the Bible Tells Me So”

For haters, lovers, and those apathetic:
Watch “FagBug”

July 6, 2011 at 11:27 am
(192) Tim from SC says:

So, in response the the actual purpose of this page. I had a question. I’ve had sex with a few different guys now. I usually top, but I sometimes bottom. When I top guys, they really like it. Though I’m larger, they find it very pleasurable. I’ve only been able to find real pleasure bottoming when the guy has an average sized penis.
What I was looking for was information on a position that makes bottoming easiest. Or, are their steps or exercises I can do to better prepare myself for someone that’s large?

Advise for those wanting to bottom for the first time: be with someone that’ll take it slow with you and don’t rush things. If done right gay sex is mind-blowingly amazing. If the guy topping is too forceful, it’s quite uncomfortable. Oh, and dont be afraid to use lots of lube. You really cant use too much. Just dont get it in your mouth.

You young gays out there. Just wait till you get to college. It gets soo much better! You’ll have options for the guys you want to date, and almost all of these guys that you’re hearing hateful messages from will either not be around you on your campus, or they’ll mature enough to realize that their opinion has nothing to do with you.
Try to take any negativity in stride. It’ll get better. Don’t become bitter at the whole.

July 17, 2011 at 4:43 pm
(193) franco says:

so if i receive or give if i have sex with a guy with no condom? what are the problems????

August 8, 2011 at 8:28 pm
(194) as says:

To those of you who say “It’s against religious beliefs to have sex with the same gender.” Some people don’t even believe in religions. It isn’t like people recently started having relationships beyond just being friends with the same sex. Aren’t we just trying to have peace and equality? So how does frocing people who are in love with the same sex to live their lives being pushed around and bullied all the time help us reach peace? I do not understand how people can be so hurtful to others. It’s completely ridiculous in my opinion. It’s their life. They aren’t hurting you by having sex or holding hands in the street. At least they aren’t beating children or animals. If someone is in love with someone of the same gender, then let them be together. If they sin and go to hell then that’s their choices. It’s their fault. And can’t you ask for forgiveness when you sin? Everyone sins. And if people who rape children or murder people can ask for forgiveness and be saved then why can’t people who are in same sex relationships? Some people just say Oh it’s bad. And don’t really open their eyes to understand. Love is Love. And sex is sex. It’s none of anyone’s bussiness who anyone screws if it’s not hurting anyone. And the whole AIDS thing, it’s their responibilty to be mature enough not to spread it. And it’s the other person’s responsibilty to ask and be protected.

September 29, 2011 at 3:57 am
(195) Tiffany says:

I love gay infact i fantasies about them

November 7, 2011 at 2:46 am
(196) no says:

Excuse me HUNTER! but same sex, sex only became ground upon until yours truly , jesus christ came along and made up that rule, before then the Romans and the Greeks had no problem with same sex relationships and that was never ground upon, Christianity is the whole reason why people today look at gay people differently, oh and Jesus was a Jew! So get over that Christian stuff and learn some history!!

November 12, 2011 at 1:56 pm
(197) Brent says:

Thank you god for putting a prostate in my ass. Why do I have a male G-spot then?

November 27, 2011 at 8:49 am
(198) Joey says:

In actuality, my Lord and Savior never spoke out against homosexuality. I’m Christian, gay, and a virgin. God loves ME, a gay guy from a family where hardcore Christianity and machismo run rampant, so much that he sent His only Son to die so that I could have everlasting life.

November 28, 2011 at 10:07 pm
(199) TJM says:

There is nothing wrong with what people do in the privacy of their homes it is no ones business but their own. Besides life is to short to go around hating people for their lifestyles. Hell I’ll even admit to wanting to try experimenting. But hey I have time before I’m out of HS. So yeah it’s good to be what & who you are I mean come on for all we know we only have 1 life.

December 6, 2011 at 5:16 pm
(200) Pete says:

I am straight and a Christian. For all of u good Christians out there who like to judge others for what they do. Pay attention Jesus did say all sins are the same no one is greater and no one is lesser. So if u r going to trash gay men and women for how they live their lives Here is news for u. Pre-marital sex is a sin and sex without procreation is also a sin. So if u r good Christians telling others how to live their lives I am sure u haven’t done any of that. Or even had anal sex with another woman or oral sex reminder a mouth is a mouth an butt is a butt and a vagina I’d a vagina. Don’t be hypocritical. And yes straight people can get aids too, in fact there are more straights than gays who r HIV positive. Lastly there are most pressing sexual atrocities out there to protest and try to stop such as child molestation, rape, incest, beastiality, and necrophilia. Ask a priest.

December 26, 2011 at 5:54 am
(201) mr mo says:

Why does it matter unless you are forced to do something you dont want

December 28, 2011 at 11:40 am
(202) Nathan says:

Why do religious nut think gays are so bad why would god make me if he hated me seriously I’m gay and I’m 14 am I just a horrible person ok when I was. 14 I told my parents I was gay and you know what they did those ass’s kicked me out on to the street but my church youth group gave. me a place to live okay there is nothing wrong with gays

December 29, 2011 at 1:37 pm
(203) Alver says:


January 1, 2012 at 8:49 pm
(204) johluce says:

i love being gay

January 2, 2012 at 8:59 pm
(205) Carlos says:

It’s really nice to know that people like to use religion and the bible when bashing gays. Really now if god really existed why would he make gay people if he hated them and thought they were an abomination. Why would gay people choose a life of hated and discrimination… Those type of people make me feel disguisted and why would you be reading this article if you’re ‘heterosexual’. For some reason it’s funny how if I’m a good person and I don’t harm people with homphobic words or state blah blah blah in section this in a book as if it’s the constitution… I’m going to hell but see you bible thumpers there ;)

January 13, 2012 at 2:18 am
(206) Confused Christian says:

I am a guy, I had a girl, We were together about 4+ yrs. I cried In bed looking into her eyes feeling so lucky to be loved by her, so nice and had the body any guy would wish for. She dumped me for another.

I tried to date other girls but they would make fun of me and dump me as soon as they found out I was smaller than avg. in size for them. All were “Christian” girls.

So, Here I am. Heart broken many times over asking Please GOD, bring someone into my life that will love me and understand all I’ve been through and will still care and love me and have things in common so I can enjoy living.

With out knowing it I was talking to someone, Things were going well, I have felt better than I have in a long time. Here is the issue. I thought I was making a great friend, But now I have feelings for them. They made there feelings for me well known before I realized what was going on, They were falling in love with me. So why Am I confused and not jumping at what could be what I asked to be sent to me??????? Its a guy!

So Here I am, Looking for a guide, searching all of the net. What do I see.
Gay’s bashing Christians, Christians bashing gay’s.
I did not plan what is going on in my life, I am nearly 40 and so alone it hurts and I cry.
I look to other Christians to help guide me and feel afraid and scared that they are so quick to hate someone who even has doubts. And I look at gays to see if I can find a Christian guide there and all I see is hate for GOD, the Bible and Christians.

So Whats the result here. I feel I would be attacked from Christians for one thing and attacked by the GLAD people for being A Christian….

If All you people think YOU know whats right…. WISH THE RIGHT THING TO HAPPEN SO I CAN FIND MY SOUL MATE IN THIS COLD WORLD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Life sucks more each day I see how others treat one another.

February 10, 2012 at 12:22 am
(207) Nobodh says:

I’ve been reading comments, and I am a catholic, I see where both sides are coming from! This is Is how I approach the subject. From what I know about my faith is that to go to heaven, one needs to say that you actually believe what he did for us was real, and true, and I believe! So don’t anyone else dare comment on how just because I am attracted to the same sex that I. am on the fast track to Hell. I know that God loves me for whomever I am, so, haters, keep hating.

March 6, 2012 at 4:52 pm
(208) Jake says:

I cannot believe people would go on to this website just to say “god will be pissed off with you” . If jesus loved everyone he would be bisexual… And god is meant to love everyone…

June 8, 2012 at 1:19 pm
(209) bi-girl says:

just for the record: God is sexless and loves everyone… so stop harrassing us with your nonsense about religion.
thank you.

June 15, 2012 at 11:41 pm
(210) Gay2 says:


Hunter, if people are born gay, and god created man, then where does that leave you… GOD LOVES GAYS!!!

June 15, 2012 at 11:56 pm
(211) Gay2 says:


Dude, Gays and bi’s don’t hate cristians, unless they are being unrashinal and cyber-bullying gays. And that means we just hate that one cristian, not all cristians. I used to believe in god (now I have no religion) and I am gayer than gay… I mean I made love to almost all my friends(all gay and male) 2 of them were cristian, but that’s not my point.

My point is believers of the Old Testiment might hate gays
But gays only hate certan cristians who hate them.

P.S. Sry bout the bad typing, I’m using my IPhone

August 13, 2012 at 12:46 pm
(212) gaylover says:

Ok first off I read most of the comments on here and wow such harted towards to everyone why can’t we all just love one onther? I’m a gay single male here and I do fine thoes comments rude but I just ingore them and live my own life. As for the other people on here asking for help feel free to emaile me at gdaypunk97@gmail.com and I’m happly to try and help anyone and everyone and also would like to make new friends and who knows where that can go to. If you want to be friends that cool I’m here to help anyone and everyone and I will listen to you all who needs someone to talk to.. please don’t be afried to talk to me and if you guys and gals need someone then do it

August 20, 2012 at 3:29 pm
(213) Jesus is Lord says:

God word will not change. And no matter what we think are feel. His word will remain the same. The bible says is wrong, at that settle it. And if you need help, and the power to do His will He will help. But you got to ask Him.

August 26, 2012 at 6:44 pm
(214) Magnus says:

well, god never spoke og gayness, he only say’s to not cheat,
to not commit adultery, that is cheating, you can’t twist it around, becase as you all say, his word will never change.

i can also say, hes a monster, for not having the heart to change, stuck in the same place 24/7, wich will make you mad, and so much power, no one can hold such.

September 2, 2012 at 5:24 pm
(215) Cory says:

For me, I’ve struggled for so long to learn to love myself the way God made me. I’ll be the first to admit that being gay and Christian is hard because there’s so many people telling you that you’re wrong. I’m learning to love myself and that God loves me as I am. for anyone who needs help, I started a Facebook group called True Grace Ministries, specifically for gay Christian teens if you want to join here’s the link: http://www.facebook.com/groups/truegraceministries/

God bless all of you and peace be with you. :D

December 10, 2012 at 9:50 pm
(216) Carrie says:

Let me ask of those out there especially “the christian men” if they think its okay if two women are okay in the lords eyes? I hear a lot of people saying that its okay for two women but not men to have intimate relationship. For those of you that need to know I am gay and proud of it. It was not a choice for me. I was born this way and I will die this way. I agree though God is not a hateful god he knows our future as well as everything else in our lives. I wish people will stop using christianaity as a weapon to try and make others confused, and feel bad of who they are and fear to live there lives happy, as long as they serve there god and love there god that is all that matters. People take the words of the bible and twist them and interpret them as they want people to live or behave. Just because those that use the bible as a crutch and to make others feel insecure and ashamed should be ashamed of themselves of passing on hate and discomfort .

That is not the loving god that is the hateful god or the persons own insecurity of themselves, those of you that are gay and christian or non christian should not be ashamed of who you are and what you are because for most it is not a choice, some people have had several screwed up marriages and decided to try the gay life, some stuck with it and some are bi-sexual, there is nothing wrong with it. Second for those that say two women getting it on is cool but not two men then I have to say that is totally shovinistic attitude, and purely bs. Just because they like women its ok and you know what I think those that do need to be seen by a shrink and figure out what there trip is..

January 27, 2013 at 6:16 pm
(217) Rebecca says:

No matter what your sexual preferences are why is it anyone’s business if you want to have sex or not, I dont care if someone is bi straight gay or lesbian or transgender we all deserve the same respect and if God is so wonderful then why would he hAve a religion that promotes homophobia throughout the Christian population that causes major problems in bullying and everyday life. Think about what you say and post before hand.

March 7, 2013 at 7:37 am
(218) Newly gay says:

I. Was raised in a christen home for the longest time i acted straight. . Iv been sexually active since i was 12. Now im 25 with the same sex. You know what the idea of haveing sex with. A girl seems so out of place

April 5, 2013 at 10:31 pm
(219) Josh says:

I am not gay but I think it should not matter if I was. Gay People are just the same as the rest of us and want to show their love through sex so let them alone about it. If you say it is wrong in Christianity and you condem the person, you are the sinner. Jesus said let the man without sin cast the first stone

April 30, 2013 at 12:43 am
(220) Ireallyhatehomofobics says:

Some people are seriously disgusting! Euw I HATE PEOPLE LIKE THIS Why do homofobics (sp? :-) ) browse these pages! U gys cn sove your prejudice up your F****ING A*S


June 17, 2013 at 11:49 pm
(221) sean says:

i am 16 and bisexual. does it matter what others think????? no u are who uare and ur proud to be gay lesbian straight or bi <3

August 4, 2013 at 8:46 am
(222) Brodie James says:

I have read through this whole page why has all this time been wasted on this argument? I don’t understand why all this hate has to be displayed, if u have nothing intelligent or nice to say keep your mouth shut. And it really annoys me how stupid some people can be, and I know this has been said many times but why in the world would someone who is either Christian or homophobic come to this website unless u are extremely stupid or disgusting or u are just a despicable person, and take pleasure in hurting and insulting other people. Plus what most say is completely ridiculous and a waste of time because it won’t solve anything, it will only make matters worse

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