what u should do
- what u should do is tell her you really dont have feelings for her but make sure u tell her u love her as a great friend!!!! she may be sad but she will get better!!!!
- —Guest tia marie
well
- i would give it a try u might actually like her and of u dont then u can be friends again lol
- —Guest runts_girl17@sodahead.com
True
- I know how u feel but talk 2 her, she may give u a good advice
- —Danielkamau
confident
- tell her u are married or u are going to be busy that day
- —Guest pam
What i would do...
- If i was you i would give it a try... what is the worst that could happen? if you are gay and give it a go... you might find out you're actually bisexual. Like Me... i find boys intresting but being around girls makes me nervous. the first guy asked me out and i didnt know what to say. i just gathered that i prefer boys. just tell her you are gay... but you'll give it a shot... Good Luckk x
- —Guest HelpingHandx
Well...
- Well you should say yes, unless maybe you like the. If your not sure, think on your own
- —Guest Say Hai
Well...
- I think that you should definately tell her the truth. If shes a true friend she might be a little hurt, but in the end she'll still be your friend
- —Guest X
I'm going through this right now
- Well this girl is really nice. She didn't ask me out but she told me she likes me but I've kinda been avoiding her a little because I'm gay and I don't want to hurt her and nobody knows I'm gay. I turthfully don't know what to do but I'm think of maybe "coming out" but not sure because I know I will lose some friends in the process but it's not fair to hide to keep friends that won't accept you for being you. Well that's 1 option. You could also just tell her you don't her like her like "that" but that could make her cry but u could still do it and tell her ur gay and not to tell anyone. I personally won't because the girl that like me might tell people. I really don't know what u should do, I just felt like saying some things u could do. Honestly I think u should do what u feel is right. Good luck :)
- —Guest UnsureBoutEverything
what i would do
- I thought i was gay out first then a girl asked me out we ended up doin the do and i found out i am bi
- —Guest guest dude
confused and scared me too
- well i know exactly how u feel. I belive im bi not sure yet but A girl gave me her number i dont even know the girl not even her name and shes in my class. but anyways. when i see her in the halls i just ignore her or simply say hi. but i agree what the others said go on the date with her and see how it goes. i honestly dont care whos gay, bi, lesbian or not.if your a good friend then cool. i think gay lesbian or bi people are cool because its different and unexpected lol. so far i told a couple of my friends, only my friends. i found out that one of them is bi and the others were like "cool" and asking questions.every now and then we'd talk about whos cute and not or if i found a girl or boy i like.i found a couple im not sure if they are gay,straight or if they like me back. so all i can do is keep moving forward and just live my life.
- —Guest anonymous
ineed a girl to love me lol
- i will love you back lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lolo l lol lol lol smile face
- —Guest monae
In the same "BOAT" Lake county florida
- Man I am a 26 year old guy and have been put in the same boat you are in or were in. How did it go?? I am currently in having this problem and this is why I Googled this question..lol... It has been a constant issue for me and until I turn old and ugly I guess it will continue. My point is to you.. This will be a issue for most gay guys and is actually a HUGE one. No one talks about it much and yes it might be the 21st century some of us still live in areas of that frown upon folks being gay. Some people just don't want others knowing. What-ever the reason, I think honesty is always the best policy... what-ever you do just don't ignore her or your other friends. I have done that. The moment a girl asks I play along and then ditch her like a bad habit. Don't do this....!!!! Let me know how it worked out for you and lets see if we gay guys can be a little more honest with others and ourselves.
- —Guest Scott
I think...
- I think you should be truthful hun. If they accept you for who you are they are true friends. Dont be a fake just be yourself and dont let others get to you
- —DevieBoo
OK
- Ok what you should do is be nice about it I know I had the same problem you do I am 17 and gay also and a girl asked me out. Basically this take he out to a movie and luch simple as that.
- —Guest Alex
Not ready yet.
- If you are not ready to come out yet, simply tell her you are not interested but you love her. Focus on her and make her feel better.
- —Guest momo
