Readers Respond: What Should I Do If My Crush & I Are at Different Schools?

A teen asks for crush advice:

"i've been in school three days and i cant stop thinking about her. if i cant get my mind off of her soon, my grades will fall. i haven't been listening to a word any teacher has said. the only time i didn't think about her today was when i sat down in science and my desk fell over (lol that was funny). i've also been thinking about applying to a specialized learning center for students who excel in a subject and want to take it to the next level. but if i do get in, i'll be in a different high school than her next year. i don't really know what to do."

Share your tips and experiences!

get over it.

seriously? you're letting a crush get in the way of your education. c'mon, dude, girls dig money, but if you screw off in school, you wont make any. cmon man up bro.

—Guest NONEFORYOUBARROWS

ummm...?? overobsessive??

Its the start of the holidays and I keep thinking about this stupid crush i have. He is cute/sweet/funny and I think he might have a thing for me. He all ready knows i like him, and hes invited me to his party (we're only 13 but hes had at least 3 girlfriends) its his friendship group an mine to make it simple. but he's previously asked out my best friend which really sucks. i dont know wat to do. we're going to diff high schools, but i keep wishing that he'd finally ask me out, coz i cant make the first move coz he already knows i like him so he'd probs think I'm a bit of an over-obsessive retard. i REALLY like him but wat can i do on friday (party)??? help!!!

—Guest really sad person

my crush is mad me and i don't know why

he looks like he is always mad at me and i don't know what i did to make him mad at me? he dose look at me and says hello when i say hey to him but that is it and he looks mad when he says it. then he turns goes a different way so i don't see or hangs out with a group so i can't talk to him. he is always happy and talking with his friends until he sees me looking at him and when i look at him again he sitting there glaring ay me and my freinds but mainly at me and i'm counfused about it. what should i do about it????

—Guest ann

None

Um, I sort of need advice. My ex girlfriend is going to a different highschool than me to. I'm ashamed to write whyvshe broke up with me... Cuz I was shy... I'm thinking of calling her and asking if she can give me another chance. I've liked her since 6th grade and my feelings keep getting stronger... I asked for another chance and she said she didn't want a realationship rightnow and I know it's true cuz some guy asked her out and she said the same thing... Another thing is she still wanted to be friends with me. So I hope girls can answer my question, it's been a while since she told me she didn't want a bf, I want to callher and ask her for another chance again or if she can think about it... Um were both going to a different highschool but do you think a girl would agree to go out with her ex from another school. Sorry I made it long I just need advice. Thanks.

—Guest John

do what is best for you is your future

just do what is best i mean if you get in to that skool then just get yourself another girl ,i mean she might get another boy while in ather skool

—Guest ruth

sex

tell him you love him and that you want him too go over too your house and when he gets there have SEX!!!

—Guest susan