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Readers Respond: How Do Gay Men and Lesbian Lose Virginity?

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Many people assume that the only way to lose virginity is through vaginal sex with an opposite sex partner, but this assumption excluded gay men and lesbians with same sex partners and simply isn't accurate. Some people think that oral and anal sex are also ways to "lose virginity," whether you are gay or straight. What Do You Think?

Clitoris is the key

I'm a gay woman and i lost my virginity the moment my girlfriend touched my clitoris and I touched hers and we came together. I don't think penetration is sex because vagina it's almost insensitive compared to clitoris. Nature created vagina for procreation, clitoris for orgasm which is the goal of human sex.
—CieloViola

Oral and anal

I think it is pretty straight forward through oral or anal sex or for lesbians maybe with toys or something like that.
—mastablasta

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