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I Came Out to My Mom on Vacation

Share Your Story: Gay Teens Share Their Coming Out Advice, Tips and Experiences

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Who Did You Come Out to First?

I came out to my mom first. We were on vacation and I really felt like that was the time. My mom was realieved that I told her(I guess she guessed it). After that I told my twin...

Were There Any Challenges?

My twin did not handle the news so well. At first he thought it was a joke, then he got really upset when I told him I wsn't joking. He freaked and started crying and yelling at me. He Is not homophobic but he just couldn't handle the thought of a gay brother. We haven't talked about it since and I feel awful everytime I think about that.

Advice

  • My advice: not everyone will react positively. Don't rush into coming out. Tell a close friend if you need to talk to someone!
  • My twin had a reaction that scared me out of being gay for two months. I'm still dreading coming out to my dad:(
  • Best of luck!

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