How to Know When You Are Ready for Sex
Here are some things to ask yourself before deciding to have sex:
- Do you want to be in a relationship before you have sex?
- Do you think you might feel different about your partner after having sex? Are you comfortable with that? What if he or she feels differently about you?
- How do you think sex will affect your relationship?
- Are you having sex to make someone your boyfriend or girlfriend?
- What if having sex ends your relationship?
- Are you having sex because you are worried that your partner will break up with you if you don't?
- Do you know how to practice safer sex?
- Do you have access to condoms? Are you comfortable using them with your partner?
- If you have sex with someone of the opposite gender, do you know how to prevent pregnancy?
- Do you feel comfortable seeing a health care provider and getting tested or treated for STIs?
- Are you comfortable telling your partner your likes and dislikes?
- Would you feel comfortable telling your partner if something didn't feel good?
- If something goes wrong or you have an emergency, do you have an adult who you can talk to?
You might find some of the questions hard to answer. That's perfectly normal. But it might be a sign that you aren't ready for a sexual relationship right now.
