"Ok i've been dating this guy for like 2 weeks now. Get this, the second day i was dating him he told me he wanted to have sex with me. So i was freaking out and i broke up with him. Then i felt guilty and started dating him again. He's still trying to pressure me into having sex. I really want to break up with him but i want to do so without hurting him badly, but i think that may be the only way. Give me some advice."
First off, you should never stay with someone simply because you are afraid of hurting his feelings. Doing so isn't fair to either of you. Really, you need to worry more about your own feelings and comfort level right now, more than you do about hurting someone's else' feeling--especially if that person is pushing you to have sex when you aren't ready.
Look, there is no 100% effective way to to break up with a boyfriend or girlfriend without hurting them at all. That doesn't mean you can't be respectful and treat the other person the way you would like to be treated in the same situation. But it also doesn't mean that there is a guaranteed, sure fire way to end something without having th other person feel sad.
Relationships can be tricky to maneuver. Unfortunately, far too many teens stay in unhealthy situations, because the thought of breaking up seems too difficult. But doing that is just going to make the inevitable break up a lot harder in the long run
