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Can I be a Gay Parent?

By Ellen Friedrichs, About.com

Question: Can I be a Gay Parent?

Answer:

When "Milo" told his mom that he was gay, her response was mixed. "She said she loved me and was happy I told her. But then she said she was just sad she wouldn't have grandchildren."

This upset Milo--for a long time he assumed he couldn't be a gay parent.

In reality, there are plenty of gay parents. Being a GLBT parent can be challenging. But being gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender doesn't mean that one day, you won't be able to have a family.

GLBT people parent in plenty of ways. Here are some of the more common ones:

  • Adoption.
  • Being a foster parent.
  • Raising children from a previous, opposite gender relationship.
  • Lesbians can use sperm donors.
  • Gay men can use surrogate mothers.

If it's important to you, being a parent shouldn't be something you cross off your list of life goals!

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