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Do All Gay Guys Have Anal Sex?
Do All Lesbians Use Dildos?

By May 14, 2008

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When it comes to same sex sex practices a lot of folks have a pretty limited idea of what goes on between the sheets. Many people assume that all gay guys have anal sex, and that all lesbians use dildos (sex toys designed for penetration). And while plenty of gay guys enjoy anal, and plenty of lesbians use dildos, a whole lot of others don't!

Some gay guys just aren't into anal. They might enjoy oral sex with a partner, mutual masturbation, body rubbing or role play. And while some lesbians use sex toys like dildos, others aren't into penetration at all. Oral sex and body rubbing might be more their thing.

Just as with any group of people, there is a huge range of sexual activity that gay men and lesbians participate in, including being celibate and not having sex at all!

Comments
September 2, 2008 at 12:00 pm
(1) Knut Holt says:

Most guys play with their rear zone and anal region, and wish their partners to play with it.

That’s for sure.

September 8, 2008 at 12:12 pm
(2) Justin says:

Kurt

Me & my boyfriend of 9 months have yet to explore that area of each others bodies…and are in no rush to do so either!

September 15, 2008 at 7:07 pm
(3) dumbass says:

you are gay hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

September 22, 2008 at 3:45 pm
(4) iamgay says:

er i think i see why he named himself dumbass

October 10, 2008 at 12:16 am
(5) Tyler says:

Saying gay guys like anal is false a stigma. It’s split down the middle, most gay guys I’ve spoken to DO NOT do anal. Yet straight couples will do anal. So yes this article is correct it is a myth.

October 27, 2008 at 12:21 pm
(6) reyandguy4ever says:

you all are so gay …i just love it and i want to have anal sex with all of you all

October 28, 2008 at 3:46 pm
(7) Nicole says:

Me and my girlfriend dont use dildos she doesnt like them

November 13, 2008 at 2:48 pm
(8) me says:

Yes i love doing it….it feels so GOOD…

December 4, 2008 at 5:52 pm
(9) Bobby says:

My “husband” and I have been together for 11 years. At first that was all we did but now it’s more painful that anything. We now just enjoy each other in different ways, masturbation and fondling, body rubbing, even cuddling can have a great sexual satisfaction. You don’t have to have anal sex to have a good sexual relationship.

December 23, 2008 at 8:53 pm
(10) Jake says:

Homosexuality is evil and you don’t need a religion to know that.

January 1, 2009 at 2:52 am
(11) Ren says:

Well, that’s a new one, Jake. Did you pull it out of your ass?

January 13, 2009 at 11:22 pm
(12) brett says:

i have been whith my boyfriend for nine years taht is all we did for the firts four years was anelsex but now we do other thins to have a good sexual relationship….

January 15, 2009 at 11:12 pm
(13) curoius chic says:

I was just wanderng if this was true one of my gay friends said that he likes to have sex with his bf thighs??? i know it sounds wierd i dnt get it

January 20, 2009 at 5:09 am
(14) Sam says:

Being gay is so much fun i love using dildos me and my girlfriend use dildos all the time

February 6, 2009 at 5:57 pm
(15) brandon says:

I want to see what it is like to have sex with a male can someone tell me what to do if they some one in cleveland that wants to have sex whats up

February 6, 2009 at 7:33 pm
(16) Drew says:

I am 33 and have yet to meet any gay guy that does not like anal. I would say that 99% of gay guys like anal in one way or the other.

February 8, 2009 at 6:47 pm
(17) Melanie says:

My girlfriend and I have been together for four years. For the first 2 years of our relationship we didn’t even own a vibrator. We decided to spice things up and bought one but honestly rarely use it. We very easily give each other what we need without the use of toys but both agree that if thats what you are into, “Go for it!”

March 6, 2009 at 9:37 pm
(18) Adam says:

Hey,
I’m a straight guy, but I just wanted to leave a message saying kudos to all of you.
Living in this world today as a homosexual has to be terribly difficult, but it’s great to see that no one has given up the dream on equality.

Keep fighting the good fight.

March 18, 2009 at 12:48 pm
(19) Mike says:

And btw, someone as close-minded and unsensitive as you should never be a doctor because you clearly do not understand anything about people who are different from yourselves. Gentleness, compassion, and understanding are qualities NEEDED in the medical community, not garbage like this.

March 18, 2009 at 3:11 pm
(20) Dario says:

Why, Doctor Anon, how very charming. To be as vulgar as you put it : why don’t you just piss of back to your bible and porn mags?
Just because you are in a steadily shrinking minority of people who think that gays are going to destroy the world does not give you the right to come on here and post hateful lies. As for your pictures of protests after prop 8 (I’m assuming they were violent) I would point out the following:
Crusades, in which Christian armies butchered thousands of Muslims
Northen Ireland “troubles” which has killed a large number of both Catholics and Protestants
9/11 & 7/7 bombings, carried out in the name of god
The blowing up or numerous abortion clinic by Christian Fundamentalists (Who also murdered many doctors for the same reason)
all of this death in the name of God. Who are you to assume Moral Superiority? I bet you haven’t read the bible in full. Well, there are accounts of (encouraged by god) genocide, gang rape, and mass slaughter
So there.

April 21, 2009 at 9:02 pm
(21) luvbeinggy says:

Me and my Bf Lucius do it all the time, to tell you the truth, it’s a little bit strange having someone up there, but it’s good.

May 11, 2009 at 10:56 am
(22) Brendon says:

Well, my boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year now and we’ve had anal sex about 4 times.
I can honestly say that the IDEA of anal sex was much more appealing then the actual process.
Anal play we enjoy as well as MM and oral, but yeah actual anal sex/penetration just isn’t for us.
Also most gay guys I’ve met feel the same way, that it’s something they do rarely and doesn’t make up most encounters.

Just my two cents.

May 21, 2009 at 4:39 pm
(23) Mastablubba says:

Hello Guys

just found this cool bum Shaking vid on youtube…

check it out!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BsoHCukkeUo

May you can share something similar.

happy watching
mastablubba

May 28, 2009 at 10:58 am
(24) whatuguysaredoingiswrong! says:

honestly I don’t think living this gay life is right. I know people that are gay, and oviously I’m not anyone special, but I don’t agree with your lifestlye. It is totally wrong. What you guys do is going against god. It is very shamful to be holding or kissing your partner in public. When I see this it is very disgracful to me and a lot of other people. Are you even thinking about the young children that may see you doing this to another guy, do you think about what impression your leaving on this young (children) person mind. How they will grow up thinking that this is ok. Well it is not good. I would hate for kids to see you, and then think this is ok. I pray for this to stop, but knowing it won’t. If god was ok with gay people , he would have made all humans one sex. Can you make a baby with your partner with your body? No. God made WOMEN able to have a baby for a reason. If he didnt want women and men to be straight he would have slapped a p&ssy or d$ck on everyone. There would have been only one sex if what you guys are doing were right. Most , not , all parents would ask god why this happened to their kid. They most likely would be ashamed of their gay child. All I can say is IF you choose to live this wrong lifestyle , please keep it out of our childrens face. It is not ok to be teaching our children that its ok. It isnt. It you do some research, most gay people are unhappy about their life, god isnt going to improve anything for you . You make your own pain. YOU cause your own unhappiness. Go on youtube and watch transexiuals in Iran. You will see how wrong it is to be gay. Go to San frasico where gays are welcomed with open arms. Your not welcome any where else. Gay people bring shame to everyone!!

May 28, 2009 at 8:40 pm
(25) BLANCA R says:

HeY my name is BLANCA!
I’m Just 15years old!!
I’m a straight gurl!
I like talking to gay guys their realy funny and they know how to act in frount of kids and they know more things then us stright gurls or guys!
I dont like it when a gay guy will hide that’s he’s gay it because it just makes that person like if he was ashame of just being a HAPPy person!!
I Like talking to lots of HAPPy guys!!
“IF your gay don’t hide it be happy about it”

ByE!!

June 16, 2009 at 4:06 am
(26) Bryan says:

Yay to the gays,and there bottom related tomfoolery!

June 16, 2009 at 10:05 pm
(27) Tyler says:

Hey u guys saying its wrong to god. it is but every sin is equal it says in the bible. and u probly masturbate so your calling gay sin think about what ur saying and also leave ur religionists comments to ur self im gay and 100% Christan so all i got to say is shut up!

June 17, 2009 at 3:03 am
(28) Paula says:

Sweety, u cant be gay and 100% Christian. Masturbating is a sin but its not living in sin all day everyday. When your gay , its a certaine lifestyle you chose to live. and you can be Christian when u live totally against what the Bible says. It cleary states that it is wrong to be Gay and that God dosent approve of it. If you “claim” to be a Christan then you are to live a “CHRIST” like life. Everyone sins, but when u do sin, you are to repent and ask God for forgiveness and try to NOT commit that same sin. but how can u do that when ur gay all day? Theres no repent. Its your life. Chose what you want. But dont embarress God and claim to be a follower of His when ur really not..

June 18, 2009 at 10:39 am
(29) Tisto says:

Hey you guys arte just a bunch of homophobes what we do in the bedroom is our buisness not yours and where exactly in the bible does it say its against godd to be gay what page and if godd didnt want us to be gay straight or bi he would have never given us the genes to be he would have made us all the same way and its ok to teach kids this is ok because if they are gay there probly dieing inside because they cant tell annyone so whats wrong with us eh you know the way you talk to us is a form of racisim so up yours

June 23, 2009 at 4:45 pm
(30) Henry says:

I am a Christian and 100% gay. All you fundamentalists and creationists must stop a moment from your beliefs of fire and brimstone. Do you think I chose to be gay? A difficult life, being questioned constantly, having to defend your true identity? It took a lot of hard work to accept myself.
Why are the homophobes reading this page? Are you in doubt? And the so called Christians condemning us… What is up with you? Are you spreading the image of Christ by judging us?
Live and let live!

June 29, 2009 at 3:56 am
(31) Colton. says:

so your saying that you’ve only masterbated once? because if not your basicly the same as a gay person when were looking a sinning. and you have WAY more a a choice to masterbate then you do being gay.

July 6, 2009 at 2:10 pm
(32) him says:

I’m a straight guy, but I LOVE anal from my girl. Strapons arnt just for lesbians.

July 20, 2009 at 8:11 am
(33) Happy says:

My partner had never done anal when I met him.He quickly learned that I love when he is inside me and he can satisfy me adequately. We are lucky in that he likes to give and I like to take . It didnt take him long to start experimenting with me as his willing partner and it has gone from great to unbelievable.Not all gay guys are like me , infact he doesnt like it if I screw him . This doesnt mean he is the more dominant partner as quite the opposite is true.I urge all guys gay or straight to become familiar with that area and enjoy.

July 20, 2009 at 6:00 pm
(34) George says:

Masturbation is NOT a sin! In fact it can help prevent prostate cancer! Any good urologist will tell you that ejaculating regularly is VERY important for a man. Abstaining can cause all kinds of prostate problems. Masturbating is a perfectly natural & healthy thing. Shame on you who still believe these primitive old wives tales!

July 25, 2009 at 11:03 pm
(35) andy says:

im 14 and i hate anal sex i like riming and deep throat kissing and oral and lots of body rubing

July 31, 2009 at 11:38 pm
(36) Tim says:

i was just browsing the different lgbt articles and i came across this one, this article is extremely accurate, my partner and i do enjoy anal sex together but we also have many other close friends of ours who simply dont enjoy it. It really goes by prefrence not “its the only way to do it”

August 2, 2009 at 8:44 am
(37) Joe says:

I’m straight but a little bi-curious. I would do anal with another guy but I wouldn’t let him do anal on me.

August 9, 2009 at 8:56 am
(38) James says:

I am gay and am definately not into anal sex although it has happened to me once and vice versa, I didn’t want it to happen again. There are other methods of pleasure and intimacy with another guy.

But also I don’t go to gay bars as I am not into stereotypes and rubbish music which they always seem to play.

As for you ‘whatuguysaredoingiswrong’ well I think you have a problem and gay guys are unhappy because of people like you. One day if you have a child (unless you already do) and that child grows up and is gay and tells you that, what will you do? Sounds like you will either kick him/her out or something which is much worse.

Almost all of my friends are straight and none of them have a problem with gay people. One of my female friends is gay and she has a daughter who is absolutely happy that her mum is happy.

If God is real, why do you think there are gay people? Ever heard of Charles Darwin? Some creatures are only of one sex as that is evolution. Creatures reproduce generally for that reason only yet others, like ourselves, don’t just have sex to makes babies.

‘whatuguysaredoingiswrong’ if you love God why didn’t God help you with your spelling? Ever heard of the apostrophe?

August 17, 2009 at 3:16 am
(39) Brittany says:

I would just like to comment as a straight girl and say that I have many gay friends. Both female and male, and I support them 100%. In fact one of my gay guy friends has a serious boyfriend now, and I am extremely happy for him and his significant other. They make an adorable couple. I just really felt the need to show many of you that there are understanding straight allies.

August 24, 2009 at 12:44 pm
(40) Jerk says:

I’d like to have anal sex

August 26, 2009 at 2:51 am
(41) Aerial says:

now,now people no need to get all defensive about what everyone else is saying.
everyone is entitled to their own opinion, so let them say what they feel the need to say.

what i dont understand is if straight christian people dont like hearing all this stuff about gays and gay sex, then why bother coming on a website that is full of these gay forums…

seriously lets have some common sense here. dont like it, dont read it.

anyways, im a lesbian and for me its true….

i do like using dildos….the penetration is what i like

but i love GIVING oral to a female
receiving isnt bad at all but id much rather give than receive…its something we both enjoy.

and plus…i have a tongue ring ;)

September 2, 2009 at 8:46 pm
(42) ASDF says:

yOUR gay!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

September 7, 2009 at 2:15 am
(43) Thinkaboutthis says:

Think about this: even animals have the smarts not to have sex with the same gender….its a pity to say animals are smarter then you, isnt it!

September 8, 2009 at 12:24 am
(44) Student-Man says:

Homosexuality is sick! Only a man and woman relationship is real love. Homosexuality is fake, phoney and disgusting. . . and God does not like it guys and girls!

September 10, 2009 at 3:06 pm
(45) jamie says:

im sick of these homophobic b***s tbh,, if you dont like gays then fine,, dont,, but dont say its wrong coz god said,, GOD said this and GOD said that,, he never made us, and its not wrong to be gay,, its not a life you can just choose to do,, your born with the emotions and sexual feelings,, not like we have much of a choice,, if we dont like ****** we dont like ****, if you do then fine,, i dont care,, just keep ur mouths shut if u cant say anything nice.

September 10, 2009 at 3:17 pm
(46) TASTY says:

IM GAY YAYYYYYYYYYY ME!! BITE ME WHO EVER GOT A PROBLEM TASTY FROM THA BURG

September 10, 2009 at 9:13 pm
(47) James says:

ASDF, did you ever learn about English grammar?

Thinkaboutthis, there are other mammals that want to have sex with the same gender.

Student-Man, are you sure you are a student as students are not that thick or do you live in the USA? There are a lot of straight people which have no idea what love means so use the ‘f word’ and ‘sh@g’ too. I find that repulsive!

September 20, 2009 at 7:39 pm
(48) woopwoop x says:

im gay and i haven’t had sex with my bf adam but i think he wants to it duse my head in wen im out with him and holding his hand and stuff and all we get is dirty lookes of every one who whalks past what is there problem we dun nothing rong why carnt the exsepet it :(

October 5, 2009 at 11:08 pm
(49) tessita says:

Hey! I am straight and 100% Christian!!!! The PASTOR of my church is a lesbian and one of the best people I know! I have major problems with ppl who say nasty things about gay ppl. Do you want someone to tell you its bad to be heterosexual???? I’m all for freedom of opinion, but keep your nasty prejudices to yourselves! As for you, Student-Man, who are you to say what God does or doesn’t like? Are you God? NO! He/She can speak for his/herself perfectly fine! And please, someone tell me in what book/chapter/verse in the Bible it says that being gay is bad! HURRAH FOR GAY MARRIAGE RIGHTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Love y’all! (I’m from Pennsylvania, btw….

October 12, 2009 at 4:21 pm
(50) stephen says:

cant believe that their is ignorant people lik you in this world. As you try to understand us i try to understand you, and ur cold hearted self. Being gay is not wrong, and yes it is the wright thing to do. Homosexuality should not be hidden in any way or form, just lik heterosexuals we have morals, and we know what good, and bad, and what should be exposed to children. Can you please tell me how many homosexuals you have seen fighting in the street, how many have you seen stealing, have you seen killing, have you seen getting divorse. Yes you idiot none, because we are just as good as you are, or in some cases people who love more, and have more understanding of what real morals, and yet we dont need religion to know that. God loves us, and thats why he made us. And as you said you ignorant god dint make everyone one sex , because their woulnt be any reproduction, thats why he made straight people with hearts to help us have a family, a to get thru this bitter sweet world, and people like you.
thank you and have a good day
get it staraight.
and dont stay ignorant.

October 23, 2009 at 4:54 am
(51) whatyouguysaredoingiswrong!!!! says:

if there was no god what is the purpose of life?why were we put on earth?to drink and have sexual relations with the same sex? Read sodem and Gomorrah. Basically the men of sodem surrounded Abrahams place and asked for the male guest . Abraham and his nephew lot, denied and offer the men two virgins instead. In the end all the people who went against god, they were set on fire and sent to hell. And when I do have any children I would keep them away from people like you. I do not live in a poor area so my future children will not grow up thinking that this life style is ok. I will guide my children to heaven. And yes you do choose to be gay. I met a young man that was misguided but he eventually found god and excepted gods wishes. He is now happily married with children of his own and couldn’t be happier. And how could people like me make a gay person unhappy. You are choosing to do the things you do and that is what makes you unhappy in life.

October 23, 2009 at 5:15 am
(52) whatyouguysaredoingiswrong. says:

Gay people were put on earth to show people that your life style is wrong! To look at you unhappy life, and see that this can’t be all there is to life. There is something more. I just hope more people will find god. No one wishes for anybody to go to hell. You make your own choices in life and you have to live with your own punishment. Answer me this. What happens when you die?? Is that it?? No it isnt. Not everyone is religious. But are all your unanswered questions being answered? Every city has gay people in it. And one that teaches about god can’t be gay, or they are not a true believer. I’ve heard a lot of stories about gay people and I know that they bring that pain the their life themself. A women is meant to be with a man. That is just how we were meant to be. It is normal to see a man embrace his love into his arms, and it is ok for children to see that. But if you choose to be gay why do you have to do that in public? We do not want to see that. To see two men holding hands, kissing, that is just stupid. Have respect for what others might see. Sure we can walk away or not look but if we see that its a little hard to not think about it, when it is wrong! Go to a private place and do as you please.

October 27, 2009 at 7:59 pm
(53) leaveusaloneplease says:

This is the second time that I had to come onto something like this because of ppl who bad mouth gays,there is nothing wrong with us,and shame on you who think that gays should die and burn in hell, do you think that I chose to be gay, if you notice,many gay boys are surrounded by girls, and many of them are pretty,but they still love the men they are with,it is sad,i am 15,and i understand things better than u older ppl do when it comes to being gay and how life is,so dont make our lives more difficult just because u dont like us,if u r black would u like ppl to say things about u and put u down,i sure wouldnt i try to love everyone

Good day to all of you who agree with me

November 2, 2009 at 11:09 am
(54) chriss says:

I love anal sex it brings u close to the other guy your with i like to rim b4 anal sex so i know wat the guys ass tastes like b4 full penetration.

November 3, 2009 at 2:48 am
(55) random teen says:

im gay and a struggling christian and here’s what i have to say.

1. it is possible to be gay and a christian, a thief and a murderer can be a christian as long as they try and change themselves
2. being a teenager going through this really sucks
3. other christians or religious people stop saying “going against god” and “abomination against god” not the most persuasive words and its incorrect, those are YOUR OWN OPINIONS (though i agree with them) stop forcing them on other people
4. These posts arent for evangelizing its about random gay fetishes… why are you here…
5. i have too many mixed views and im only 16 plus for anyone who cares im one of the few black kids in an mainly white town…

November 6, 2009 at 8:29 pm
(56) Raelity Cayne says:

Sorry, this isn’t really connected to the current argument, but in response to whatuguysaredoingiswrong’s question, “If there is no God what is the purpose of life?”

Life – nature’s way of keeping meat fresh!

I did not make that up myself, I think it’s from a show on BBC.
And go gays! You are all wonderful, unique, and precious people! Straight and bi people too! And everyone else!

PS – except for all the ones saying that some people are “wrong” or “bad.”

PPS – Hooray! Ref. 71 passed! (I live in Washington State.)

November 8, 2009 at 5:11 pm
(57) Mike says:

If gay men didn’t have anal sex many of them would still be alive today. Millions of gay men have died because of anal sex. And many of them are HIV positive today because they participated in anal sex.

It causes bleeding each and every time you do it. And no, the bleeding isn’t always visible but it’s there just the same.

It’s kind of sad how anal sex is promoted as something good. Not sure how that can be true. Everyone should use their anus as an exit only.

November 9, 2009 at 6:20 am
(58) StraightTeenGirl says:

I’m a Christian and straight, but I support gays.

To whatyourdoingiswrong: Tell us exactly where in the Bible it says being gay is a sin.

Yes, only a straight couple can reproduce, but aren’t there enough poor orphan children in the world?

Do we really need more children without loving parents, being raised as ‘Wards of the state’ or worse, going to abusive foster homes?

I suppose gays can’t raise children because they need a man and woman as parents, just like we don’t allow single mothers or fathers to raise children by themselves. Right…

And learn how spell and use proper punctuation.

And to all of you ‘Christians’ who hate all gays, stop giving the rest of us a bad name.

We don’t all hate gays.

November 12, 2009 at 6:30 pm
(59) l says:

hey guys. im straight, but everyone was made in gods image! just because u guys r differnt doesnt mean your ”evil” as some are saying!

November 12, 2009 at 8:59 pm
(60) meh says:

To the person who thinks that seeing homosexuals kissing in public? I think it’s gross to see anyone kissing in public, but to be completely honest, I’m glad to see that some people still love each other. I’m tired of going around town and seeing so many people glaring and angry at each other because they’re miserable with their lives. A little bit of romance, gay or not, is refreshing against all the hate in the world.
Love is love, and isn’t God love?
I read a quote once, maybe you can appreciate it too:
“God will understand. If He does not, then He is not God, and we don’t have to worry.”
Keep on loving, everyone. That’s what our kids really need to see.

November 15, 2009 at 9:11 am
(61) Stephen says:

If its against god why did he make us gay!
All you narrow minded homophobes who hate people for being who they are, are wrong!
God teaches love
Why should gay people hide themselves because of your hatred.
Anyway religion causes hate and divides people.

November 22, 2009 at 8:38 pm
(62) streight guy says:

im strieght but i was wondering why do guys like bum sex so much?

November 24, 2009 at 2:40 pm
(63) Liam says:

I have known I was gay for many years now and at this point people like whatyouguysaredoingiswrong don’t make me mad they just make me laugh at there stupidity.

December 3, 2009 at 11:32 pm
(64) James says:

Comment 25 really helped me…

Thankyou

December 14, 2009 at 10:55 am
(65) Janathot wealleh says:

O my god…when was the last time y’all read the bible…just out of curiosity who here is a christian… I personally think that gayness is stupid and the biggest sin one could possibly imagine about commiting. For those of you who are christians cherios but I hope that u no that is the worst choice that you could of ever mad. With all due respect, janat

December 31, 2009 at 10:38 pm
(66) he says:

first im a guy str8t and a Christian i would like to say that im sorry to all gay community for the offensive words that some “Christians” say im an NOT affraid of guy guys or lesbians i can give any gay a hug but with respect but wee need to face the truth the bible say it. lets take for example Cor. 6:9-10, “Or do you not know that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, shall inherit the kingdom of God.” as you see in the bible clearly says that adulters thieves and HOMOSEXUALS. Just because someone is a homosexual does not mean that we cannot love him (or her) or pray for him (her). Homosexuality is a sin and like any other sin, it needs to be dealt with in the only way possible. It needs to be laid at the cross, repented of, and never done again.

As a Christian, you should pray for the salvation of the homosexual the same as you would for any other person in sin. The homosexual is still made in the image of God — even though he is in grave sin. Therefore, you should show him the same dignity as anyone else with whom you come in contact. However, this does not mean that you are to approve of their sin. Don’t compromise your witness for a socially-acceptable opinion that is void of godliness.

January 1, 2010 at 12:02 pm
(67) Homophobe with an open mind says:

Here’s my concern here: If gay women (lesbians, dykes, I don’t know the politically correct term) do not like men, what is the purpose is purchasing phallic toys to stimulate them like men? And if a lesbian considers herself to only like women, why do the role play as man and woman? I feel that would defeat the purpose. And as for gay guys, what the heck, guys?! Just say no to anal and get a girl to do everything else. Butthole=strict no entry zone.

January 4, 2010 at 9:43 pm
(68) Knotu124 says:

Being gay is ok! :)

January 6, 2010 at 5:01 pm
(69) concordgrape says:

I really am wondering how a person can ‘accept’ someone not like themselves (a gay person in this case), treat them with respect, and yet THINK through prayer that they are less godly for their supposed sin? You can not approve of a human being who is just as homosexual as you are heterosexual and then think entirely different. Your approving actions are contradictory to your narrow minded thoughts. They should be the same. Actions speak louder than thoughts. As for the subject of sin, well that is a whole other chapter. What will you do the day a homosexual person calls you a sinner for being heterosexual? The point is, ‘sin’ is a word we give meaning to it. An action is only a sin if you make it one. And if there is a God, I do not think he/she/it wants us to go around pointing our fingers at each other saying ‘You are wrong.’ I am pretty sure that is just an immature little peons game that in the grand scheme of things is trifle and unimportant. Sin and judgement are just escape goats for our misunderstanding of things we are not familiar with. So God, who should understand everything, has no need for sin or judgement. Some of us humans, on the other hand, apparently STILL do. I hope your naivety will diminish over time.

January 8, 2010 at 2:00 pm
(70) lesbian lover says:

My g/f and i do anal. whether it be with a dildo or i finger her. she fingers me but havent used dildo on me. she loves it. she said its the best experience she has ever had, and it is quite mindblowing for me..lesbians–try the feeldoe

January 17, 2010 at 11:38 pm
(71) Mysterious Gray says:

Funny thing… most guys I know do anal, gay guys that is.
But I’ve had the occasional no anal guy come across my friendship zone.
It is true it isn’t for everyone.
But usually there are those who like and those who don’t, and they find each other, now a days the community is pretty self sufficient.
Don’t think of there being more one way or the other, cause chances are they aren’t to different.
The real question is, is anal something for you or not.
And if you aren’t gay, don’t worry about what gay guys do.

January 30, 2010 at 4:46 am
(72) Rosary says:

being gay or lesbian is not an evil or shame.It’s just the other way of life which straight guys or girls can’t take in. I ‘m not a gay myself but I’ll never be against gays and lesbians around me

January 31, 2010 at 1:05 am
(73) Kaitlynn. says:

All of you homophobes commenting on here are making no sense to me. What are you doing searching this kind of stuff if your against it? Can’t you mind your own business and leave us to ours?

February 3, 2010 at 12:55 pm
(74) Help. says:

I am a teenager. I have never had sex before. I recently went out with this dude who is my age and he wants to have anal sex but i want to wait because I want my first time to be special, I guess. It sounds kind of lame but that’s how I feel. What are some other ways to have “sex” without putting my penis into his butt and vice versa? Is there fun kinky stuff to do that will be just as good?

February 7, 2010 at 10:31 am
(75) Ari says:

Dudes I’m 15 bi and Jewish I go to an only girls skewl my parents don’t know and the only ppl that do r my half bro and my very very good friends that I trust and my bf gay ppl CAN have a committed proper relationship I c nothing wrong in the way they feel or sometimes act and the prejudistic things I c and here against them makes me sick to the stomach I was hurt and confused for about four years b4 I finally accepted who I was i liked only girls before and now I like only one guy and a bunch of girls but I’m in a commuted healthy relationship and FYI I have alot of awe and respect for gay ppl and lesbians that r out ESPECIALLY in today’s society I hopE that one day I’ll find the courage to come out to all also I’m just afraid of dissapointing my parents and q few of my teachers that I like and I don’t wanna get kicked out of skewl I think most ppl in my class know but we don’t talk about it like they used to joke about it alot but really ppl that r hetero out there don’t be mean to gays and lesbians and don’t do it in front of ur children when u givE ur kid the ‘talk’ in my opinion tell them about hetero sex and gay sex and tell them u love and support them no matter what and don’t make fun ridicule or tabboo homosexual ppl in front of them don’t tell them it’s completely wrong and disgusting because for all u know they can be gay themselves and trust me we might be able to pretend to agree and smile and stuff but it really kills on the inside trust me I know I’m Jewish I’m religious and I plan on leading that lifestyle and most heteros are much more smutty than homosexual ppl my uncles gay and I never knew till I asked my mom if I could hook him up with someone I never saw him act pike that I actually thouhgt he had a gf because I saw a girl that was his friend and did his hair in corn rows other ppl that were straight where like wild apes they went around in front of me a four year old flaunting there love kissing and touching I admire the gay communities I support them heteros don’t worry so much gay ppl won’t ruin society

February 7, 2010 at 11:43 pm
(76) Jake says:

People, I’m a straight 15 year old guy. I am slightly relegious but not hardcore. Even I can see more then the homophobes here can see. They don’t understand nature versus nurture. I think, people are born gay, why would some one choose to live in a society where people outcast them. Gay people should be comfertable with who they are, not fear the people who fear them.
“whatyouguysaredoingiswrong” is one of the most ignorent people i have ever heard. He reads the bible contextualy, but he asks the wrong questions. I dream of a world where it will be possible for people to do what they want without fear of socail rejection. Ari i wish you the best of luck, don’t fear people who fear who you are. Ignorence is bliss, if your the ignorant one, not the one being descriminated upon. that’s all i have to say. Best of luck to every one who needs to come out

February 8, 2010 at 7:59 pm
(77) Bicertain says:

“what is the purpose in purchasing phallic toys to stimulate them like men?” (on girl-girl sex)

it’s not about the toy or what it looks like…its about being with another woman and being attracted to her.

does god condone your hateful homophobism?

February 10, 2010 at 8:26 pm
(78) thinker says:

you christians and gay,s need to calm down.
this site is about anal.
i,ve was married ,been with men and woman,been to church.

my toy,s are all that,s left….
nothing compares to anal insertion {dildo or real} it is more mind blowing than any sex I have ever had.
P.s. I,ve done the strait swinger orgy thing…still love my toy,s ,they alway,s make me feel better when I need it.
you need to try it before you can intelligently debate it.
you can,t say you hate rootbeer if you,ve never had it.
small mind= small world

Oh yeh all sin is created equal…lying,hate ,murder…same pricetag….I read the book

February 17, 2010 at 2:21 am
(79) Jeremy says:

People have lots of different sexual practices in general. There are also straight guys and girls who like to have anal sex. There are straight girls who like to give their boyfriends anal sex. There are lesbians who put dildos in their asses, gay guys who only masturbate with each other, and whatever combination of sexual activity out there, it exists.

February 22, 2010 at 1:10 pm
(80) Kelsey says:

I am a straight women and I honestly have no problems with gay relationships!
And to all you ‘gay-hating christians’ out there… If God didn’t want Gay people… then why did he create them?
In the bible it says that God made you unique. NOTICE THE HE MADE YOU!
And not once in the bible does it say that God hates gays.
I have many gay friends and i really am not fazed in any way by them. They are wonderful as friends because they have been judged so much in their lives, so they wouldn’t dare to judge anyone else.
And by the way, LOVE is LOVE. It doesn’t matter what gender you are! As long as you both love each other, it shouldn’t matter!!
I support gays and am PROUD OF IT!

February 26, 2010 at 2:38 pm
(81) Dakota says:

whatuguysaredoingiswrong! you have no right to tell someone they cant be happy! who the HELL do you think you are. Do you think i chose to be gay ? well i dont thats how i was born BITCH.. and if God really cared then he would help those in Haiti right now or those all over the world who pray to him every night for help but do you see him no that because he isn’t there, he isn’t coming to save anyone.why the hell would i chose to be made fun of or get told what I’m doing is wrong. well to me it’s not, it’s who I am and if you dont like that then dont go outside because there is gay people all over the world that you will see kissing,and when you do i hope you pray for those two people because God isn’t coming to save them because there is nothing to be saved about them………….. YOUR THE REASON WHY 1,000′S OF PEOPLE KILL THEMSELVES EACH YEAR AND YOU SHOULD CRAWL UNDER A ROCK AND NEVER COME OUT………. ASS WHOLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

February 26, 2010 at 2:47 pm
(82) dakota says:

O and those who dont like gays WHY THE HELL ARE U ON THIS SITE??????????????????????????????????????????

February 26, 2010 at 11:22 pm
(83) 360 says:

Err…I am bisexual, but thats beside the point. I am 14 years old soon to be 15 in a few weeks but, me and my bf have been going out for 3 years at the most and we sometimes fool around with each other while our parents are gone, but we DO it and he wants to start giving me anals, I like the idea but I just think we are both too young to do that now. What do I tell him?

March 7, 2010 at 6:49 pm
(84) kyle f says:

i like anal personally. it feels sooo good! (:

March 12, 2010 at 5:43 pm
(85) bi-curious says:

i am a 14 year old boy and am bi-curious. I was just wondering how good anal is.

March 13, 2010 at 4:39 am
(86) whatuguysaredoingiswrong says:

i am gay my self no gay males like me thats why i dont like them i have a 15 inch cock and its rock hard when i see my male friends .. when i see females my cock feels like its up my arse

March 31, 2010 at 9:39 pm
(87) Travis says:

Hi ppl
I’m a straight guy.I think women are the greatest gift on earth. There just amazing. But I must confess Im very attracted to shemales, atleast the pretty ones anyways.like I’ve never met a shemale in real life but I think I would have sex with a pretty shemale if the opportunity ever arose.

April 6, 2010 at 6:37 am
(88) Robin says:

I’m gay, 16 years old and live in London. My then-boyfriend (sadly now my ex, as he lives in Australia, too far away to consider continuing a relationship) and I had anal sex quite often over the course of a very strong and healthy two-year-relationship (and neither of us are feminine guys, Jonas! ;) ).

whatuguysaredoingiswrong is possibly the biggest hypocrite I’ve ever come across. I don’t know about others, but I’m finding it really hard to understand how gay men don’t like him if he throws verbal abuse at the gay community… *coughs sarcastically*

And for anyone else who feels like leaving homophobic abuse similar to what ‘whatuguysaredoingiswrong’ and ‘Student-Man’ here – don’t. I’m not quite sure what you’re doing on these sorts of forums if you’re homophobic (unless you yourself are a homosexual-in-doubt, in which case you should seek therapy to help you come out to yourself).

And a general note – leave religion out of this! This is a forum for gay teenagers such as myself, not for people to hold religious debates about the morals of homosexuality. Go and find some other site to have those debates.

April 11, 2010 at 4:05 pm
(89) Eureka says:

It seems that the anti-gay argument always boils down to “It’s wrong in the name of God”. What if the person’s beliefs aren’t Christian or not as fundamental in it’s understanding or simply just believe in God and in simple moral things such as not killing others or stealing? Why is it that YOUR beliefs are the ones that count, not the gay person? Who gave you the right to judge and bash other people and tell them how they’re so immoral? Doesn’t the Bible teach to treat and love others equally?

I’m sorry for the rant, I’m just so frustrated to see that the loudest on the anti side of the argument are typically so… condescending. I’m not even Christian (I’m atheist with heavy roots in Buddhist beliefs), but I know to respect and love everyone which is (probably) the most basic teaching in the Bible.

April 16, 2010 at 10:07 am
(90) Leanne says:

Actually ‘Thinkaboutthis’ there are plenty of studies and research that shows that lots of animals ‘mate’ with the same sex.

April 17, 2010 at 5:03 am
(91) Thomas says:

I have a question…I have always been a ladies man…but yet i like to be penetrated sometimes…not by a man but by a woman but yet i like to get off in a woman…..idk what this means…am i possibly bi? idk but it feels good to go with a finger or more…. help please bc im confused…

April 21, 2010 at 7:11 pm
(92) Sandra Brown says:

I’m straight, but I love anal sex. (let the accusations begin) It’s a whole other sensation that can result in bigger orgasms. Many times for women, vaginal sex doesn’t do anything for them. I don’t believe in the existence of the g-spot and think this might be the problem as well as men only focusing on pleasing themselves. If you consider gay sex to be dirty and downright disgusting, then I’d love to know how yours is. If you’re the type that just lays there and waits for it to be over and the guy has no interest in pleasing you, you shouldn’t be one to comment. That is just plain awful sex with no passion or lust or variety. You do know that sex is supposed to be dirty and FUN? And ooo, doesn’t it make you mad that some gay people have better sex than you ever will. hmmm. You should probably get some advice from them. Gay people are still people, ay!

April 28, 2010 at 11:35 pm
(93) Jen says:

I’m a seventeen year old, and I am straight. However, I have plenty of gay friends- both male and female- whom I love to pieces. Normally, I wouldn’t get into an arguement like this with adults older than me who would just ignore me and claim me ignorant and too young to understand, but I do want to say this.

For all of the older, Christian adults here who are slandering the gay guys and gals: As a member of one of the newest generations, I’d like to say that religion doesn’t matter anymore, gay people are being accepted and it is NOT wrong to be gay. Perhaps you should speak to your “god” and ask him why he can’t be as loving as all of us non-christians and accept people for the way they are? Children seeing gay people embrace or kiss isn’t going to kill them either, so stop being so melodramatic about it. I swear, if I could shove the idea of gay people down the throats of every single age-old Christian purists who hate gays, I would, and I would be god damn proud of doing it.

I am proud to support the gay guys and gals, and if you Religious folks can’t handle it, then go jump off a cliff so you don’t have to live with the future, kay?

April 30, 2010 at 10:49 pm
(94) jason says:

i am going to leave this scripture..
read it and read before and after this text if you are christian you will know it and the story that aligns with it.
1 Judge not, that ye be not judged.
2 For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again. Mk. 4.24
3 And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother’s eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?
4 Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye?
5 Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother’s eye.
6 ∂ Give not that which is holy unto the dogs, neither cast ye your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn again and rend you.

jesus did not allow mocking and battery of those that did not align with his beliefs.. on the cross he stated “forgive them for they know not what they do” I mean.. if he tried to teach us to do that.. why.. would we think that forcing our beliefs on others be okay?
He asked for people to follow, he did not force them.. he gave them agency to choose.. Why has the chritian practices altered so much that people cannot see this digression of practice?

good luck to you. and best wishes all
supposition

May 3, 2010 at 3:16 am
(95) Bibically Speaking says:

Dear Voice of Reason,

You really should not speak about topics you know nothing of….sigh, you really are and ass to even assume that you know anything of God. How do you know? The Bible? Ha! Maybe you should try actually reading it. I challenge anyone to show me where the Bible says homosexuality is wrong and I will show you was an ass you really are. And don’t even think of bringing up Sodom and Gomorrah; if you really read into that story it is a story of a city where the most rightous man was willing to let his daughters get raped. This story is not about homosexuality, it is about a lack of hospitality; I will offfer one of many proofs, The Bible said that every man in the city was outside of lots house asking for the angels, among them his son in laws. Thus they were not all gay, thus proving this is a story proving inhospitality and gang rape are bad.

I defy anyone to try and pull a different story, for you willl get a refutaion from someone who has actually read and studied the Bible.

Thanks, bye bye now.

May 8, 2010 at 7:57 am
(96) anartofgod says:

hey to any gay christians and str8 supporters. You should visit gaychristian.net =) it’s the best. Did you know the word homosexual wasn’t invented in bible eras. And ummm I’m christian and gay, I’ve tried changingmy sexuality so many times. I’ve prayed and been with girls. But one day I shattered. I wasn’t happy. I was lying to myself and to the girls I was with. I wouldn’t want to regret living a lie. Imagine I marry a women and she thinks I’m inlove with her, but all her life was actually a lie (that would suck) well I prayed so much and one day I truly felt the holy spirit as I praised god and I felt as if he told me that being gay is ok. I have finally accepted myself last year, almost around the same time I accped jesus as my lord and saviour

May 9, 2010 at 3:47 am
(97) pblolk says:

i dont conder me gay but i think having sex with a hot guy w be awesome ,,, hot make out yum

May 9, 2010 at 6:47 pm
(98) Against nature says:

Now this is just my two cents, which im entitled to. I am not christian and never want to be, too much brainwashing going on in religion. As far as homosexuality goes, it is wrong because it is against nature, that is my reason for not approving. You can go go on the defensive if you want, does not matter to me, just shows your lack of maturity over an opinion. Men and women , male and female, were meant to be together; not same sex. I feel like im in high school again, accept other’s opinions of what you do just as they have to accept your gay and live with it. So all of you GROW UP and act like adults.

May 9, 2010 at 7:10 pm
(99) Against Nature says:

BTW, in the animal kingdom, there is same sex happenings as a sign of dominance, nothing to do with how sex is meant to be.

May 11, 2010 at 4:55 pm
(100) Anal!!! says:

Ok so anal is amazing ppl it doesnot hurt u just gotta get used to a hard dick up your ass sooo

May 14, 2010 at 2:36 am
(101) CGsquared Diest says:

hey, i am a straight girl, i’m 16, and i believe there is a god that created everything, however i don’t believe he should control our actions. We are all independent human beings, and we have the right to be gay, straight, or bisexual to our own taste. One of my best friends is gay, and he is one of the most respectful, and fun, person i have ever met in my life. Gay people are just like everybody else. THey are not sinning, they are just living their lives how they want to, and honestly, you can’t turn a truly gay person straight, trust me, i’ve tried. lol. but yeah. keep on living your lives, becuase people are stupid for trying to say that other people are going to ruin the earth by being different

June 3, 2010 at 2:40 pm
(102) gay16yearoldboy says:

Reading all these homophobic comments just hurts so bad. I want to cry. Its people like you who are the cause of suicides in gay teens! I am fortunate enough to have lovig friends and family! I have so much respect and support for gay teens around the world who don’t have support from family and friends
It has taken me THREE years to except myself because I was afraid of what society had to say about it! So shut the hell up and keep your homophobic-religionist comments to yourself!

and to the LGBT teen community around the world, It is ok to be gay no matter what ANYONE says!

NOH8!

June 4, 2010 at 11:11 pm
(103) Gay 17 year old guy says:

I am 17 and gay. For all those gay haters; why is being gay so bad? Why, just because the bibles says it is. The bottom line is that the bible says a lot of things about how we should and shouldn’t live our lives. The question whether or not that book is relevant to the way we live in the 21st century. If you really listen to the bible on ever single issue; the bible says ” if your right eye offend you, pluck it out. If your left hand offend you, pluck it out.” If we follow that precept to the letter (which people do about homosexuality), we’d be a nation with one eye and one hand. It gets to be ridiculous after awhile. In addition, Gluttony is one of the 7 deadly sins, the other six are wrath, greed, sloth, pride, lust, and envy. Why is that Gluttony, one of the deadly sins, seems to be a sin that Christians like to ignore or don’t even bring up? But, how come gluttony is accepted in society today and homosexuality isn’t? That doesn’t make sense how a deadly sin is perfectly accepted within the Christian community. Proverbs 28:7 declares, ďHe who keeps the law is a discerning son, but a companion of gluttons disgraces his father.Ē PROVERBS 23:2 PROCLAIMS,”PUT A KNIFE TO YOUR THROAT IF YOU ARE GIVEN TO GLUTTOY.” So people that are obese and over eat should put a knife to their throat. Really people!!! This doesn’t make sense to how people live today. It might have made sense when the bible was written. But humans evolve and change. Dont get me wrong, I believe in having a relationship God and Jesus. I respect everybody for their beliefs and i think everyone is entitled to their opinion. But one thing that is important to me, is that realizing pain in a human BEING! And whatever you believe and wether you don’t approve of someone’s life style. To me what hurts is the lack of empathy for pain. Why all the hate towards gays and inflecting pain upon them? Do you think I want to be gay? NO! I would do anything to be straight. I think gays would love to avoid the discrimination and hate that they face. I say “they” because i am still deep, deep into the closet, and haven’t felt the hate yet, but i will. I have prayed to God and Jesus to just make me straight but that’s just the way I was born; a genetic defect. I have now accepted me for who i am. I think its funny when people, who aren’t gay, say that being gay is a choice. They are so ignorant and do not even understand what they are talking about. Being Gay is not a choice. I did not choice this. So i guess what i am saying is why is homosexuality taking so solemnly to the letter while other much deadlier sins are not taken so literally? And why don’t people just live their own lives? Its really no one’s business to be messing with other people’s life even if you don’t approve of it. I will live my life and you will live your life. Well, I guess that was my two cents for the day! Haha
Have tolerance,
gay 17 year old guy

June 7, 2010 at 5:23 pm
(104) dom says:

Im not gay and never been with a guy and never will, but I will have to admit after buying pretty she-male dvds it would be my dream come to be with a pretty she-male who looks exactly like a woman. I would not want to have anal sex due to its risks as well as possible discomfort and even pain(yes I did try a dildo a few times). So I would prefer to have the pretty she-male(who looks exactly like a pretty woman)to lay on top of me where are biggies meet until we both climax. That would be a dream come true for me as well as many other heterosexual guys. And I will correct those now- A she-male or transgender who has the exact appearance of a woman but has a biggie is NOT a man but in fact a woman with male genitalia.

June 15, 2010 at 2:23 am
(105) Ryan says:

Hello, i’m 15 and i’m not sure if i’m gay, please someone help me out!

June 15, 2010 at 6:40 pm
(106) Cvgdhdghgaghgdhdrhdfbdgvvuvyvyfyfffcyvvvuvuvufydvddfjgfu says:

Dear Ryan if you aren’t sure if u like guys then u must either be bi or stupid because u should know

June 17, 2010 at 6:56 pm
(107) aa says:

in my country if the people know you are gay they
kill you

June 19, 2010 at 10:12 am
(108) Angelof6 says:

Hello ppl of this very long argument!! I’m a strait grl and I’m 13. Now permit me to tell all u ppl tht say tht God hates gays r ring in the noggin:

God creates us all, he picks our lives, we choose if we want to sin or not. Being gay is not sinful. God luvs us all even if we r gay or lesbian. He created us, he luvs us, r u calling him gay?

God gave us pure luv when he died for us. I think gays have a more true luv than strait ppl. Don’t a lot of strait marriages end up in cheating or divorce? Most gay ppl luv their prtner 4ever.

God does not hate gays, he luvs us all UNCONDITIONALLY remember? So is being gay a condition made up by haters? God can luv gays and lesbians, he luvs everyone.

I hate to say it but, if our country is being run by ppl who hates sum1 cuz of their sexual orientation, then I very afraid for my future. If I have one at all. No wonder why we have wars.

So there, let a 13 year old child tell u adults. If ur a hater, think about life more. Wat is more important? That God luvs us unconditionally? Or tht he hates (which is so not true) gays?

BTW, I’m 100% catholic. Life is easier when u u derstand more than other ppl do.

June 21, 2010 at 5:51 pm
(109) agree with Angelof6 says:

I agree with what Angelof6 said. Even though I doubt those “haters” would come back and read these rebukes. But if religion is covering up God’s accepting image with self-derived beliefs, then I would gladly destroy Christianity. You may call me the devil, but that’s only if you believe God is ONLY Christianity, and nothing more. Obviously God is the ultimate being and is in no way bounded by religion.
There is nothing wrong with being gay. They’re just not attracted to someone of the opposite sex. What’s the big deal?
And someone mentioned that masturbation is not a lifestyle…Hate to break it to you, but masturbation IS a lifestyle. You do it in a cycle. If you masturbate, then you’re a creature that masturbates. It’s you’re lifestyle. Just like how eating healthy diet three times a day is a lifestyle.
To those who are against gays with all their might, don’t try to be all mighty and righteous, because you trying to slaughter these homosexuals are even lower scum.

June 26, 2010 at 12:36 am
(110) Stacey says:

I am a lesbian and I love dildos, anal sex, oral sex, vaginal sex, rimming, everything. I just like to do all these things with women. I think sex acts are universal, and the only difference between gay and straight is who you like to do it with, not necessarily what you like to do in bed. Different people like different things no matter what sexual orientation they are.

July 7, 2010 at 9:28 pm
(111) jo 135 says:

hi im my self is a gay male wth partner of 3yrs , happy in a great arear in the cotswold and the peope are great 2wards us , just like to say we havent afended any 1 by holdin hands but i will say we dond kiss or have sex in 4rnt of young people like some person said on here as we do that in our time and in our home wth curtaians shut not like some straight people i have seen in the the playin fields , u are as bad as the rest of us , we are all animals in one way or other , take care all gay and straight , just have safe sex or love xxxx

July 15, 2010 at 12:18 am
(112) Luna1889 says:

I’m a Christian girl and I’m tolerable to most of these people on here. I d not have tolerance for those who are intolerant of gays. I have a gay relative and I can count on him more than I can count on my straight ones! And it pains me to see people like my father shun him and make horrible comments like they’re going to hell. I don’t like it as much as the next Christian, homosexuality strikes me odd. And I’ve tried many times to walk in that person’s shoes. To try to delve into why they would enjoy the same sex instead of the opposite. And I can’t. I am however tolerant. I don’t like it but I learn to deal with it. Why can’t people learn to live with eachother. Sometimes I feel that the Bible is not exactly true. It’s been tampered with over and over again.Concerning masturbation. It’s fine it’s perfectly normal and actually healthy for men and women to practice. It’s keeping me chaste for the man God is going to give me, because I think to tell you all the truth, holding sexual urges back can hurt you. Gluttony, ( I personally find very sexy in a guy). I’m sorry I got off subject, I didn’t know how to end the rant, or whatever, jacking off isn’t evil. Those sperm that come out aren’t even fully developed. I do however oppose abortion ( those pictures will continue to haunt me). Though I don’t believe blowing up clinics is going to stop people. We are just as bad as those damned muslim radicals.

Any way, I’m going to get back to the article, As a straight gir,l I’d love to get anal from my future husband. Alot of people find it weird. Why do alot of people enjoy anal? The answer: the anus has so many nerve endings inside it, which would make it pleasureable. That’s why alot of people find it satisfying to squat and take a long satisfying dump on the John!! XDDD But be careful, with rough anal sex. My friend who works at a hospital Memorial to be exact, had an ER call with something that sounds like it should only be in a horror story: a woman having sex with her boyfriend, had him do it too hard doggy style. All was fine, he pulled out of her. But then, the next thing she knew it , her intestines were being pulled out of her anus entwined by his phallus! My friend got to see it. How did he help her? He oiled that thing up, and pushed it back in! Hopefully this fate never befalls any of you. Straight or gay. LOL some intelligent person talk to me, I’m bored. And I’d love to chat with you! ;P

July 21, 2010 at 10:19 pm
(113) Yo says:

hey, i’m just wondering, if wanting to have anal sex with a girl makes you gay, does it?

August 10, 2010 at 2:04 am
(114) J.J says:

Me my boyfriend have done anal before, but he prefers to blow me. Even thought i enjoy both the time we’ve spent together we spent most of the time kissing and holding each other. And as for lesbians liking dildos according to my sister and her fiance they both have told me yeah there okay but they would rather just spend time together and when they do have sex they would rather use there mouth or even fingers same with me i would rather use my fingers if we do have anal sex but most of the time me and him just like holding each other and kissing. Because to use that’s the best part of the relationship just spending time together and showing each other how much we care for one another.

August 22, 2010 at 2:08 am
(115) sadlyROMANTICgay14YEARold says:

! I HAD THIS WHOLE COMMENT ALL WRITTEN OUT! Allright. I am gay, male, 14, texan, closeted, hopeless romantic and fed up. See I had an awesome coment but I forgot to put a name. So I present the remix. ALL YOU GAY HATERS, STAY OFF THIS SITE! ESPECIALLY YOU whatuguysaredoingiswrong!! FOR ALL YOU PEOPLE WHO ACCEPT US, THANK YOU! I TRIED TO STAY CALM AND COMPOSED BUT WHEN THAT FIRST COMMENT DIDNT MAKE IT ALL MY PAITENCE SNAPPED LIKE A TWIG. THE WHOLE DAMN TOPIC IS ANAL SEX. NOT HOW MUCH YOU HATE GAYS. IF YOU HATE US THEM WHY IS YOU HERE? DO YOU JUST LIVE TO INSULT US? I THINK YOU ONLY HATE US BECAUSE YOUR ANCESTORS DID. YOU KNOW WHY THEY DID? BECAUSE THEY DIDNT APPROVE. THATS WHY THEY SAID GOD HATES GAYS. I AM METHODIST AND I HAVE NEVER READ THE ENTIRE BIBBLE BUT I KNOW THAT THAT DAMN BOOK WAS WRITTEN BY HUMANS. I BELEIVE IN GOD AND KNBOW THAT HE / SHE DOESN’T HATE US OR HE WOULD NEVER WOULD HAVE MADE US SO DAMNIT LEAVE US ALONE ( cries silently.) IT BECAUSE OF PEOPLE LIKE YOU THAT I’M AFRAID TO COME OUT! BECAUSE OF YOU PEOPLE I AM AFRAID TO TELL THE GUY I LIKE THAT I WELL … LIKE HIM. WHY? BECAUSE HE IS CATHOLIC AND MOST OF TYHE CATHOLICS AT MY AGE HATE GAYS. EVEN THOUGH THOSE ARE LIBERALS. WHAT THE HELL IS THAT ABOUT? ANYWAY… ANAL SEX, never had it. I have however fingered myself… once. Still it felt amazing and I respect that it is all in the eye of the beholder soooooo good luck

BTW I love all of ou peoples who stood up for gays even if you arent. Y’all rock and will surely go to haeven so long as you dont kill. LOVE ConfusedGayBoy

August 23, 2010 at 5:24 pm
(116) Jenn says:

Being gay is a choice. Though I don’t know why anyone would want to I’m guessing attention or abuse when they were younger. Or maybe the environment they grew up in.

I do have best friends who like the same sex. I remember when they chose to like the same sex. But I still love them the same as I did before. Do I agree with their lifestyle choice? No.

Also you can’t be a Christian and gay at the same time. Its not possible. It says in directly in the bible God is against it. And yes other people do have religions that they are in. But please if you say you are Christian and say you are gay thats a complete lie. There is no in between you either are Christian or not. If you are gay then you are not. That is a fact and so simple. :)

August 30, 2010 at 5:40 am
(117) samanta says:
August 31, 2010 at 8:44 pm
(118) Someone Average says:

Jenn, where exactly in the Bible does it exactly say? I would like to know for reals because I have yet to find the words you will go to hell if you are gay and you can’t be a christina. God loves EVERYONE regardless. Get your facts straight. We are in the new testament.

Christian or not I believe God and regardless if I think being gay is okay or not the bottom line is in God’s eyes a sin is a sin. Personally I would never judge someone who is gay. If you condemn someone simply because they are Gay, then you are judging and it is not our job to judge it is GOD’s! Grow up, you are not God or Jesus get over yourself and quite putting other people down just because you think you can. As if their isn’t more important topics in the world then whether or not people liking the same sex. Come one there is way more important things to worry about.

September 5, 2010 at 1:38 am
(119) dookie says:

The man’s G-spot is inside his butt whether your gay or straight..yep men I know it’s hard to believe…look it up..it’s so true!!!

September 5, 2010 at 1:58 am
(120) dookie says:

Thinker…I like your post, lol, I mean written, not physical,lol!

September 14, 2010 at 11:05 am
(121) Par says:

To alll ignorant people who visit and leave bad remarks bout les and gays,why dont you just mind your own? Who know nothing about our situation!you know nothing what were going through! Who are you to judge and criticize us?for you to understand us,i wish you’ll be on our shoes even for a month

September 14, 2010 at 12:17 pm
(122) Jonathan says:

yeah me and my boyfriend, when we have sex he stick his hard dick up my anal spot, or whatever, but it feels so f*cking good. I LOVE SCREWING BOYS!

September 15, 2010 at 6:33 pm
(123) Paul says:

1946 was the year the word homosexual was entered in the bible. I think it was God that said do not change any word or words in the bible. There is no word in the bible that suggest nor homosexual will inherit the kingdom of God. Do your research entry 66 before spewing false statements.

September 18, 2010 at 8:00 am
(124) 2012obvious says:

It is obvious the higher Power put the gays in this Earth to show us happiness. Although some gays in the past were irresponsible in sex, it may have been because of the lack of acceptance experienced by them.

If you must protect heterosexual marriage, then why aren’t billions invested by you, Christian extremists, into couple counseling, trash can babies, orphans and the automated foster-care system.

September 18, 2010 at 4:17 pm
(125) sadlyROMANTIC14YEARold says:

person who posted after me. you SAY that I cant be gay and christian at the same time. yet i still am. i am still here, still methodist and yes, still gay. this site is about ANAL SEX between gay men and DILDO USAGE between lesbian women. so get off your high horse and get over yourselves and just dont come on these boards unless its about these two topics. If a 14 year closeted teen in texas can figure out that your just being immature then what does that say about YOU?

September 18, 2010 at 5:53 pm
(126) Jaylen says:

whatuguysaredoingiswrong- i cried when I read your article. It was one of the most hurtful things I have ever read and shame on you for thinking you can come here and say whatever you like just because you find homosexuality distasteful.
As a Christian who has struggled deeply with being bisexual, I take personal offense for myself and many other teens and adults who undertake these struggles daily. No wonder it is so hard for them to come out and to find acceptance- it is because of thoughtless, mindless people like you.

September 20, 2010 at 4:44 am
(127) To Each His Own says:

one thing is certain….regardless of sexual orientation, small-minded idiots will always be small-minded idiots =)

don’t box people up! you get people who are happy being straight, those who are unhappy being straight, those who enjoy being homosexual and those who don’t! everyone’s different and nobody can tell anybody else what’s right and wrong! just because you think homosexuality is wrong, it doesn’t mean you should persecute those who are.

okay that’s all =)

September 21, 2010 at 3:27 am
(128) whaturdoingiswrong. says:

I have tried many times to post what the bibble writes about gay ppl. Everytime it gets deleted. You should (gay ppl) feel ashamed about yourself, and think about how your parents feel. You are truely a disgrace to mankind. God put you here only as an example for the rest of us. You should really think about how you live your life. I really hope you can change it! If ppl get upset reading my opinion, then oviously you know in your heart you are doing something wrong.

September 23, 2010 at 2:37 pm
(129) bobbyjimmyjam says:

Hi. im a straight christian guy an well whatuaredoingiswrong God gave us all free will and a chance for bi’s, gays, lesbians and homophobes to go to heaven all we gotta do is ask for his forgivness of our sins. in Romans 3:23 it says “for ALL have sinnd and fall short of the glory of God” hmmmm ALL thats a prety strong word……..just accept Jesus as your Lord an Savior an He will show you the way….dont be hatter or your just as bad as a killer because the toung is like a double edged sword anit hurts

September 29, 2010 at 9:20 pm
(130) omokole says:

If God created anyone to be gay he would given them skills to walk upside down. What you do and practice does not change the nature your were born. When you practice homosexuality and illicit sexual behavior, that does not change what you are inside. For example a woman is born with womb and female reproductive organs; you go an surgically change all that an call yourself bi; come on!!. You hate the natural use of women and their sex organ and you call yourself gay; does the word gay change your sex organ? The bible says that homosexuality or being gay is a deliberate rejection of the God and his power of creation. These people have exchanged God’s truth for a lie. So they have become ungodly and serve what is created rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen!
26 For this reason God allowed their shameful passions to control them. Their women have exchanged natural sexual relations for unnatural ones.
27 Likewise, their men have given up natural sexual relations with women and burn with lust for each other. Men commit indecent acts with men, so they experience among themselves the punishment they deserve for their perversion.
28 And because they thought it was worthless to acknowledge God, God allowed their own immoral minds to control them. So they do these indecent things.
Romans 1:25-28 (GW)

October 7, 2010 at 5:20 am
(131) Cornelius says:

Being homophobe=being sexist.(gender discrimination)
If you think a guy can’t be with another guy, and a woman can, then that’s sexism. So if you are gayhater you are either sexist, or you have a problem with boys, or you have a problem with love.
And the bible actually tells you to love everyone.

October 13, 2010 at 11:30 pm
(132) Leave it be says:

I don’t make food in your bedroom, so don’t bring your bedroom to my kitchen.

Whatever your preferences are in bed, let it stay between those two (more?) people.

When two people ‘attack’ one another in public with serious kissing, fondling etc, people walk away shocked and feeling disgusted as it’s something so intimate doesn’t belong in the open. Be it a gay or straight couple.

God and the Bible. When you say you are Christian, behave just like that. The Bible that you believe in says not to judge. It is very easy to see and judge others when they are doing something different than yourself. It’s not up to anyone to judge another unless they are hurting you directly. And the thought of what others do in their bedroom can’t possibly hurt anyone. But I’m sure some will try and justify their spewed nonsense.

Love everyone as equals and then one day when you die, you can stand there saying you never judged, where never intolerable, and loved all God’s children – or enemies if you see them as such. But even then, Love your enemies is also mentioned in this great book of the said Christians.

October 16, 2010 at 5:28 pm
(133) Sarah :3 says:

well… i’m with my girlfriend for more than a year and we don’t like them… the article’s right and shows all the… lemme call em… not open for anything… that many more things happen in gay ppls bedrooms etc… oh and btw… i’m a lesbian… but hell… i don’t look like a guy O.o… i just wanted to say that :) ))

October 17, 2010 at 4:41 am
(134) ThisIsGettingOutOfControl says:

This is getting out of hand. This is a forum for the myth on whether or not that gay and women enjoy anal and dildos, not about whether or not being gay is wrong. If you want to debate on that, go to a Nature vs. Nurture debate forum instead. I read all the comments and itís sad that there is still so much ignorance in this world.

Everyone who thinks they have a right to judge anyone because of their sexual preference is judging him or her self. You do know that your pointing your finger at someone those three fingers are pointing back at you?

When people use the Bible as a scapegoat to persecute someone for being gay, because of “In the name of God” is messed up. MAN wrote the Bible! Not God. He did not come down from heaven to hand the Holy Bible to a favored man to reproduce the book to others. Manís hands wrote the stories.

I have not read the Bible nor am I religious person. To me, we all have the right to live our lives. I wonít agree with everyone and nether would you but there should be TOLERANCE of others.

Everybody sins at some point in his or her lives. Homosexuality it seems to be popular being a sin but what about the other sins? There are so many people who hold some of the Deadly Sins but do people persecute them? Not all the time but they are also here on this Earth.

And for the Homophobes on this Forum need to invest in a spell and grammar checker or at least re-read your posting before you hit the Say It! button. If there are actually grown-up adults on here, then you do not know how to write or spell at all. It helps if you are going to make a compelling argument instead of writing like you are in grade school.

I can already tell that I have pissed some people off but I have a right to my opinion like everybody else. I hope we can change but that seems to be a pretty far-fetched dream but we should start now. You don’t have to like it but don’t spread hate around. It will help save many lives in the long run.

Bye everyone.

October 24, 2010 at 12:09 am
(135) anonymous says:

i have recently noticed that i am gay and have recived anal sex in the past as an “expiriment” and i liked it i have given anal sex as well and do not know the others opinion about the subject

October 24, 2010 at 5:32 pm
(136) Lolwhat says:

It’s funny how all you ‘preachers’ are reading an article about gays and anal sex. I don’t think you just happened to stumble upon here.

I dislike religion, and what it has become. So I stay away from religious discussions. That is how I respect your space. By not condemning you people for your preferences.

I myself had once thought that being gay was wrong. I have forced myself to love females in every way possible. However, at the end of the day, the happiness I feel from being with my boyfriend doesn’t compare to what I feel from being with a girl. Yeah I know its messed up, but being from a Conservative country that bans homosexuality is tough.

I myself had always wished to have a wife and 2 kids. Kissing the wife goodbye before going to work, and driving the kids to school. Then I realized that I wasn’t in the wrong. Society told me that this is how I should live. I managed to find what truly made me happy, and that feeling is worth more than satisfying society.

However, I stand here now saying that being Homosexual is as normal as being Heterosexual. Even animals engage in Homosexual sex, so should all you religious folks go on a crusade to destroy them from the face of the planet?

I’m not trying to make you people feel sorry for what Homosexuals had and have to go through. Instead, I feel sorry that you lack the self-respect and understanding on your part to realize that we are all human with different preferences. To condemn people because they have a different preference, is wrong.

I don’t give a crap about what a book you devote your life to says. Treating any living being horribly is the one and only sin anyone can commit.

And I feel sorry for your children who will learn that discriminating and condemning people different from them is a right thing to do.

October 24, 2010 at 7:59 pm
(137) thomas says:

i am quite astounded at some of the comments on here.the bible?religion?what have these two items got to do with anything,anytyhing at all..the bible was written along,long time ago,,by ( MEN ) god as u say.didnt write the bible did he? he,we are told gave moses the ten commandments.as far as i’m aware there no mention of HOMOSEXUALITY in the so called stone tablets..aren’t we all a bit more educated..informed and enlightened these 21st century days? oh come on u guys,,aren’t we all too busy with our lives making a buck these days to give a flying hoot as to what the gut next door is doing in bed,and who he’s doing it with? many comments it would seem are american on here,although I see one or two english..in england it’s legal to be gay,,gay marriage is legal,,gay is everywhere oin tv many presenters are gay,openly we have gay shows,it’s what you’d say mainstream
so if you dont like it.thats good,so dont get involved in it.if u dont understand it.explore or leave it alone..sort your own life and when and only when all is in order at home,then u can parade in the streets with a banner,,or whatever..and to quote one of the ( Jesus ) things? LET HE AMONGST YOU WITHOUT SIN CAST THE FIRST STONE<noww think very very carefully before u cast that stone…it may cvome back and hit u.

October 29, 2010 at 1:10 am
(138) Anonymous says:

I’m a 18 year old straight male but have had anal sex with a few transsexuals before and love it. I would also try something out with a few men who are attractive to me. I guess that’s bi? I dont know what to call it but I am what I am and not ashamed but sure dont put it out there. I love women more than everything but am willing sometimes to try out with a guy, and love transsexuals…

October 29, 2010 at 11:06 pm
(139) Chris says:

Hello,

I am not gay, and a gay friend showed me this *shudder*…

I have a few things to say to all you ignorant homophobes out there.

Being homosexual ISN’T a choice. Do you think that 8.8 million people (in the USA alone) would chose to go through the pain homosexuals go through? They aren’t generally accepted in society and are made to believe that they are going to be sent to hell.

If god didn’t want homosexuals on Earth, why did he make them? Why didn’t he make sexual orientation a choice? As far as I’m aware, god may not even exist. The bible could be a book written by some bored aristocrat. Yes, I’m very atheist.

And whats wrong with homosexuals showing affection in public. Its no worse than all the heterosexuals who show affection in public. Letting little kids see homosexual affection isn’t going to turn them into aliens or homosexuals. Whether they are homosexual or not is (as they say), “set in stone”.

Why do all you heterosexual homophobes come here anyway? Its not like your going to learn how to please your bored girlfriend in bed here. Please go away and stay away.

Just to recap what I’ve said, its okay for people to be homosexual.Deal with it or go back to your caves you homophobic barbarians.

October 30, 2010 at 2:35 am
(140) John says:

I’m bi, but I lean straight. I have nothing at all against gays but i feel terribly bad for them. Even though I am attracted to guys… I try to only think of girls (that is possible for me and I’m not lying). I also feel more natural fantasizing about a girl and it feels more pure and religious. I would feel so bad to be a guy who can’t love women!

October 30, 2010 at 4:54 pm
(141) just be happy says:

some people disgust me beyond belief. people with the whole but against god, need to shove it up their asses!!! i am straight just to clarify. but if by your belief it’s against god than please excuse if i insult anyone god made man so god made homosexuals obviously it was in his plan. i could say so much and i want to but it would fill more than this space provides…. to sum it up i am thankfull to have my sibling and really how does their lifestyle effect us?! people need to learn to accept love in any form.

October 31, 2010 at 7:25 pm
(142) gayboy says:

I am gay and I just resonantly came out to my mom. she was average about it and we get along like we always did. She could not wait to tell my godmother. Now they are both telling me that gays DO NOT have anal sex, they just play with each other. I have been trying to tell her that not all gays to that. I know that not all do, some do just play with each other.

I for one like it and I do with my BF. and I know that it is important to get tested. Consequently she makes me feel like an Idiot. Some of the stuff she tells me scars me. I know that you have to be careful in this world and the LAST THING I want an STD. I was a lot happier before I told her, I guess it was a good thing. I still do it and she asks me, when I stay the night at his house, what we do? I tell her “hands only” even though We do both (hands and anal) I am just scared that if I tell her what we really do (the anal part) she will not let me stay the night anymore. What do I do? Can anyone give me advice? A real answer on the matter. Do gays still have anal?

November 5, 2010 at 10:34 pm
(143) Vic says:

What I find interesting is that “Christians” have obviously googled this and come on the site just to give their two cents worth.

I am straight and think that their opinion isn’t worth a penny.

All these Christians that preach the word of Jesus – Jesus taught forgiveness. So if they thought being gay was a sin (which it isn’t) they should practice what they preach.

An as for muslims, Mohammed was a paedofile, marrying his wife when she was 9 years old!! Where is the morality there?

I don’t think I have ever seen a religious website that has been heckled by gay people or lesbians.

I respect those of you on here that are on the moral high ground. (Not you cult followers!!)

November 7, 2010 at 11:04 am
(144) ME says:

Ok so All the haters tht say its “WRONG”. to be gay, You are ALL small minded, judgemental, arogant people. Do you need everyone to be the same as U?, now thats seriously messed up!!. Who cares if its not wat ‘GOD’ wanted… Everyones DIFFERENT, and it makes me SO SICK when people think its wrong because we are being ourselves!.. What would happen if U were in the position? seriously stop and think about tht for a minute.. Wat if wat u were doing was WRONG?!. WOuld you still be as SMALL MINDED, and JUDGEMENTAL?! I THINK NOT>

November 8, 2010 at 8:56 pm
(145) Stafan S says:

We live in a world where it is OK to drop bombs on innocent people, where its OK to put on a uniform, take a rifle and blow another person away,we live in a world where evry other program on the tv is violence, violence & more violence, we live ina world where “religious ” people just want to kill each other daily…..but if you love some one deeply…and that person is the same gender as you……. you are apparently a “sinner” and going to be punished…
What I conclude from this is the “religious” boys & girls advocate hate and condone murder, but can’t recognise love.
So here’s the deal -you carry on hating and filling with bile, I’ll cary on feeling love for my fellow man in all forms.

November 9, 2010 at 3:37 pm
(146) me says:

exuse me but a lot of you are a bit racist to muslims. the prophet mohammed was not a peadofile and cant knock down someones culture and beliefs just because you feel like it. you have to respect what everybody beleives and in matters like this, you shouldn’t bring religion into it as it can cause a lot of contriversy. so next time you racist people want to open your mouths.. DON’T!!

November 12, 2010 at 5:07 am
(147) pixstix says:

to all you people out there who hate guy people you should be ashamed of yourselves. you make me sick and are all jerks.

you can all go get teabagged you ugly creeps

November 12, 2010 at 3:53 pm
(148) xxx says:

it is just funny and enjoy the life

November 14, 2010 at 5:06 am
(149) val says:

Bah! I’m sick of ignoramuses who parade in their “holier-than-thou” attitude.

When they meet a free-thinker: “You don’t believe in Christ so you’ll burn in hell.”

When they see gays: “The bible condemns homosexuality so you’re sick and you’ll burn in hell.”

Well you know what, “I’d gladly burn in hell if this is the kind company heaven guarantees.”

You don’t have to be a rocket scientist to know that your bigotry is not appreciated.

And please, could some people take into consideration the word “context”. Maybe in the prophet’s time marrying young is NOT frowned upon. Besides, people all over the world married young in the past even your own ancestors. So honestly speaking, your 2 cents worth on Islam isn’t worth much anyway too.

November 17, 2010 at 3:14 pm
(150) GoDiSRiGhT says:

STOP WHAT U ARE DOING BECAUSE IT IS WRONG AND UNATURALL!!1!!1 I THINK IT IS UNATURAL BECAUSE I BELIEVE THAT ANYTHING DIFFERENT IS BAD AND HORRIBLE AND THAT I DONT LIKE SHIRMP BECAUSE IT SAYS THAT EATING SHRIMP IS BAAAD IN THE BIBLE , SO U FA%S SHOULD STOP DOING WHAT YOUR DOING BECAUSE I AM 100% RIGHT EVEN THOUGH I KNOW NOTHING ON THE SUBJECT!!!

November 22, 2010 at 2:39 am
(151) Chris says:

I like checking back here and getting a good laugh at these anti-gay freak’s expense.

@ GoDiSRiGhT – You must live a very repetitive life. Being different isn’t a bad thing. It makes you unique and sets you apart from the crowd.

Here’s a fun fact for all you folks – Religion is possibly one of the most evil influences on Earth. The Catholic church brain washes all of its followers to believe in whats wrong, and to become narrow minded and unaccepting.

Until next time,

addio e ci vediamo all’inferno.

November 22, 2010 at 9:46 pm
(152) Kris says:

Haha I agree with the comment above me from Chris. If there’s one thing I hate its religion and the closed minded chains it throws on everyone with their crazy gods and radical actions to preserve something some1 wrote in a book after it being recited orally forever.

November 26, 2010 at 4:59 pm
(153) any lesbians near 48083? says:

i’m up for anything. two some or three some?
I like to travel too. I would be willing to meet anywhere from the Chicago area (or close) to the toledo area (again or close).
I want to try something something new so please email me:
my email is jonsmithpear@yahoo.com
I only check my mail once a day, so plz be patient!
oh btw: i’m a guy, sorry if i lead you on
be safe, and have happy holidays!

November 26, 2010 at 5:00 pm
(154) I'm might take u up on that offer says:

i’ll talk to you soon
just emailed you bud.
yeah have a safe and fun thxgiving and christmax

November 28, 2010 at 11:31 pm
(155) luis.barajas says:

well… i’dlike to say first of all im only 13 and think im gay or bisexual the reason i say this is because ive had sexual contact with a guy the reason i say i might be bi is because i love women and there is a place for them in my heart .

now on too the more serios stuff i like anal and it feels good to me i like sucking and getting

i have never gave anal but have had anal done on me i want to do someone in the anal area but all the others are scared to have a cock in them but they all enjoyed when they stuck it up mine does it seem used when you get fuxd and no one else wants u to fux them

December 5, 2010 at 11:24 pm
(156) Mebocity says:

i am a Christian and i am a girl of 15 year and damn straight!!!lol and even though i believe in god, i accept everyone, homosexuality is a sin, just like being a prostitute, but i am very understanding and i dont hate gays, becuz god said love everyone in their own image, becuz if u are being mean to gays and bashing on them, god does not accept and he says we shud not judge people but judge our own selfs who are we to stop them from sinning only god can help them not us… to all gay people i dont mean what i said here in offence, if i did i am sorry!!! but all people shud be understanding even if we know what they are doing is against god and the bible, how come we dont bash on racist people or alcoholics its not fair on the gay and trannies!!!

December 5, 2010 at 11:45 pm
(157) be want u want to be, but dont compare yourselves with black people... says:

can i just say i am sick of gay people comparing themselves with black people!!!! dont get us involved!!!!

December 6, 2010 at 12:03 am
(158) just me,,, says:

Well I always saw Homosexuality as a perversion like everything else. To be honest, Anything other then vaginal sex between man and woman is a perversion. Cant wait to see whats around the corner in some years. Maybe it will be ok to cut peoples limbs off if it gets you off. I will aggree that kids see way too much these days and too much is allowed in the open. The more everyone sees the more they become numb to it. Its easier for men to be friends with men and women to be friends with women. I guess its even easier when you add sex in the mix. Bunch of lazy bass- terds

December 9, 2010 at 12:05 am
(159) Silver Moon says:

I’m straight and all but my friend recently came out that he was gay. It was super hard on him when he got rejected by some guy he liked. I don’t think being gay is right but I still support him and anal sex is wrong god created us to have sex to reproduce one way. That is all.

December 12, 2010 at 10:54 pm
(160) Tisa says:

I’m Bi, and I’m a Christian raised in a ideological diverse family (Buddhism, Catholic, Christian, with a library of many other different religious texts). Honestly, all I can say for all of you die-hard religious people should not speak for God because you, yourself and even the bible, are not God himself. To tell you the truth, you are reading a dingy, ancient book that could have been written by a dude on a serious acid trip. ANYWHO, I don’t think God would discriminate against one race. I /believe/ that we are all his kids, no matter how different we are from his other children.

December 15, 2010 at 9:33 pm
(161) Caring Christian says:

I find it interesting how many of the Christians who have commented here misunderstand the Bible entirely. The Bible tells us to love our neighbors as we would ourselves. Jesus loved and forgave everyone, even those who hung him on the cross. Perhaps I’ve missed something in the past few years, but I thought Jesus knew a thing or two more about Christianity than the average homophobe… Just an observation. It seems to me that many people, rather than listening to the Bible and adhering to it for the sake of others, use the it for their own narcissistic views and for self-adulation.

But enough about the Bible, and you know why? Because the Bible has absolutely NO authority in many people’s lives, because not everyone is Christian. I find it highly narcissistic for anyone to tell someone else that what they are doing is absolutely wrong because God said so. Everyone must decide what is right or wrong for him or herself. It is a personal decision and one cannot impose one’s own beliefs on another, because their beliefs are no more valid than anyone else’s. So to my fellow Christians, when you quote scripture to an atheist, you might as well expect them to quote Harry Potter back at you because the Bible means nothing to the large percentage of the world who ARE NOT CHRISTIAN!

As far as I’m concerned we can all make our own decisions about Christianity and what constitutes being a Christian i.e. whether one can be Christian and gay. And we can all make our own decisions about whether being gay is right or wrong, but these decisions can only apply to ourselves and we cannot tell anyone else the validity of their life.

For anyone who was wondering, however, I think it is just as good to be gay as to be straight. Love in all forms is beautiful.

December 24, 2010 at 5:17 am
(162) Jona says:

Sexual intercourse as designed by nature is with sexual organs first and foremost. So, do not call the practices that take place between 2 males or 2 females sex. The anus is not a sexual organ, neither is the mouth, neither is the dildo or dolls. Our politically correct sick society is on the planet mars and has been systematically dumbed dumb to call perversion sexual intercourse.

December 25, 2010 at 4:10 am
(163) JustAnotherCommenter says:

*claps* Caring Christain… you got it totally right! I’m only 12 years old, and I know for a fact that homosexuality is alright/okay/or doesn’t really matter. Even though I’m still young, I still have a say in this; All we children really learn from gays is about love. We learn that, even though people discriminate you, you still love your partner. Have you guys ever thought about orphan children? If straight couples won’t adopt them, who will? Couples who can’t make them, that’s who. I’ve always been taught to live as freely as possible, (With the exception of rules, of course) and to manage my life however I feel like it. If you choose to be gay, so be it. I don’t want to offend anyone but… whoever said Christianity was the RIGHT religion?
Thank you for at least reading my post and I hope you guys the best!

December 25, 2010 at 4:08 pm
(164) Dude says:

I discovered i was gay when i had anal, was an amazing night!!

December 26, 2010 at 4:01 pm
(165) Keith says:

My partner of 23 years and I have only done anal a couple of times the whole time we’ve been together and that was very early on. Although it’s been years since I’ve been on the market, it was my experience that most guys don’t like anal.

December 29, 2010 at 5:19 am
(166) Smooth says:

Hmmm… cannot help but wonder why all these religious and “straight” people happened upon this article. Seems suspect, but then again people rely on the internet to hide many things…

December 30, 2010 at 5:40 am
(167) Nonya says:

The only thing that u r hiding is that this is wrong. In my opinion ofcourse.

January 2, 2011 at 5:55 am
(168) RANDOM says:

ALLL i have to say is anal sex whether it is with straight ppl or gay ppl is wrong. i am a straight female and I have seen anal sex with 2 men and it is just wrong and unnatural. just looking at it gives me chills, its an abomination to nature..i like to hang out with gay men but what they do in the bedroom should not be seen..it looks weird and i kinda see why ppl are against them so much..

January 3, 2011 at 7:19 pm
(169) Me says:

I’m gay, I love receiving anal and performing oral, and I don’t believe in god. Run and tell that.

January 7, 2011 at 3:27 pm
(170) atina says:

Gen 19:5-8 ,Jude 7,Lev 20:13,1 Tim 1:9-10 ,Rom 1:26-27 ,1 Cor 6:9

January 8, 2011 at 1:43 pm
(171) Dawn says:

To all who are LGBT out there, you are all amazing! Being in love is not a sin, as for the Bible, it contradicts itself by stating “If it truly makes you happy, all sins are forgiven”

I’m Bi myself, and I don’t care what people think, I love everything in the world as an equal, Men, Women, Friends. I like both genders, not because of their genders, but I just want to find a significant other who loves me back, has a sense of humor, and can make pancakes ^.^

Though it was very painful realizing I had feelings for someone who wasn’t Gay or even Bi, I was thankful just to have them as a friend and I wouldn’t change a thing about myself, even if it means I’ll go to hell according to haters, I don’t care, I like being me :)

January 17, 2011 at 3:55 pm
(172) caline says:

ok,here is the thing, if everyone has read the bible, u should read it again!! gay is bad but not our bussiness at all, ther do wotever ther want. need to remind u that we live in a world of temptation n that by making mistakes u choose ur own way, hell. gay will be punish as heterosexual people too. if gay is wrong then there is plenty of other bad things we do in this world that is wrong too, god put u in the test just like the adam and ever story with the apple. if today iam an alcoholic n love alcohol is cos i have made my choice. a lot of us will be punish anyway so whatever u are, a gay,killer,drug addict etc we will all be goin to hell . anyway none of us are saint so hell should only be temporary so keep living , do wotever u want, let people be, its ther choices not us, if i were u i would care about my own life first not others life.

January 18, 2011 at 12:59 am
(173) ChristFollower says:

I just need to put my two cents in-
I’m bisexual and a hardcore Christian. I just have a few points to make to all of the so-called “Christians” on this board that aren’t acting like true followers of Christ.
A. Sodom and Gomorrah. The immorality here has NOTHING to do with monogamous homosexual relationships. It’s about gang rape, and rape of a messenger of God. I’m not sure how you missed that.
B. Leviticus. Christ abolished Jewish law and replaced it with “love the Lord your God” and “love your neighbor as yourself”. If you insist of following Leviticus’ rules, don’t limit yourself to the briefly mentioned law about homosexuality (again, the reference has nothing to do with monogamous and loving homosexual relationships), by all means, please find someone to stone you since you probably don’t mind eating shellfish and are probably wearing two different materials in your clothing.
C. The Romans Reference. Paul (again) was not speaking about monogamous homosexual relationships. He was speaking about the Roman fertility cults, in which men and women would take place in homosexual and heterosexual orgies as a form of worship to their gods. The point here has nothing to do with being gay, the whole passage is about idol-worship.

(to be continued)

January 18, 2011 at 12:59 am
(174) ChristFollower says:

(continued)

D. The Corinthians/Timothy mention. There is a lot of trouble with the translation here. Properly and in context, the Greek words used refer to the then-practice of older men to take in younger men for sexual purposes. Basically it’s about homosexual child prostitution. The word “arsenokoitai” is a compound word that best translates as “male” “bed”. This obviously refers to homosexual practice- but that’s not all. The word “malakoi” appears aside “arsenokoitai”, with “malakoi” meaning “morally lax”. This could provide reason for condemnation of homosexuality, but the words are meant to be taken together, so that the “malakoi” are meant to serve the “arsenokoita”, making the English translation “catamites”. Which is the proper term for the practice mentioned above. Just to refresh your memory, that practice involves a form of child prostitution. If heterosexual child prostitution had been popular back then, we would have seen that in its place.

You can’t pick and choose your verses to suit your needs. Either you use the entire context of the passage, or you don’t use it at all.

If that’s still not enough for you, I hope you’re prepared to give everything you own to the poor, and that you never again pass up a beggar. Because Christ never spoke against homosexuality, but he spoke quite a bit against material wealth and on behalf of the poor. I’m definitely praying for all of you “followers”, that the fruits of your life will no longer be condemnation, but love and acceptance.

And for any other gay/bi Christians- if ever you need support, I invite you you join an amazing website with a ton of great people who live for Christ:
http://www.gaychristian.net

January 18, 2011 at 2:01 pm
(175) Joseph says:

ChristFollower,finally someone who actually does research on the scriptures=)

January 27, 2011 at 7:37 pm
(176) married says:

I am married to my. A girl I love. Sex with her but I love oral with other guys and I love anal

February 5, 2011 at 4:36 pm
(177) sad for homophos everwhere says:

I may not be gay but I don’t thick it’s wrong, being gay is just another way of living life, I don’t think that people who are gay can just choose to stop being gay and if they try they will only hurt the people they were lying to, including themselves. And to everybody on this post saying it is wrong because it is against nature, you can do research, there are records of animals of the same sex ‘mating.’ The only reason that it doesn’t happen often is because eventully the species would die out, and I have read the bible and never, not once have I read any story about being gay as being a sin, plus if you truly believe in God than don’t you believe that he creates each and everyone of us specially, so maybe this is just his way of telling us that different isn’t always bad.

February 8, 2011 at 7:47 pm
(178) Tj says:

So yes u do enjoy it I’m 15 and love anel my bf dosent but we can go all night with him inside me

February 16, 2011 at 12:27 am
(179) Jade says:

Hey I just wanted to say that I am a straight Christian girl that unlike the other “Christians” I’m not going to bash you guys for being the way you are. You can so be gay and Christian. Any real Christian wouldn’t be so cruel to another human. And degrade them! The only thing that bothers me is that you guys are to cute to not like us girls! aha love you all <3

February 28, 2011 at 7:04 pm
(180) Robert says:

whaturdoingiswrong you are an idiot. I feel so sorry for people like you. The only thing wrong I see in you is believing that God exists and spewing your bull at others. How pathetic!!!

March 10, 2011 at 6:55 am
(181) Sammy says:

Does it really matter what goes on in gay people’s private lives? It Really does not affect you at all? As long as theyre good people, you should Have no hate towards them. I’m straight and I have nothing wrong with gays. Love is love. There is bigger things to worry about in this world, such as climate change, world peace and equality.

March 18, 2011 at 6:16 am
(182) Ferry Silitonga says:

I just cant believe I can do that….

March 18, 2011 at 4:23 pm
(183) amit says:

well guys who are straight(who hate idea of same sex relationships) or homophobics why the hell are you reading this article and commenting on it. you are talking about god and other religious things stop it and leave us alone we are happy that way. the way we respect you people we expect the same.

March 22, 2011 at 5:57 am
(184) Craig says:

Look the problem here is when people are ignorant, they do not see someone elses point of view because they CANNOT. There is no point of explaining it to them as they do not understand what it is like.

You people who refer to the bible when explaining that being gay is bad… Look, you believe in God, and you believe that being gay is against God. Seriously, think of the people who DON’T believe in God. Does that make being gay bad anymore? You particular people need to start thinking about another point of view.

Gay people didn’t choose to be gay. Yet they are discriminated against. This is the same for ‘Blacks’ and ‘Jews.’ They were born this way, don’t tell me that God wouldn’t allow someone to be who they were BORN to be.

Thank you have a nice day.

March 23, 2011 at 7:15 am
(185) Steve-0 says:

Sorry, but homosexual might be in the bible version some read, but the term didn’t exist in that time, that was a translation likely made by a homophobe. The word was only created in the past 150 years, if even. And as to comments regarding Christian ethic, there are Christian churches out there that support homo and hetero, we are all God’s children (as some might say). For one, The United Church of Christ…key word there, “United”. United we should stand, in support of one and all. Thank goodness we aren’t all baby makers, think of it as population control. Didn’t come to this link to read about religious rhetoric anyway…LOL. Came to see it in writing that not all homosexually inclinded do not participate in anal and got the answer from the good Dr. It’s too bad people do not understand or are so close minded to accept that people are different than themselves. There’s a lot more gay people out there than you are led to believe. A lot of them are getting married to and are miserable, because of societal pressures. Probably living in self-hatred too, not being true to themselves…and in those cases…not being true to the creature that God created..themselves.

March 25, 2011 at 12:39 pm
(186) Swati Chopra says:

Hi all of u! I’m a 21 yr old Indian girl. You might know our society is very conservative with over 70% people remaining virgins till marriage. Even then, LGBT (Lesbians Gays Transgenders and Bisexuals) communtiy has found legal acceptance.
It is entirely a personal matter whether I chose to be straight or gay. Something that is gaining popularity can’t be absolutely wrong. yeah! the reason being just that – it is finding acceptance through the masses and these masses do make up a society.
I personally feel it is indeed biologically incorrect. BUT, if u r cautious enough not to contract STDs, and given the current human population of over 6 billion (which does not need any increment in form of active baby production by all sections of society), it is okay to be gay! Just live a dignified life full of trust for ur partner, whether of same or opposite sex, and u r a good citizen of the world.

March 26, 2011 at 1:35 am
(187) ophelia says:

I am straight and i can’t help it.

Some people are gay and they can’t help it either.

It’s not a choice we make. It’s not something we should be ashamed of. It’s a fact of life and some people really need to get over themselves.

April 15, 2011 at 3:44 pm
(188) rickelle says:

i love to have sex do you?

April 22, 2011 at 6:46 pm
(189) Tegan says:

Hey guys,
I just wanted to say SHUT THE F**K UP to all the people who think being gay is wrong. Im only 13 and straight but I think being gay is just fine. I have like lezbian teachers, a few Bi friends and gay ones to. You cant help who you love!!!
GAY PEOPLE ARE AWSOME!!!

April 26, 2011 at 3:53 pm
(190) aron says:

was reading this cuz i have to write a paper for school, im straight, i don’t think anyone can say what’s wrong or right for everyone just yourself. I love lesbians the ones i know are really hot and do crazy things with me :)

May 1, 2011 at 8:41 am
(191) RONL says:

I am an older male who has fought my gay temptations for most of my life. This desire is not something I choose, but rather it chose me. I have been married but that did not change my feelings toward men. A person is born the way he/she is…that is all there is to it. You can fight it all you want but can you ever change “nature”. Can a “straight” simply decide to live a gay life? It is just not in you to do so. You can have an “experience” but you can not change the way you were born. A gay person goes through a lot of struggles simply because he was born this way…what this world needs is less “me,me,me” and “see” that there are other people in this world struggling to survive also. God said to love your neighbor…we all live in the world…to bad there couldn’t be peace among everyone for the sake of “peace”.

May 10, 2011 at 9:54 pm
(192) sunshine says:

im a 14 girl, and i dont beieve im bi or gay or straight. i love people beause of who they are mentally not physically. people should be loved for who they are not who they like in bed, or who looks good on the outside. anyway, my point:
i understand why homphobes are how they are, but i dont get why they dont understand that gays are who they are. you dont choose to be gay, and honestly, i dont think you choose to be a homophobe either.
one of my close friends is a mormon and shes very afraid of gays. i asked why she hated them, and she asked me why i hate the dark, or clowns. i told her it was because i dont know whats in the dark and that scares me, and i think clowns are wierd and different, and people shouldnt drss so scary. she told me the reason she doesnt like gays isnt because theyre sinners, but because she cant understand them and it scares her. she wants to be accepting, but somethings, like being gay or a homophobe, are genetic.

May 23, 2011 at 10:46 pm
(193) im gay and dont like fashion so suck it says:

Ok so get this, im a sophmore in high school who is gay and i have never had sex. But i already know im a bottom because i occasionally spank the monkey once a week…or twice if its been a rough week but anyway because ive done this i now know that,when it comes to sex i will be the woman. i will take the steps to make it safe as all of you should. if gay sex was unsafe then would gay guys still be doing it today?HELL(expletive)NO!

May 30, 2011 at 3:16 pm
(194) Big white meat 16 says:

Hey im gay and dnt like fashion im a sophmore in highschool to im bi and me and my gay prtner hav sex all the time im usually the bottom but would like to try top we should hook up and big time iv got a huge cock and would even be willing to let u try top as well

June 1, 2011 at 9:27 am
(195) hanger says:

all gay men are stupid i wish they would never exist.just imagine a man having another man on top of him and he is just happy ! You are doing things which even stones could tell u are stupid.everything is smarter than you,i wonder how you began duh…you are 100 percent unhappy even when u say u are happy deep inside u want to cry. U HAVE ROTTEN ASSES

June 3, 2011 at 10:12 am
(196) Yoru says:

I am bi and I really do not know why some people hate other people…Is it so bad to be different???I think that different things are good things!!!
So why do you think so???

Love you all…boys and girls…it doesnt matter…

June 3, 2011 at 10:52 pm
(197) Ron says:

It is totally mental

June 5, 2011 at 1:30 pm
(198) godlovesme says:

@hanger – wow just wow…ignorant much? Son you really need to get your ass in school, I’m surprised you managed to even get on the Internet to post that!

To everyone else that says, GOD hates this or GOD hates that! Well you know what GOD really hates….HATE! GOD only knows love so all you haters need to stop hating!!

June 7, 2011 at 9:33 pm
(199) Jessie says:

There seem to be a lot of conceited people who dare to think that they know what God wants. This article is not about God. This article is not about right or wrong. This is an article that answers a question that many people have. This article is about gaining knowledge. People are curious. Whether we were created by God or we have Evolved it is an accepted fact that we create, express, question, and test things. It is in our anatomy to do this. We cannot help but want to collect knowledge. Don’t bash others for what we all are.

June 21, 2011 at 5:33 am
(200) Jen says:

all of you *christian* people. if there is a god, he created every one of us how he wanted. all these gay or lesbian people, he chose their lifestyle. how dare you call what these people are doing evil? these people are attracted and in love with each other, and were born to live that way. two grown men or women that are in love should be allowed to do anything a straight couple would do together, including being married. they should be allowed to get married, and have children and tell children they are gay. and for u *christians* to be so judgemental about this, it is just wrong. god said every sin is equal, and he is the judge, not any of you sinly people.

June 22, 2011 at 10:46 pm
(201) Charlotte says:

I’m straight, 100% Christian and 13. I’m still very confused in why people get so worked up about others sexuality. I honestly believe God has a plan for each and every person. Some of those plans don’t include having babies, so if that is relevant then wouldn’t being gay not matter? God gave sex to us as a gift and Dosnt want us to abuse it by being active with several people. He never mentions if that one person you are meant to be with is the same gender. To everybody that saying being gay is sin, and you continue sinning if you stay gay, then ever think about Jesus? He was on that cross for us so our sins would be forgived, not saying that being gay is a sin. God created us specially with a plan, so he particularly made everyone the way they are, being gay is like a gift. A special gift from god.

June 30, 2011 at 5:32 pm
(202) Gay Supporter says:

For all of you who are saying that being gay is a sin, well heres a little trivia for you. If God doesnt like gays, then why are they on this earth? And your so called bible and so called god also claims that you should love others and yet also claims that homosexuality is wrong. So basically your “god” is a hypocrite.

July 7, 2011 at 11:03 am
(203) TheRomance5678 says:

What’s wrong with homos? Without them, the world would have increased its population by half again now. Don’t you think that the earth is stretched to its max already. Also, don’t they make you wonder how great their love is and how brave they are to accept it?

July 12, 2011 at 6:08 pm
(204) jason says:

Do straight people only have sex in the missionary position?

July 12, 2011 at 11:52 pm
(205) josh says:

hay guys i have been reading most of the comments on here and wall it is hard for alot of pepole to cam out. if you are realy scard to cam out then maby you should do it to some one u trust and if thay dont like who you are then there not your frend at all. for me i fand it beter to come out to my m8′s then my mum 1st. when i did tell my mum she dint tack it that good arther a yar has go we have been geting along a gen if you ever need to tork about eney think then u can add me to msn wich is joshua.loenen@windowslive.com thanks for reading

July 14, 2011 at 4:33 am
(206) Hello says:

In Asia many counties in that continent have same sex men and women holding hand and being touchy. And are not gay. In fact it’s normal behavior there and they do this because of the traffic. This ensures that no one dies crossing the street. It socially accepted there for men-men and women-women to hold hands and hug.

I don’t get it just because you live in USA where men don’t hold other men’s hands or hug them doesn’t mean it’s wrong and ungodly.

What’s wrong with you. Don’t go to asia you can’t stop the entire continent from holding hands. Your kids will see.

Btw I’m not gay. And I don’t enjoy women and men kissing each other in public just as much men and men or women and women. Get a room all of you.

And scientifically speaking your gay by birth. It’s a hormone imbalance. Google it.

And. Religion is a political scheme to keep people ordered and under control. Being religious is stupid.

Spirituality is living the teaching that all religions have in common. Its see that we are living beings first. Not color country sex religion etc.

And before you see faults on other see your faults. When you are perfect yourself like jesus or Mohammad. Then feel free to tell people how to live.

Imagine this. The whole world is sunk under water. You can help keep everyone’s head up and drown yourself or find a way out then reach in to help.

July 16, 2011 at 5:05 am
(207) Greaves says:

I would just like to ask I am gay and in the closet I am in denial but I realize I am gay I just don’t believe it and I don’t want to be is it possible to just stop being gay

July 21, 2011 at 2:46 pm
(208) Thinkesh says:

I am 26 years old guy. Planning to get married now. When I was 13-14 years old, my cousin(male) did sex with me. I was very surprised, feared because I don’t know what was going at that time. Now when I became mature and started thinking, I feared that I may get any skin diseases and HIV AIDS. Can I go for marriage or not ? Please suggest / advice.

July 22, 2011 at 10:00 am
(209) Bobbatha says:

Hi everyone, im a straight guy, but, im fed up with people saying homosexuality is wrong, it is not! people saying it is against god! what the bloody hell! not everyone beliueves in god, and the world is no longer controlled by religion! just leave them alone! and the gay people who believe in god, they have every right to do that, Most people do something to offend god in some way, but no-one thinks that they can no longer follow their faith! just leave them alone!
p.s to any gay people, Just be happy all the time and dont listen to these clowns!

July 24, 2011 at 5:23 pm
(210) proud Indian says:

okay so first of all guyz n gays girls drop your weapons its right that they may be sick but it dosent mean they can change themselves just like us we straight guys/girls we cant be gay or bi so let them where they are dont just be so sarcastic it will only make things worse and btw i am 17 and will love to have anal well i thank god to make me straight its just gross for me to think of men

July 30, 2011 at 3:06 am
(211) Tori says:

Hi! I am a not a lesbian and DO NOT belive in God. I am here to say that it is not a person’s place to judge others.I have two live mottos.

1: Treat others the way you want to be treated(as a real living thing)

2: If you are to jugde someone on how they ‘sexualy’ act, then let others judge you aswell

P.S ‘ whatuguysaredoingiswrong!’ Should SHUT UP, you think just becuase some one’s gay or a lesbian, they are ‘evil’ or ‘bad’, well…THEIR NOT!!!!

P.P.S I live in Virginia

August 17, 2011 at 11:38 am
(212) Damn tire of all the haters says:

First of all.I am a 14 year old African lesbian.I am shocked to say the least.that “adults”as u call yourselfs argue about matters such as these on a teenage lgbt forum.I am familiar with the homophobes on this page.my whole country is full of them.in Kenya gays are murdered,thrown out of their homes,shunned by the community,rejected by the law,jailed by the police and lesbians are subjected to all the above and corrective rape!count yourselves lucky that u live in developed countries.I would love to come out but I value my life.I am a devout Christian (and yes gays can be Christian jenn,Ppl like u already tell us how to live our lives u can’t tell us what to believe as well.god loves everyone and unless u are Jesus’ therapist do not tell me what his innermost thoughts are about homosexuality.if it bothers u so much why on earth are u on this page.have gays or lesbian ever heckled or slandered straight people for being what u ARE?I thought so.leave us alone .if u cannot find it in ur heart to accept us us human beings.then leave us alone please.let he without sin be the one to throw the first stone.

September 8, 2011 at 3:00 am
(213) Guero says:

Look you ass if its a choice then when you see a girl naked why dont your dick get up? Huh okay and if you see a guy you get turned on it aint a choice! It would be stupid to listen to people like you and there some dumb ass goes and cant get it up when your with the girl think okay!

September 10, 2011 at 2:53 pm
(214) Justreading says:

Hey, thank you all you people who gave your thoghts and views on homosexuitiy. I have learned a lot.
?: I am a christian, and the bible says that homosexuality is wrong, but I love the gay people i hang out with. Is that wrong?

September 17, 2011 at 12:41 am
(215) Brain Disease says:

I am christian. yet I cannot hate. Because i do not know if being gay is a choice or something to do with how you were born. Like being born as a transexual, no one chose to be born like that or any other deformities or handicapps like being blind. But to those who chose to be gay for the simple fact of lust and giving into a dark side most others would not even concieve, you my friends are wrong and sick and are creating our own doom. as gays are being accepted so is the ideology of a “free” world. its just the start and to every start there comes the end. so in the end my friends ask yourself did you live a life that is worthy of yourself and your beliefs. if so rock on! I pity the fool!

September 26, 2011 at 6:09 pm
(216) Itsokaytobegay says:

I just wanna say I am a 13 year old guy and I dont know if I am bi or gay. The only sexual contact I have evr had was touching a kids penis with my hand. He doesnt even remember. Anyways I would like to say that god loves evrryone. You can be osama bin laden or mother thereasa and he will still love you. Hell is a complete lie. Jesus did not write the bible. It was fake too. Jesus came here to tell evrrone that being christian just means that u are one of the free minded ppl god let evolve from apes and monkeys. Everyone is christian and all god did was remind ppl to dp whay is morally right or what is needed. The most in a situation. All you haters are the ones who god will help with. He loves evryone and treats everyone eqully. Again there is no hell, bible, or satin. As all there is are humans, possible alien life, god, and life after death. Gos wishes you to do the right thing and would he more proud of u if u did, but he will still love u no matter what. That is my christian faith. I no longer follow the controversial branches but my own branch that i know is true. I guarentee you gods favorite music is the beatles( haha). Everyone is loved. God understands that as human no one is peffrct. No one is what he wants them to be. Otherwise evryone would be named jesus.
And again gayness is not a sin, it is what you believe and what u wish to do. The only real sins are murder, robbery, and rape. And remember, god forgives ur sins. He loves everyone and everything. You will alwas hold a special place in gods big, nice, happy, everyhtingcomesfromthebottom, heart!!! I dont know any of u and wanna say I LOVE YOU! Its not because I am gay but because I am happy with you all too. Even if I despise of u. (if that makes sense) Everyone is loved by god and anyone who says otherwise doesnt know the truth……ÖÖ…

October 20, 2011 at 8:10 pm
(217) gaysrule says:

i am gay but i was raised catholic so i know what is in the bible. no were in the whole bble does it say that god hates gays. he loves all people but i do believe in hell the bible and satin because if there is a good force then there is always a bad one. plus some people r not srry for their sins so they hav to go somewhere otyher then haven. god loves gays and hates discriminators

December 1, 2011 at 9:34 pm
(218) I dont give a crap says:

Im with whatuguysaredoingiswrong god made men to suport women not your partner

December 8, 2011 at 2:45 am
(219) Some people are just idiots says:

To: thinkaboutthis( comment 43, I think), seriously? I don’t know what you’re talking about. We’re animals, too. Just because they can’t talk to us, doesn’t mean we’re better. Wake up, already. Oh, and just for the record, I’m straight, too. So, you think about it.

December 18, 2011 at 10:34 pm
(220) John says:

Eversince I can remember, I’ve always been attracted to men. I remember myself at age 4-5 and being attracted to men. Can you say a little child that age is evil? Of course not!!!
I am sure God created me like this; then He cannot go against his own creation. I believe He does love us all gay people, and as long as we spread His word of love, we’ll be fulfilling the plans He had for us on this planet.

December 23, 2011 at 2:55 pm
(221) Tavia says:

Everyone who says that being gay is against god needs to shut up and keep it to yourself. My best friend is gay and I will support him in whatever he does. I will love him no matter what, and even though Its not my favorite thing to watch him kiss a guy, I can always look away. And for those of you who hate everyone who is gay, it is only because you haven’t had the chance to meet one. My friend is the strongest person I know. He puts up with your crap each and every day, and yet he still finds a way to smile. He’s happy and I don’t want anyone to take that away from him because he means the world to me. So for all of you who came here to do nothing but hate, there is no place for you here or anywhere. You disgust me. Let people be who they want to be because no one is talking trash about you like that. I don’t care whether you are a man of God or not. I don’t care whether its a sin or not, as long as people are happy and get to stay that way. So just shut up and quit paddling your boat on a river of someone elses tears. I will always support anyone who is gay. I’m saying this for my friend, because I want him to live in a world free of discrimination. I love you Justin!

December 26, 2011 at 3:42 am
(222) inform yourselves! says:

Some people just need to inform themselves before posting anything!

December 26, 2011 at 3:47 am
(223) really? says:

21st Century? God never changes, We do!

December 29, 2011 at 10:11 pm
(224) agnostic bobbie says:

religion sucks

January 9, 2012 at 1:05 pm
(225) Trystan says:

3 years ago (I was 11) I tried to kill myself because at age 10 I told my best friend who I went to church with that I liked girls. She told the pastor and for the next 2 months I got a call from him every Monday, he would ask if I had stopped liking girls yet. Every day I told him no. My mom sent me to a counselor who tried to convince me to like boys. She told me to get a boyfriend and then I would relise that the only way I could be “Happy” was to love a person of the male sex. I started dating my closest male friend (he didn’t know I liked girls) my life went downhill for the next 6 months. Then on my 11th birthday.

January 9, 2012 at 1:05 pm
(226) Trystan says:

3 years ago (I was 11) I tried to kill myself because at age 10 I told my best friend who I went to church with that I liked girls. She told the pastor and for the next 2 months I got a call from him every Monday, he would ask if I had stopped liking girls yet. Every day I told him no. My mom sent me to a counselor who tried to convince me to like boys. She told me to get a boyfriend and then I would relise that the only way I could be “Happy” was to love a person of the male sex. I started dating my closest male friend (he didn’t know I liked girls) my life went downhill for the next 6 months. Then on my 11th birthday.

January 9, 2012 at 1:08 pm
(227) Trystan says:

I slit my right wrist up to the bend. In hopes to kill myself. I thought that if everyone thinks what I am doing to be happy is wrong, then my happiness didn’t really matter to anyone, all that mattered was the churches image. I did not succeed in my suicide attempt or I would not be typing this. Anyway my point is being gay is not a choice! If someone walked up to you and said “Do you like Vanilla Ice cream” you said yes. Then you got asked why? Your response would be “It taste good” then the question why got asked again. You would be stumped. You have no clue why vanilla ice cream tastes good to you it just does. Just like a lot of homosexuals donít know why they are attracted to the same sex they just are. . . As for my stance on religion, I donít want to be roped into a religion that preaches tolerance and care, then turns around and tells you, Oh Iím sorry if you want our tolerance and care you have to fit the guidelines. As for the bible, yes the bible does say homosexuality is a sin, BUT the bible was written a long time ago, when marriage HAD NOTHING to do with love. Marriage was to make babies. Obviously gays cannot make babies. So anyone with any intelligence can put two and two together and come up with; Marriage is for people who can make babies.
In the 21st Century love is a more prominent thing, so there for; MARIAGE IS NOT JUST ABOUT THE BABIES ANYMORE. Last but not least if you are bashing gays get off this website and got f*ck yourself! Why were you looking up the topic of anal sex and dildos any way?

January 10, 2012 at 7:11 pm
(228) Unknown says:

I have seen hateful comments in the above posts, and I see most are religious, saying that Homosexuality is wrong and unnatural.

Let me provide you with some science.

Over 480 species that have been researched feature homosexuality.

Homophobia is only found in one species. [Humans]

Which is unnatural now?

January 15, 2012 at 7:02 am
(229) mack t says:

no one chooses to be gay. when did you choose to be straight? for some of us it just seems obvious who we are and who we are attracted to. you just are the way you are and it makes sense. for others it isn’t so clearly defined. the possibilities of gender identification and sexual preference are many. why make things harder? why see things as a binary system? it doesn’t what you have and where you want to stick it or what you want stuck in you by someone else. ya only a penis and a vagina will produce a child, but sex for humans is more than just a reproductive biological process, it’s a way to express love. and any way that works for you is a good way in my opinion.. i pity the fools who can’t comprehend this, they can’t see the randomness and resulting diversity of the universe for it’s beauty. it’s like they’re watching color movies in black and white.

January 17, 2012 at 5:16 am
(230) mybrotherisgay says:
January 22, 2012 at 11:27 am
(231) Debbie says:

Hi. I’m a Christian, but I know quite a few gay people. One of my good friends has just written a book you should all read called “Being Gay. Being Christian”. It talks about all of these types of issues. I recommend it to gay and straight people.
Stuart is a highly qualified psychologist, and also a deeply committed Christian.
People who come onto these sites preaching hellfire and damnation are not doing God any favours. It turns everyone who reads it against God.If you feel so strongly, pray for people, don’t criticise them.

January 22, 2012 at 6:12 pm
(232) No-Name says:

I’m ambisexual, and I’m twenty-three. Personally, I think being gay or lesbian is perfectly fine. If you’re Christian and believe it’s not right to be gay, then that’s fine. Just hook up with those that agree with you. And for the gays and lesbians, face the situation. Society is telling us how humiliating being gay is, and at times, it can be. If you are too shy to search for people like you at bars and around town, find a gay social group and meet somebody.
Look at the first question. Do all gay men have anal intercourse? No. I say this calmly. Some men enjoy body rubbing, finger-stimulation, and a state of foreplay. I’m just going to say that I’m ambisexual (respond to both genders) and feel the pain of both strait and gays.

February 5, 2012 at 9:31 pm
(233) Grace says:

F***in hell!! I HATE Homophobic people!! I’m bi and there is nothing wrong with it, there is nothing wrong with being gay or lesbian either. There is nothing wrong about the way we are. Those of you who are against it, stop going on websites that involve homosexuality or bisexuality!! DO YOU EVEN HAVE ANY COMMON SENSE AT ALL?!

February 11, 2012 at 5:39 pm
(234) #sillyhaters says:

Uggh i hate people who bring god into this its pathetic.
You have to understand SOME PEOPLE ARNT CHRISTIANS
i no this is hard for your small brainwashed heads to understand, but at the end of the day, im a lesbian, are you going to change that? I do NOT think so,
If god lookked down on all his followers now, i genuinly think he would be ashamed.

February 24, 2012 at 6:51 pm
(235) Cassie_13 says:

Being gay or lesbian whether by choice or just by people who happen to be that way, they are still human. We all have our differences, no one wants to be judged, including yourself. I might be straight, however I work at a center place for kids to come and talk about problems in this region. I am thirteen and honestly, all those who say gay and lesbians are a disgrace to God, you are being a disgrace to god yourself. God never taught us to hate others, he taught us to love and care for others. Where I volunteer I have made friends especially with this one young man, who is sixteen and is having to live on a breathing machine after being beat by guys because he was gay, his boyfriend died that night along with his mom his dad his three brothers and now he only has his eight year old sister who was put in a coma for one month and three days. In this situation I am sorry but I do not see how that young man was the monster or disgrace in this. They are just being theirselves. I have seen 125 deaths go through our center from bullying, homophobes or other types of this manner. If you can’t accept these human beings for themselves then put yourselves in their situation, have your whole family killed and the one you love. I am thirteen and all you hatred put their I can honestly say that God is not loving you. He doesn’t love monsters. Everything and everyone was created for a reason, he did not give the world gays and lesbians to pick on them and treat them like trash.

February 26, 2012 at 2:23 pm
(236) Adam says:

I dont do anal with my Bf we just use Toys, I dont like anal.

February 27, 2012 at 8:38 pm
(237) ithinkimgay says:

why are all these anti-homo people on this page anyway?

March 3, 2012 at 9:37 am
(238) Shut up says:

First of all, I’m 100% straight. Everyone here that’s saying being gay goes against God, it says being gay is wrrong ONE time in the bible. Just once. And it only said it about men being with men. Not women with women. Don’t believe me? Look it up. It’s in the book of Leviticus. Also, there are SEVERAL other things in that book that are “sinful.” Have you ever eaten a pig? That goes against God. Are your hand clothes made from mixed cloth? That goes against God. That’s something you do everyday. Do you have a tattoo? That goes against God and you’re forced to live with it for life. The Bible was written by the hands of men, humans. NOT God. It’s full of stuff you do everyday. Also, the Bible taught to “love thy neighbor.” Love and care for everyone. Homophobes are hateful and not loving. Definitely not the Christian belief. These are the reasons I lost my faith. God was supposed to love all his creations. Including gays. It isn’t a choice. If it were, why the hell would they choose to be hated by ignorant people claiming to be “Christian?” Could you straight people ever have sex with the same sex? No? It’s in just as repulsive to them to think about straight sex as it is for you to think about gay sex. There’s nothing wrong with them.

March 13, 2012 at 6:20 pm
(239) Xavier says:

Hey, to everyone who mentioned the bible and how “it’s wrong to be gay”. Let me remind you, man wrote the bible. There is no proof that these people even knew what they were talking about. They claim to be prophets or whatever, yet so did Mohamed in the Islamic religion. No human is perfect, and I’m sure way back when the bible was written, being gay wasn’t widely accepted. Even the newer bibles are just updates on the original. You can’t abide by something that was written a thousand or so years ago. If that were something humans did, we’d still have sacrifices for worship and slavery. IT’S OK TO CHANGE! Just thought I’d say something :D

March 25, 2012 at 9:13 pm
(240) Elizabeth says:

seriously… why so many homophobes? you always say the same argument about how the bible says this and the bible says that, i think you should get over it. the bible was written a bunch of years ago, based on what people thought at the time, you can obviously tell because it says you cant touch leather, eat shellfish, or cut your beard. it also says you can kill your wife if she looses her virginity before she marries you. obviously everyone sins, just get over the fact that this is how life is. and for gods sake, ITS NOT A CHOICE, is it a choice for you to like the opposite sex, i dont think so. you just do. im a 15 year old girl and i love women. just deal with it. and i understand that you may not like it when you see us in public, but again just deal with it. do you still think it is ok to see a teenage couple shoving their tongues down each others throats. no that’s not good for kids, but you complain about how two girls hold hands. and about the whole animal thing, animals have sex with the same sex all the time, like toads, and apes, they think about sexual release, at least we believe in love. so many people call us perverts and that we are disgusting for this kind of sex, but no we love too.
and the fact that there is a study that gay people are unhappy leads to false conclusions, we are unhappy because you make us unhappy, we are not choosing a life style that makes us unhappy, we are living the way we are born and you are the ones making us unhappy. it is a sin to not accept your fellow neighbor. sometimes we put words into gods mouth because thats what people thought back then. there is really no way to know for sure that is what he said or meant.

April 9, 2012 at 10:53 pm
(241) TheyCallMePaulbur says:

I myself am 13 years old and I’m still afraid to tell my friends I’m bi ,I’m just scared of what they’ll think of me. I hope that all you homophobes will get a life and stop trolling on my fellow gays, lesbians, and bisexuals.

April 10, 2012 at 7:05 am
(242) Stor says:

My great Aunt is lesbian, and my family is so hateful towards others because of their differences, she wasn’t even invited to the funeral of her mother (my great grandmother). I’m a strong Christian myself, mostly because they themselves taught me. But I don’t think it’s right to shun others because of their differences. Heck, my own family turned against me when I told them I found no attraction to either gender or sex in general, and I’ve been completely on my own for about a year now.
I support those who are heterosexual, homosexual, and the like because I honestly think that perhaps that’s what God might have planned. Instead of us killing each other or forcing abortions on our people, perhaps God is purposely choosing people to find happiness with the same sex, and to adopt children that have been abandoned by their parents or otherwise (depending on the relationship and such).
I know I’m going to probably get flamed, but that’s my opinion. My own perspective of things may be incorrect, but until I know this isn’t what God has planned, I’m sticking with it. That’s what I told my Bible-thumping grandmother when she kicked me out of her car after I revealed to her that I was asexual.

April 13, 2012 at 12:46 am
(243) peace maker says:

ok I’m 15 newly and I’m stright I sucl at spelling by the way as you an tell I just want to say why do you are what people do or who they love if my future kid was to be gay I would be happy for them to found a path they like and for all of the stuck up blinded religious minions lwt me just ask if god created everything why ouldnt he have created homosexuality I mean honestly it’s not a sin or a temptation even the devil was a angel at one point which proves everyone gets a chance at heaven or where ever you think we go and your chace isn’t up becuz of the way you were born god creates you in his own image who is to say you it’s wrong the bible was written by god himself maybe and everyone has a chose gay is wrong heck I would be gay I if tat was my prefrence and be pround of it I wish I had everyone as a friend becuz everyone one I know that is gay is wonderful and even if theya re mean it will never be wrong don’t be afraid to show your love if being gay is wrong so is being straight there is no such thing as a sin if you follow your heart and honestly stop find the barbaric parts of the bible when you don’t even fillow the simple parts I bet you envy your neibhor sinner so obviously you have no life and just want to have your stupid overly domiticated opinion somewere it doesn’t need to be ans it’s a shame a 15 year old young lady has to tell the world what life should be like freedom for all race gender sexuality and spiritual love

April 13, 2012 at 5:14 pm
(244) ReallyPeople says:

My partner and I enjoy anal sex. I’m the top and he bottoms. He enjoys that and likes to be the bottom. We enjoy the mutual masturbation and other things but that’s not sex. Sex is penetration, duh. We enjoy sex the most, that being anal sex since we’re both male.

On a different note I feel like all the people posting about religion and anti-gay comments are either under the age of 15, by judgement of their spelling, grammar, ability to form any kind of thoughts, or they’re just backward hicks. Either way. You can accept this or not

: BEING GAY IS NOT, AND NEVER WILL BE A CHOICE.

take a minute to think that over in your small minded brain. To be honest us gays don’t care if you believe that or not. It’s the truth. We don’t question your sexuality as a choice, mostly because we could care less. Sure you have a choice to ingage in sexual activity, but what you don’t have a choice in is sexual desire, a desire to love someone, and sorry once we find someone we are attracted to or someone we fall in love with, no ones about to just never have sex because it will help you sleep at night. Sorry. My partner and I have been tested and were in a committed relationship. We love each other. Are you jealous I get to have all the unprotected sex I want, daily, and never have to worry about std’s or pregnancy ? Are you just jealous? Because I sure enjoy that part of our relationship. I hope to marry him someday.

Point being, being gay, having a genitcally chemical balance attraction to the same sex is not a choice, and I wouldn’t become heterosexual if a pill could change me.

April 16, 2012 at 1:27 am
(245) Jose says:

Im a gay. Anal sex is not my stuff at all. I wonder why people love it…

May 5, 2012 at 12:17 pm
(246) Mitch says:

I would just like to say that I have been doing some research on the topic of homosexuality and the term “homosexuality” used in the bible.

The term was used as a way to describe molestation back in the “god fearing” days. In no way does the word refer to modern day society.

If in any way this reaches the hearts of all those Christians, Catholics, Lutherans, Muslims etc… Then great. Not trying to shove this viewpoint down anyone’s throats by any means just using my freedom of speech indicated by the Charter of Rights via Canada.

Thank you,
Out Homosexual since age 16 – I am now 24 and have no regrets.

May 5, 2012 at 4:13 pm
(247) michael says:

HI i 15 y and gay, live in floyd kentucky need friend that are gay

May 8, 2012 at 2:41 pm
(248) See It For What It Really Is. says:

Hi, I’m a male bisexual gay, and I have three points to express.
1) When Christianity first started to become a minority religion, they were heavily persecuted by the Roman church. This is effectively the same in comparison, to the Church and gays. The Roman’s believed in a religious idea that there were many God’s, and Christians believed in only one. The Church believe in same-sex relationships and yet a minority sect of LGBT are undermining this idea – religious people are merely trying to protect themselves from being wiped out – like the Roman’s. As for saying gays can’t be 100% religious, I say: What about gay bishops, they are some of the most religious people in the whole of the Church, and therefore you are stupid to think gay Christians can’t exsist.
2) It has been proven that animals will participate in same-sex relationships down to the same chemical reactions in the brain, are we seriously meant to believe Satan has possessed them too? All I can smell is Bull.

May 8, 2012 at 2:43 pm
(249) See It For What It Really Is says:

Continued from above.

3) I have found through my experience of those of the LGBT community that they have the worst and most appaling quality of life, having to hide, having to walk down the street fast, and with their heads down, just so they don’t get threatened. For all you religious people out there, what happened to ‘covet thy neighbor’; or ‘treat those as you would like to be treated’. I’m sure if you had this problem, you would have a completely different view on life. As human’s, we naturally have a trait of curiousity, so instead of being so close-minded, try to understand those, so that you can actually judge people on who they are personally, and not what you want them to be. And for those who can’t do this – get off a gay forum, YOU have no right to prey on anyone, just like you wouldn’t want to be prey’d upon.

Much love to my fellow brothers and sisters; May you stay strong and happy, and just know that what ever anyone says: You are unique, don’t fade into the background. ‘You are beautiful.’
Ryan x

May 11, 2012 at 3:24 am
(250) bob says:

How disgusting.

May 22, 2012 at 8:38 am
(251) kimy says:

um dident girls know the can just rub there vajainas with each other

May 24, 2012 at 6:57 pm
(252) gaymen says:

I. Am from portugal and i ned some help because i love a guy we are friends from surf school he has a twin brother and he is strait so i think that you can giv me some advices

May 25, 2012 at 2:42 pm
(253) Squidly says:

Hello! I am straight and can honestly say I didn’t choose to be straight. So what on earth makes you think gay and lesbians choose to be gay or lesbian? I’m sure the people who were around before Christ had gay people but there is no way they could ever come out because they would of instantly been killed. Look at Iran. That president says there is not a single gay person in his country. Well that’s strange. I can gaurentee you the people in that country can’t come out because they’d be stoned to death. I have a gay friend who I Know wishes he wasn’t gay because he is humiliated. But guess what? He is! No way in hell people choose there sexual orientation just like blacks didnt choose to be black whites didn’t choose to be white! I didn’t choose my parents and they didn’t choose me. So for all you idiots who say we choose our preference then get a clue because you are a sad person

June 5, 2012 at 7:37 pm
(254) Floating Leaf says:

Sooo, I’m 16 and bi.
I’ve read a LOT of really cruel comments on here. Do you know who you might be hurting? Did you CHOOSE to have the color eyes you have or the type of skin or the size of brain you were given? Heck no!
Religion could be beautiful because it brings people together, or it could be used as a power control. It’s your choice, but if you believe in “God” then why are you being selfish? Isn’t that what religion is about being there for others?
Majority of people are not 100% gay or 100% straight. A lot of them fall somewhere in between. Every person on this planet has thought about being with their same gender. Whether it was a nanosecond or years. We were all born into this world an original, why the heck would you want to die a copy?
Besides, if people of other sexual orientation were allowed to express themselves, maybe, just maybe, people in the churches wouldn’t be harassing innocents! Being so uptight causes rifts.
We are people, we are going to die one day, it doesn’t matter where we’ll go, but at the end have you lived your life as best you could? Have you been the best you can be? If you are selfish and do not accept others for their skin color, sexual orientation, religious beliefs, or whatever other petty things there are to fight over, you have not lived your life to the fullest, and wasted an opportunity.
The new generation is rising, the old generation will fall. The church is losing followers, and a new era will make its call.
People don’t have to live in fear, because if you terrorize others it is because you are greedy, and that is not what people should be doing with their life. As far as I know, you only live once, don’t waste it. You always have a choice, every second of your life…
Btw, I’ve never had sex, but I wouldn’t mind at all either gender.

June 6, 2012 at 1:34 am
(255) ikiru says:

Homosexuality isn’t wrong. Nor is having your own opinion. But we are all equal. At least when it comes down to being human. We’re all the same. People are slowly becoming more and more idiotic. It makes me sick.

June 10, 2012 at 5:42 am
(256) Ulrick says:

Think wtv you want. Facts are the only things we can prove. gay or staight have some gdamn manners and learn how to live in a functioning progressive society. Tolerance and freedom has brought a lot of progress in many countries. when ppl support intolerance and agree with stupid anti gay laws they endup in places like iran syria Somalia. Are thse countries flourishing? Hell no! Are you against freedom and progress?? How can you refer the bibble as an excuse to justify homosexuality immoral or bad? Are you saying that the holy book is against progress for humanity? Fact, Jesus teached humans how to love and tolerate, jesus allowed a prostitue to clean his feets forgot? That iz tolerance at its finest, he treated her as an equal human being and she wasnot rejected! By denying gay human rights you clearly are against the greater good and you are pure evil scrum. Put your pathetic feelings in check when you see a gay couple kissing and ask for forgivnesse for having so much hate inside.
Now for the topic I do enjoy anal play. Unfortunately the anal area is very tight and sensitive, BUT the prostate touches the anal area which is how pleasure
is provided. Learn the male genitalia anatomy and educate yourself. Some guys dont like bcause of personal reasons or bcause they dont like a bit of pain mixed with pleasure. i find it exquisite and fun, i always loved playing with my peiner even as a kid, and through time i learned by myself that by giving pressure near the sack and hole gave xtra pleasure while jakn it. Now i got myself a toy which has the same size as mine and use it responsibly, but sometimes i get homosexual feelings where i get lost in my mind by thinking that im getting rammed by a man and it makes me bleed. Tmi or not who cares right? I consider myself str8? Wtv tbh what matters is what you want, i might only fantasize about men, but women turn me the f on in bed.

July 14, 2012 at 10:05 am
(257) Jen says:

im a bi sexual girl and im yet too

July 18, 2012 at 3:03 am
(258) Seth says:

Well, this part of the site (aimed at gay teens) should probably have some damn moderation with all this bigotry.

Shouldn’t have to deal with a bunch of ignorance when you’re just searching for some answers about stuff.

July 30, 2012 at 12:22 am
(259) VERY TRUE SAYS says:

all i have to say is that the women that are LESBIANS TODAY, just need their GIRLFRIENDS to keep them VERY HAPPY NOW.

August 1, 2012 at 1:51 am
(260) Alex says:

Gay couples are so much cuter together than hetero ones!! Guys kissing, holding hands, I think it’s just adorable! Girls kissing, holding eachother while walking down the street, so precious! A straight couple shouting and yelling at each other in the middle of a store, ummm, no. I see more gay couples showing their love for each other more than I do straight couples! I live in a town where there are more straight people than gay or bi people and my high school has about 10 members in our LGBT Club. Our high school has about 500 kids in it and I still see more gay love than hetero! I can proudly say that I am one of those 10 kids showing our pride!!

August 1, 2012 at 3:12 pm
(261) ashley says:

Ay,i enjy readng and gttng 2 knw various kyndz of lifestyles ppl choose 2 liv,and personally i want 100% equality 4 all,therefore those who say being different to the norm is wrong be silent itz the other persons chose,they alone walk the path with God.let each man/women look upon themselves and keep judgment away from their lips.

August 24, 2012 at 1:03 pm
(262) Kaybee says:

I love anal sex and just cant get enough..This works well for my long term partner as he loves to fuck ass but doesnt personally enjoy receiving anal.

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September 9, 2012 at 2:38 am
(264) Ouch says:

All i can say is OUCH.. lol im straight female in my 40s, and i have had anal sex once with my husband.. NEVER AGAIN.. lol and don’t any of you have Hemorrhoids? I can’t imagine ever going through that pain again..

September 9, 2012 at 7:12 pm
(265) Thatbisexualchick says:

All your dummies saying u don’t like the gay life style?well if you don’t like it who cares ? Don’t live it if you don’t like it. But there are some people that love living the at lifestyle . Why can’t you just support us. I mean saying we go to he’ll and shut up. If you don’t like gay. Don’t become gay or talk to at people because u can’t choose our lifestyle and telling us this rude stuff dosent help what we are going through . Damn I mean really . Just let us be happy. I know you expressing you religion and it opinion but truly no one wants to hear it. Me and my girlfriend have been happy for 3 years and I love her and no one can change that none of you god loving people can change me so why try ur never gunna succeed . And god loves everyone even gay people so don’t pull that stuff on us .

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September 11, 2012 at 12:11 pm
(266) frotislife says:

I’m a gay guy and I’ve never done anal. Genital rubbing , mutual masturbation, and oral suffice for me.

September 19, 2012 at 1:22 pm
(267) gayyoungmale says:

any kind of sexual contact between two people of the same sex is fine as long as both people are enjoying it. @brandon, if you wanna hook up, email me at little7845@yahoo.com and we can arrange something.

September 19, 2012 at 1:26 pm
(268) gayyoungmale says:

Gay sex is fine as long as both individuals are enjoying it and it doesn’t have to be anal sex for the guys or dildos for the ladies. @brandon, email me at little7845@yahoo.com when you get a chance.

September 27, 2012 at 9:40 pm
(269) straight man says says:

gay guys don’t need dildos, but lesbians do. and speaking of lesbians, with all of them out there now, us straight men will have a problem finding a decent woman today. low life garbage women are everywhere now.

September 27, 2012 at 9:44 pm
(270) mark says says:

all lesbians and gay men are a FREAK OF NATURE.

September 30, 2012 at 9:51 am
(271) Stuart says:

Thanks to Debbie (231) who suggested the name of my book. I am very grateful. Many people have contacted and siad how helpful reading the material in my book was.

Gay issues of whatever sort have always been deeply emotional issues. As a Psychologist, I try to steer people to what science has shown us about gay sexual orientation and what the evidence of history, sociology and anthropology can show us. We know so much more than we did even just 50 years ago. It is always good to be able to discuss things rationally and intelligently wherever we can.

And for those gay people of a Christian faith, I offer new scholarship in terms of how the Bible and the church intersect with gay people and their lives. Bottom line: you CAN be gay AND Christian. I invite anyone who is serious about these matters and who has questions to read the book. It’s called Being Gay Being Christian (Exisle, 2012).
http://www.beinggaybeingchristian.com

October 26, 2012 at 11:57 pm
(272) OutBack says:

As far as all gay guys having anal sex well that is just not true ,, some like it some dont ,, in my case it took some getting used to .. mainly because my 1st bf was hung like a mule lol but after i got used to him in my ass > it was my far the best orgasms i could ever have ,,, so to each their own !

November 20, 2012 at 5:34 pm
(273) MassangerOfChrist says:

You all sholud know about Jesus the Saviour and you know what you are doing is wrong.Im not trying to beat you up about what you do but if you intend on going to Heaven you cant get there with sin.There is something out the Bible i wont to give you all it is John 3:16 and it say For God so loved the world that he gave his only begoten Son that whosoever believeth in him shall not perish but have everlasting life.Notice that it says whosoever,that means who ever you are it does not matter at all! Remember this Jesus died so that every man can be saved! Im not trying to judge you or anything but remember Jesus is always ready to get more children in his Kingdom.GOD BLESS YOU ALL!!!!!! With love THEMASSANGEROFCHRIST!!

December 17, 2012 at 6:36 pm
(274) Taylor says:

I’m a lesbian and I honestly can say that if my aunt who is major Christian can accept me then I know god does..it doesn’t mean you sinned It just means you found love in the same gender

January 25, 2013 at 4:56 pm
(275) Earthy says:

Ok, I am straight and Christian. I was on here because I was curious not about my sexual orientation, but of reaffirming beliefs in some cultural practices.

Now, I don’t have any problems with homosexuality and letting others excersise their own beliefs. However, I do have a problem with gays’ freedom imposing in my freedom if religion, beliefs, and rasing my children. If you’re homosexual great, but don’t try to push to make homosexuality morably permissible. The bible may not say homosexuality is a sin explicitly, but in many instances it deems it as blasphemy, or god got rid of Gomorrah and Sidon (old biblical city) where homosexuality and sexual immorality occurred a lot.

I’m no one to condemn you or judge you, as I am a sinner. I may not be lesbian, but I’m guilty of other things. Believe me when I say as far as the bible is concerned homosexuality is not encouraged and god does hate it.

February 4, 2013 at 4:10 pm
(276) Brandon says:

Live in Ohio interested

March 26, 2013 at 3:38 pm
(277) lumpinjeans says:

This is such a dumb conversation. YES gay men do each other anally. Gay women use their hands to penetrate theis partner, dick envy rings a bell?, let’s face it there will always be people that want to try everything available to them in the sex arena, these folks have no control and lack emotional stability. The Greek way has existed for how ever long but the thruth is that the erogenous zone of a man is his penis and the erogenous zone of a woman is her vagina. That ends and trumps all other ideas.

August 9, 2013 at 3:04 pm
(278) alice says:

how dare homophobes be so vulgar and cruel to us, we never did anything to u. and if u dont like us then why the f*ck are u coming to websites that are full of it. and for all u homophobes out there, if god didnt want us to be the way we are, THEN WHY DID HE CREATE US IN THE FIRST PLACE!!!!! the only reason u think these things is because samesex relationships have been frowned upon for centuries so why not go against history for once and stop being history’s b*tch and do something besides picking on us. didnt ur parents tell u bullying was wrong! and i bet u dont like us because ur jealous and afraid of us because we find happiness with the same sex and ur stuck getting divorced from ur opposite sex partners. did u kno that samesex marriges have a much lower divorce rate then opposite sex marriages. 😡😤

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May 7, 2014 at 5:09 pm
(280) Hunter says:

I’m 16 and I have no freaking clue what I am. I’ve noticed that I feel an attraction to guys more than girls but I don’t know if I’m just bi-curious because I’ve never actually even kissed anyone so who knows? But either way the idea of anal sex sounds kind of gross to me. I mean, that is an exit-only zone, right? But some people seem to really enjoy it so maybe I’m mistaken.

Also, can all the homophobic morons just shut their d*mn mouths? I can’t stand hearing all of this, “Ew, it’s wrong, God says gays are bad” bull***t. Two people are in love. How in Heaven’s name can God possibly have a problem with two people being in love? And for those saying that it isn’t real love because we can’t have kids, let me put this question to you.

There are heterosexual couples all over the world who for whatever reason, are unable to have children. Be it low sperm-count, low egg-count, or just a biological incompatibility between the two. Are you saying that God doesn’t want those two people to be together? Would you deny THEM the right to marry? Next time, think before you start talking ***t about other people. I don’t even know if I’m gay, and I know that treating gays like this is unacceptable and God would not be proud of you for it.

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